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If "Take backs" were allowed in our life and you were allowed 1... Would you use it?

CCRNRT 2012/07/16 16:56:30
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  • Waldorf 2012/07/27 01:18:37
    Yes, I would
    Waldorf
    +1
    A couple of "I do" and the diamonds to go with them.
  • Soup Man 2012/07/27 01:07:40
    Yes, I would
    Soup Man
    +1
    College I would be retired by now
  • Xitlalilolly 2012/07/27 01:02:29
    Yes, I would
    Xitlalilolly
    +1
    i've made some mistakes so yeah i would use them
  • **StarzAbove** 2012/07/27 00:59:46
    Yes, I would
    **StarzAbove**
    +1
    Yes I would.
  • CCRNRT **Starz... 2012/07/27 12:35:03
    CCRNRT
    I have mixed emotions. I like to think I learned lessons from them and to have a take back would mean I would have to go through the painful experience to learn again
  • **Starz... CCRNRT 2012/07/27 12:35:49
    **StarzAbove**
    +1
    Take back and forget it, in my opinion.
  • CCRNRT **Starz... 2012/07/27 12:38:46
    CCRNRT
    +1
    Yes, but when a similar arises, you have to re-learn the painful lesson all over
  • **Starz... CCRNRT 2012/07/27 12:41:55
    **StarzAbove**
    +1
    I would just like to forget it.
  • CCRNRT **Starz... 2012/07/27 12:42:43
    CCRNRT
    +1
    me too at times
  • Nimitz 2012/07/26 07:27:31
    Yes, I would
    Nimitz
    +2
    Actually, I'd like five. :-\
  • CCRNRT Nimitz 2012/07/26 12:30:52
    CCRNRT
    +1
    ha ha ha
  • MlssCue =Go Blue= 2012/07/26 07:26:17
    None of the above
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    No, I wouldn't use it because every experience I have teaches me something.
  • CCRNRT MlssCue... 2012/07/26 12:31:34
    CCRNRT
    +1
    good, then that's a positive thing
  • MlssCue... CCRNRT 2012/07/26 12:36:50
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    I think so.
  • CCRNRT MlssCue... 2012/07/26 12:43:52
    CCRNRT
    +1
    I hope it was a positive thing for you
  • MlssCue... CCRNRT 2012/07/26 12:49:59
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    It was nice, but it would have been nicer if it had been longer. Long enough to know.......the would have's or could have's or even if it was a no go & I don't think the time was there to make a call on any of these.
  • CCRNRT MlssCue... 2012/07/26 12:55:22
    CCRNRT
    +1
    I know,I understand, there are always so many unanswered questions. For me, I would use a take back in some cases, if not for anything else but to get those questions answered
  • MlssCue... CCRNRT 2012/07/26 12:57:24
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    Guess, we'll never know. What can you do but accept it for what it is & not dwell on it. Right?
  • CCRNRT MlssCue... 2012/07/26 12:59:30
    CCRNRT
    +1
    yes, that is another way to look at it. We are all responsible for the choices, the decisions we make. Sounds like that is where you are. Excellent that you can accept it it and move on..
  • MlssCue... CCRNRT 2012/07/26 13:10:33
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    I've accepted my part, but to be honest I don't think I had a big part in it, not in the 'leading up to' but yes I did in the finalization of it. I haven't quite accepted, or moved on yet, but that's all part of the process...in time...
  • CCRNRT MlssCue... 2012/07/26 13:18:04
    CCRNRT
    +1
    since you had a big part in the finalization, there should be comfort that you made the decision, you had the control of whether it ended or not, should help you accept it. therefore should give you what you need to move on. Basically, everyone has two choices to consider. Do I stay or Do I go. Once those have been satisfied and a decision has been made,then you move on to acceptance
  • MlssCue... CCRNRT 2012/07/26 13:26:10
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    I take full responsibility for the finalization but that doesn't mean there's comfort, because the above questions still linger. So no that doesn't help me accept it either. The decision of staying or going is not easy, it's not just that cut & dry. Sure I made the decision to end it but I didn't get there alone. I feel like the actions of the other person left me with no choice but to end it.

  • CCRNRT MlssCue... 2012/07/26 13:39:04
    CCRNRT
    +1
    Still if the other person's actions are undesirable and that is your basis for your decision... Millions of people have no decision making ability. Apparently you do.
  • MlssCue... CCRNRT 2012/07/26 13:44:36
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    Wait, you're missing a big part of the puzzle in there.......

    Point A***Still if the other persons actions are undesirable and that is my basis for my decision**


    (what fills up this empty space? It can't just go from point A to point B without laying some responsibility at the feet of the other person for their actions in here. It simply can not be ignored & placed all on me.)


    Point B***Millions of people have no decision making ability. Apparently you do**
  • CCRNRT MlssCue... 2012/07/26 13:49:38
    CCRNRT
    +1
    (what fills up this empty space? It can't just go from point A to point B without laying some responsibility at the feet of the other person for their actions in here. It simply can not be ignored & placed all on me.)

    I suspect he feels badly and probably wishes he could have a take back. Maybe he didn't feel he deserved a take back or perhaps he didn't feel he deserved you. Or a 3rd possibility, he deidn't want to hurt you anymore. Sounds like one of you needs to be the adult and have a conversation with the other..
  • MlssCue... CCRNRT 2012/07/26 13:53:23
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    Thanks for 'listening' I'll take your advice into consideration.
  • CCRNRT MlssCue... 2012/07/26 13:57:13
    CCRNRT
    +1
    you are so very welcome. Remember most guys are immature and childish at best.
    Good luck with which ever way you decide to go.
  • MlssCue... CCRNRT 2012/07/26 14:00:20
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    Hmmmmm, definitely something to make sure I keep in mind! Appreciate the luck.
  • CCRNRT MlssCue... 2012/07/26 14:05:46
    CCRNRT
    +1
    you are very welcome
  • Kalani 2012/07/17 21:24:32
    None of the above
    Kalani
    +2
    No; I accept my present now. I might not like a few things, but my...'ness' got me here, and I plan to stick with it:x
  • gaylehelen 2012/07/17 18:24:41
    Yes, I would
    gaylehelen
    +1
    I'd save it for the day I die.
  • KG 2012/07/17 17:10:50
    Undecided
    KG
    +1
    there's a few things I would take back but idk...
  • artistheweapon 2012/07/17 06:58:39
    only had 1, probably not
    artistheweapon
    +1
    whats done is done, and every decision changes the future, so nope, id rather go on and just live with my mistakes. what better to learn from, after all
  • susan BN-0 2012/07/17 06:54:31
    Yes, I would
    susan BN-0
  • Sammi </3 2012/07/17 04:45:57
    Undecided
    Sammi </3
    +1
    i might have had very hard times in life,but they got me where i'm in life and i'm living it fully now :D
  • ScatterJoy! 2012/07/17 02:52:02
    None of the above
    ScatterJoy!
  • paul 2012/07/16 23:17:45 (edited)
    Yes, I would
    paul
    +1
    I would be lighter by one Wife....... mean  wife mean  wife mean  wife
  • CCRNRT paul 2012/07/16 23:42:11
  • paul CCRNRT 2012/07/16 23:43:45
    paul
    +1
    nice smile

    Nice laugh!
  • amysmeade 2012/07/16 22:56:22
    Yes, I would
    amysmeade
    +1
    Dropping out of school

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