No idea. I've often wondered that myself. It isn't just that children who are born with illnesses are merely a form of punishment for something the parents did... The child didn't do anything to be punished for... so it does make you wonder.
i think it is sort of a punishment, but the people who have illnesses dont deserve to take that punishment, it may be for life lessons. Gob punished all of us when adam and eve ate from that tree, if they didnt we would be living in a perfect world. It is just like how your parents tell you no, even if they love you. The world can't be perfect, and if there were no sicknesses do you know how much more people their would be in the world? i know death is terrible but there needs to be a way to control the population.
with the fall death enter the world and everything became broken, when He created everything it was good and all things worked as it was created, but be of good cheer the day will come for those who love God when we hear and see "Behold I have all things new" peace
It's a side effect of the fall of man. After being cut off from the Tree of Life, etc. we were destined to face sickness, aging, decay, death, and so on.
I don't believe that god does anything about who gets sick and who doesn't.
I tend to believe god is like a scientist that has a Hugh experiment running.
He checks on it but lets it run its course. Occasionally checking up on his work and tweaking it to make sure the variables are within the parameters he has set for them.
I certainly believe that God has plans,my 6 yr old son has congenital heart disease and Golder har syndrome.But my faith in Him never ceases,when we weep and feel hurt God is also hurting to see us suffering.This is not a way of God's punishment.He Has plans for everything.Believe in the power of prayers..I keep on praying that He will heal my son's heart,He hasn't answered it yet but I know one day He will...and things will be better.
I wish I knew why my son's life will be shortened. The only idea that I can come up with is that certain people here on earth are angels disguised as people. They can't stay that long, they have to get back up with God. I think they're here to teach us not to take life for granted. We love them, then we see them depart. It's hard, probably the hardest thing that I'll ever do in my life. But it was the ultimate in happiness to give birth to him, and have him in my life, even for the short time that he has here. I love you, Aaron!
Who says his life will be shortened? When he leaves here, he will live forever. You may be alone, but he will not. I have had two wives who died. The first was not yet 21 and we had only been married for 6 months. The other died at 42 of a congenital heart disease though her doctors told her she would not live through her teens. We all die, in our appointed time, unless we manage to take our own lives. We are all here to learn to be happy in spite of pain and trouble. Be sorry because you will miss him, be sorry for any pain he goes through, but don't be sorry for him when he leaves you.
I'll never feel sorry for him leaving, just that I couldn't take his pain away. I guess I'll mostly feel sorry for myself and my family, that we have to wait to see him again. His life will be shortened. He has CF.
When God says it's over, it's over. My husband and I are giving a lobe each of our lungs, but it's not the double-lung transplant that he needs. This will buy him about five years, give or take.
I'm so sorry to hear about your son. Watching children suffer has got to be one of the most difficult experiences a person can have. It can truly test a person's faith.
I do find personally though that children often cope with their condition easier then their parents do. Perhaps it's that "child like faith" that gives them added strength.
Thank you, WWHD. He's 15, and he's only complained once, about a certain sleep aid that the docs gave him. He said it made him feel "weird". With all the stress tests and the poking and prodding, the endless MRI's and varying oxygen saturation levels, he still talks about going home and going swimming. He amazes me every day.
I tend to believe god is like a scientist that has a Hugh experiment running.
He checks on it but lets it run its course. Occasionally checking up on his work and tweaking it to make sure the variables are within the parameters he has set for them.
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I do find personally though that children often cope with their condition easier then their parents do. Perhaps it's that "child like faith" that gives them added strength.