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If someone tells you they are depress you respond by_______?

☆Katharina☆ 2012/06/16 07:58:16
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call them a lier
try to help them
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I told two of my friendss i am depress (which I don't unally tell them when I am or not, I only tell them when it's really bad) and both of them called me a lier and a few other unladylike things. So what would you say?
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  • Devil's Advocate 2012/07/25 03:12:11
    try to help them
    Devil's Advocate
    +1
    I have suffered from chronic depression for years and I empathise. Even if it were not the case that I can empathise, I would still try to help because it is wrong to ignore people when they are truly suffering and you have the ability to help.
  • rawrimamoocow 2012/06/18 16:06:44
    None of the above
    rawrimamoocow
    Listen to what they have to say
  • MissAsianCherryBlossom 2012/06/17 22:09:00
    None of the above
    MissAsianCherryBlossom
    LETS PUT A SMILE ON THAT FACE!!! :DDD
  • beach bum 2012/06/17 06:44:11
    try to help them
    beach bum
    tell them to get help
  • Sister Jean 2012/06/16 22:49:02
    None of the above
    Sister Jean
    I listen
  • MAZ142 2012/06/16 19:25:12
    try to help them
    MAZ142
    if they tell you then its normal a calling for I knida need help here
  • Blonde Angel 2012/06/16 19:10:29
    try to help them
    Blonde Angel
    I will try to help
  • Party of One 2012/06/16 17:51:48
    try to help them
    Party of One
    I talk with several people who have clinical depression and I never question their honesty. I just try to be available, make some suggestions, listen to them, try to make their day lighter by cracking an occasional joke, embrace them, bring over a meal so they eat right, treat them to a day or night out someplace not chaotic. Regarding your two friends, though, I'd ditch them and never talk with them again, seriously. They aren't much of a friend if they're going to question your character in telling the truth, or not be there for support and understanding.
  • ☆Kathar... Party o... 2012/06/16 18:04:31
    ☆Katharina☆
    +1
    basical what I did but i really don't need them acting like this when I'm going though this. I use to think I was strong but I can't handle this so I've been spending a lot of time in my Bible
  • Party o... ☆Kathar... 2012/06/16 18:28:08
    Party of One
    I know people feel that's a good source of strength. I'm glad you have that to go to when times are especially difficult. It's too bad certain people are making a difficult situation even worse by being insulting...I'm sorry you're going through that, Katharina :(
  • ☆Kathar... Party o... 2012/06/16 18:32:18
    ☆Katharina☆
    +1
    I feel like I want to cry but I don't want to because I don't want it to be worse than it already is. My paretns are trying to help and I love them for it but it's not helping because they are insulting my friends.
  • Party o... ☆Kathar... 2012/06/16 19:20:07
    Party of One
    Sometimes it's a tough call for parents to know when to speak their mind and when to remain silent. I would guess they're trying to defend you. I hope things turn around for you, Katharina. It must be an emmense struggle for you to deal with. Sorry :(
  • Vijay Pawar 2012/06/16 14:56:07
    try to help them
    Vijay Pawar
    Will help the person the way my knowledge.
  • ☆Kathar... Vijay P... 2012/06/16 16:59:08
    ☆Katharina☆
    I think that is the best way. Thanks for answering
  • Fighting4U 2012/06/16 14:24:09
    try to help them
    Fighting4U
    See if they would be will to receive counseling.
  • ☆Kathar... Fighting4U 2012/06/16 16:58:28
    ☆Katharina☆
    What if it is a teenager and her parents don't want her going to counseling?
  • Vision of Verve 2012/06/16 13:51:12
  • ☆Kathar... Vision ... 2012/06/16 16:57:28
    ☆Katharina☆
    +1
    alot of things, work, my friend has disappered from me only talking when she wants something, my boyfriend wasn't who I thought he was
  • Vision ... ☆Kathar... 2012/06/16 19:30:58
  • Avril Lavigne 2012/06/16 12:23:10
    try to help them
    Avril Lavigne
    Try helping or if they want me to, i would leave.
  • ☆Kathar... Avril L... 2012/06/16 16:56:26
    ☆Katharina☆
    +1
    I can tell you should like a goodd friend so I don't think anyone would want you to leave
  • Avril L... ☆Kathar... 2012/06/17 11:23:00
    Avril Lavigne
    Thanks.... :)
  • Selkie 2012/06/16 12:15:26
    try to help them
    Selkie
    I think it's time to get new friends. Why would anyone lie about being depressed. Please call a hotline if you don't have someone to talk to!
  • ☆Kathar... Selkie 2012/06/16 16:55:47
    ☆Katharina☆
    +1
    I don't know why anyone would lie about being depress but I got into my Bible cause I didn't know any hotline number
  • Selkie ☆Kathar... 2012/06/18 09:33:01
    Selkie
    Now THAT is the best hotline there is! Great idea!
  • Love Things :D 2012/06/16 11:27:45
    try to help them
    Love Things :D
    Try to cheer the person up. :)
  • ☆Kathar... Love Th... 2012/06/16 16:54:18
    ☆Katharina☆
    +1
    aww your a nice person
  • Love Th... ☆Kathar... 2012/06/16 17:14:16
    Love Things :D
    Thx. Ik! Jk.. :)
  • ☆Kathar... Love Th... 2012/06/16 17:29:01
  • Love Th... ☆Kathar... 2012/06/16 17:31:44
    Love Things :D
    Yuppers :)
  • BritPunk 2012/06/16 09:42:01
    try to help them
    BritPunk
    Ask if you want to talk about it. That's the first step to dealing with it.
  • ☆Kathar... BritPunk 2012/06/16 16:54:05
    ☆Katharina☆
    +1
    thats what I thought they would do
  • BritPunk ☆Kathar... 2012/06/16 19:55:34
    BritPunk
    Well don';t give up. Find someone, friend, family or school counselor, whatever. Once you can talk to someone, it will get easier, I've been there myself.
    Never give up on yourself , it DOES GET BETTER 3>
  • S.E.L. 2012/06/16 08:59:34
    None of the above
    S.E.L.
    me too
  • ☆Kathar... S.E.L. 2012/06/16 16:50:05
    ☆Katharina☆
    I'm sorry
  • nattieaug 2012/06/16 08:23:35
    try to help them
    nattieaug
    they're the ones with the issue if they're not being understanding one bit... they should be giving you the support you need..
  • ☆Kathar... nattieaug 2012/06/16 16:49:30
    ☆Katharina☆
    It just makes me so angry. They also told me that I have the sprit of milpation and the sprit of lieing and all this other buch of crap
  • nattieaug ☆Kathar... 2012/06/16 18:27:44
    nattieaug
    chuck them.. totally not worth it!
  • Badgerbumface 2012/06/16 08:02:53
  • ☆Kathar... Badgerb... 2012/06/16 16:48:18
    ☆Katharina☆
    +1
    aww thank you. I needed that yesterday :-)

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