If there were two guys you were in love with, and they both loved you, how would you solve the situation?

by Nia Posted 2012/07/04 02:14:12

Related Topics: Work, In Love, Love, Second

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	I would choose the one I first met. First come first served!
	I would choose the second one I met. First loves don't always last!
	I would try to go out with both of them. It might work out for the best!
	I would leave them both. It's more painful to choose than to let go...
	This question is beyond my understanding, so I am unable to give a meaningful answer.

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	I would choose the one I first met. First come first served!	2 votes	3%
	I would choose the second one I met. First loves don't always last!	7 votes	10%
	I would try to go out with both of them. It might work out for the best!	20 votes	27%
	I would leave them both. It's more painful to choose than to let go...	15 votes	21%
	This question is beyond my understanding, so I am unable to give a meaningful answer.	29 votes	40%

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crotchrot 2012/07/04 02:16:15

I would try to go out with both of them. It might work out for the best!

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sex one up and do chick stuff with the other one.
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shywink 2012/07/15 17:02:39

I would choose the one I first met. First come first served!

Actually I'd wait it out. Eventually, one or the other will show me things that would help make my decision. How well they treat me is a big factor in how I feel about someone, so if one is not treating me as well as the other, I will definately pick the one who treats me best.
Whichever one respects me, treats me right, gives me my space but also supports me, lifts me up when I am sad, believes in me etc, more than the other guy... that's the guy for me.

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beach bum 2012/07/06 11:44:56

I would try to go out with both of them. It might work out for the best!

all 3 of you should get together....lolz

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Lina Blub 2012/07/05 20:10:09

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Its not about who came first or last, it's about the person itself, I'd wait and see how things turn out and who I love and loves me more, this person is gonna be my bf o-o'

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PumpkinMuncher 2012/07/05 17:24:15

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Make them both love each other as well then we will have a happy 3 person realtionship!!

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mandyinabox 2012/07/05 07:28:44

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introduce them to each other, see if they are a good match!

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carrotcat 2012/07/05 06:10:49

I would leave them both. It's more painful to choose than to let go...

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Or I can make them do a sort of Trojan War.
Just kidding. I'd probably leave them both, BUT if I liked one of them, then I would go with him.

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serethiel 2012/07/05 00:59:32

I would try to go out with both of them. It might work out for the best!

oh man, the likelihood of this happening is slim. maybe the two would end up falling in love with each other, too, and we could have a lovely domestic polyamorous life together.

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Nikki 2012/07/04 14:50:09

I would try to go out with both of them. It might work out for the best!

i would date them both and see which one is most compatible.

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rand 2012/07/04 14:42:12

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I guess I'd wake up and make love to my wife.

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Vision of Verve 2012/07/04 13:25:47
FELINE GESTURES IN THE DARK 2012/07/04 11:29:10

I would try to go out with both of them. It might work out for the best!

Enjoy it :))

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nikhil sharma 2012/07/04 09:56:36

I would try to go out with both of them. It might work out for the best!

i'd toss a coin...........
when the coin is in the air i'd really knw whom i really want...........

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adithya 2012/07/04 09:40:27

I would choose the second one I met. First loves don't always last!

I wud choose d second one coz if I truly loved d first one I wud nvr hv fallen in love wid d second one.... (I refer to gals ok)

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KrSpo 2012/07/04 09:16:27

I would leave them both. It's more painful to choose than to let go...

I would introduce them together, I am a Hetero dud, but if they are game for guys, they might make a cute couple.

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RasHooD 2012/07/04 07:47:48

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as a boy; if i was in that sitiation, i would love and pick who understands me more.
as a girl!: you should test the boys, and see who diserve you most then you do your move

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Don Leuty 2012/07/04 07:47:32

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Move to a place that supports polygamy.

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narla 2012/07/04 07:46:16

I would leave them both. It's more painful to choose than to let go...

I would talk to both and ask them If we could all be friends and I would see what happens In the future.

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LunarRain 2012/07/04 07:39:17

I would try to go out with both of them. It might work out for the best!

I would ask them to be in an open relationship and just go on dates with the 2 of them and find out who is more compatible for me then commit to that person.

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Daedalus 2012/07/04 06:41:11 (edited)

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People used to go out and just have fun with friends (no intimacy involved) but since you sound like you are dating, you might have to choose. Be careful.

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Hope 2012/07/04 05:55:23

I would choose the second one I met. First loves don't always last!

yeah i believe i would go with this one

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gracious43 2012/07/04 05:24:07

I would leave them both. It's more painful to choose than to let go...

If you are able to love two men at one time, then you really don't love either of them.

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mer18 2012/07/04 04:34:18

I would try to go out with both of them. It might work out for the best!

and i will choose the one who I love ....<3

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DFA 2012/07/04 04:18:35

I would try to go out with both of them. It might work out for the best!

3 way!

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Marianne ☮ 2012/07/04 04:08:53

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I don't think I'll ever have to worry about this

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Munster 2012/07/04 04:05:07

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I'm pretty sure that you already know the answer to your own question. You can't be in love with two people at the same time in the same way. One of them most have that deep connection with you that the other doesn't. Be honest with yourself and be honest with both of them, otherwise nothing good will come out of it.

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sally 2012/07/04 03:48:45

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Choose one and stop playing around with their emotions.

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kay 2012/07/04 03:48:26

I would try to go out with both of them. It might work out for the best!

I would date them both until I could decide which one is right for me but I would also tell them what I was doing so they would know what was goin on.

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Lycaste skinneri 2012/07/04 03:45:46

I would leave them both. It's more painful to choose than to let go...

Poligamy, here we go!!!
Not really, I wouldn't choose anyone.

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Aly Hart 2012/07/04 03:42:59

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I kid.

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rhirhi 2012/07/04 03:31:45

I would try to go out with both of them. It might work out for the best!

I would go out with them both and get to know them a little better and then i would decide who is the best and go out with them and just to find out who has more respect and is going to treat me right

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KaylaE 2012/07/04 03:30:10

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None of the above.

I would pick the one that treats me like I want to be treated, the one I feel like I could have a healthy relationship with, the one who makes me happy overall, and the one I can actually see myself with for a long time.

Just because you love somebody doesn't always mean that you should be with them. Regardless of what order you met them or how much you 'love' them.

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☆ElenaDiamond☆ 2012/07/04 03:29:33

I would choose the second one I met. First loves don't always last!

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Choose the second, because if you loved the first you would never have fallen for the second to begin with.

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Sophie to ☆ElenaD... 2012/07/04 05:06:40

I don't know what I would do without having the two men to compare to but you may have a good point:)

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artistheweapon 2012/07/04 03:25:58

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i dont understand love anyways, so i shouldnt have stopped at this question. disregard my vote

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Surgeon ~The Egalitarianist~ 2012/07/04 03:15:48 (edited)
Jackal 2012/07/04 03:15:23

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BATTLE ROYAL!!!!

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Red_Horse 2012/07/04 03:12:06 (edited)
FrancheskahMae:) 2012/07/04 03:09:46

I would choose the second one I met. First loves don't always last!

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I believe if you fell in love with the second one, you weren't really in love with the first one.

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Red_Horse to Franche... 2012/07/04 03:13:03