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If girl sits on a guys lap, and he starts to sport a "Bulge" that is not his cell phone, should the girl feel offended or flattered?

CornerBlitz March 09, 2009 01:48:45

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  • +10 Eddie ~IMBIT~ March 09, 2009 01:54:24
    Eddie ~IMBIT~

    Flattered

    I would think they should be flattered. If you don't want that kind of reaction don't sit on male laps.
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  • +3
    Jboy 2 days ago
    Jboy

    Flattered

    Coming from a guy, you should be flattered. I know that when my friends that are girls and my girlfriend sit on my legs, they feel the "bulge" and they like it. All my friends (not my girlfriend) know that I don't like them, that it is just going to occur because their genital area rubbing against mine. Now on the other hand when my girl friend does this purposely to me, she knows that she will feel the "bulge" and she loves it. She always makes sure with me to make sure that it is fine if she can do that then, which of course I will never say no. Most guys cannot control this from happening, and girls, if you don't like it, then don't make a big scene about it and just stand up. You also don't have to feel like you are too heavy, because, if you were crushing the guy, he would politely tell you without making a big scene about it. It is nothing to be afraid of it and have fun.
  • +1
    Ferx01 September 05, 2009 22:24:19
    Ferx01

    Flattered

    A girl should be flattered cuz thats somethin a guy cant control.
    and it also means the guy likes the girl.
  • +2
    charoni bell March 21, 2009 17:57:39
    charoni bell

    Flattered

    I would feel flatteredd but i might just like make fun of him alittle like sayin " is that a pen in your pocket" or " did you get a smaller fone" but they wouldn't get mad that is just the kind of girl I am
  • +1
    Joves the Instigator March 16, 2009 03:01:37
    Joves the Instigator

    Undecided

    I havent had a hardon from a girl sitting on my lap since I was in my teens.
  • +1
    w/e March 13, 2009 02:00:52
    w/e

    Undecided

    i don't think either one. i wouldn't be flattered much bcuz it just means the guy wants you sexually but they can't help it and it is more of a compliment than an insult so i don't see why they should be offended. i haven't ever been offended by it.
  • +2
    ~LyDia<3J03Y~ March 12, 2009 09:45:52
    ~LyDia<3J03Y~

    Flattered

    It means she's hot,right?
  • +2
    jrj March 12, 2009 05:51:52
    jrj

    Flattered

    Ha, I'd probably laugh. I'm a perv that way...would that be considered mean too?
  • Joves t... jrj March 16, 2009 03:00:56
    Joves the Instigator
    It would crack me up to see a girl laugh at a guy sporting morning wood because seh sat on his lap. What also carcks me up is when they have to get up and, try to not show they have it. I remember roomies trying to be cool like that.
  • jrj Joves t... March 16, 2009 23:23:09
    jrj
    ha, I always laugh at something like that, I think it the guys don't think that is so funny though... its hilarious when a guy gets all shy about that thing and a girl notices it. I think its not a big deal unless they start to get perverted about it, that happens a lot with me and my guy friends.
  • +1
    M716 March 11, 2009 23:59:50
    M716

    Flattered

    yea this happened before girl sitting on my lap and i got hard they started to move around on it and stuff and one girl we were joking about it
  • +1
    Harleigh20 March 11, 2009 02:47:57
    Harleigh20

    Flattered

    i think flattered but it depends on the girl
  • +1
    oh_baby March 10, 2009 23:48:41
    oh_baby

    Flattered

    ha! if you sit on a guys lap expect that shit. thats hott. he wants you take advantage of knowing that
  • +4
    Mellow March 10, 2009 22:19:58
    Mellow

    Undecided

    Personally, I would probably be flattered--
    Unless of course the person were family, then I would be completely disgusted.
  • +1
    EmoZebra March 10, 2009 18:22:52
    EmoZebra

    Flattered

    my boyfrends lol
  • +1
    MultiShock76 March 10, 2009 05:03:57
    MultiShock76

    Undecided

    moderated...
  • +1
    Saya March 10, 2009 04:07:57
    Saya

    Undecided

    im not sure...it all depends on who da guy iz an who da girl iz
  • +1
    lyric Saya March 14, 2009 17:26:20
    lyric
    what's with all this iz $h!t? you sound like a retard
  • +1
    Saya lyric March 14, 2009 19:21:27
    Saya
    scuze me?
  • +2
    lyric Saya March 16, 2009 01:18:15
    lyric
    you sound like an uneducated hoodrat reject

    sound uneducated hoodrat reject
  • Saya lyric March 16, 2009 02:56:22
    Saya
    again scuze me?...i kno u didnt just call me a hoodrat!
  • lyric Saya March 18, 2009 18:23:40
    lyric
    Perhaps you should spend a little more time on an educational site as opposed to sodahead. We're are all now dumber for having read you retarded, half hearted attempt at hood richness.

    site opposed sodahead dumber read retarded hearted attempt hood richness
  • +1
    rickbo March 10, 2009 03:08:48 (edited)
    rickbo

    Flattered

    If a guy makes a girl wet, no guy will ever be offended. They'll tell everyone they know and will follow it with a bunch of high-fives to strangers, street signs and dogs.

    Getting a girl wet, BTW, has only been recorded to have happened once. No other claims have been verified.

    strangers street signs dogs girl wet btw recorded claims verified
  • +1
    lyric March 10, 2009 03:01:10
    lyric

    Undecided

    none of the above, she should just take it for what it is.....then sit on it until he's done then get off his lap because he probably doesn't want her around anymore anyways

    undecided lap
  • +1
    g!anna March 10, 2009 02:50:10
    g!anna

    Undecided

    i'd be flattered, but shouldn't the guy be able to control himself?
    maybe just a little bit? lol
  • +1
    Dr. Hotensecksy March 10, 2009 02:43:01
    Dr. Hotensecksy

    Undecided

    I don't really know how to answer this, I think the guy should be able to control himself, but on the other hand it is definitely a compliment so I guess it just depends on the gal in question
  • +1
    Dr. Hot... Dr. Hot... March 10, 2009 02:44:26
    Dr. Hotensecksy
    also clowns are evil
  • +1
    joe March 10, 2009 02:06:54
    joe

    Undecided

    I honestly don't know. If the person is self conscious, then no. If not, then yes, maybe.
  • +1
    Kait March 10, 2009 01:39:44
    Kait

    Flattered

    Why else would you be sitting on his lap?
    I mean if you didn't wan him to think you were hot or something, why sit on his lap?
  • +3
    Keri69 March 10, 2009 00:44:33
    Keri69

    Flattered

    Why else would I be sitting, I would very offended if I did not get the pop.
  • +2
    ~CadetAriman Hall~ (12anl.W... March 10, 2009 00:44:02
    ~CadetAriman Hall~ (12anl.W.C. A-S1 K.O. winner

    Undecided

    it realy depends...i geuss both......hmmmmm idk........
  • +1
    beverlyblonde March 10, 2009 00:28:07
    beverlyblonde

    Flattered

    it means she's HOT!
  • +2
    dan miller March 09, 2009 23:50:26
    dan miller

    Flattered

    A girl should be flattered. If a girl does not turn him on, he won't get a "bulge". So... if she sits on his lap, and she feels that he is "growing" in his pants, then she should feel special, and should show him how much she appreciates this "honor". lol.
  • +1
    MUGEN ::: 無限 March 09, 2009 23:40:56
    MUGEN ::: 無限

    Undecided

    none of the above.

    She should simply expect such natural cycle.

    PS: Those guys who get excited by a chick on their lap are in need of some serious ...you know.
  • +1
    sglmom March 09, 2009 23:37:16
    sglmom

    Undecided

    Actually (me, personally) I will NEVER sit on someone else's lap -- so the question is moot for me ...

    However, if the girl is NOT expecting this -- then she should GET OFF and leave ...

    IF the girl wanted to attract the 'attention' of the guy (in this way) -- that is why she is putting herself in that situation (and it bothers me that she has NO Value for anything other than being a 'toy' to some guy -- hey, where is the girl's self esteem at this point?)

    OTHERWISE .. Girls need to listen to the way I taught MY Daughter to handle the situation -- IF you do NOT Want a boy groping you or assuming something "nasty" -- then FIND YOUR OWN SEAT by yourself and don't let him say otherwise!
  • +2
    Jenna March 09, 2009 23:28:05
    Jenna

    Flattered

    I would be flattered, that is the reason that I am sitting on his lap, by the way
  • +1
    Jasper1006 March 09, 2009 23:07:38
    Jasper1006

    Undecided

    I don't really know. I've only sat on a few guys laps and that has NEVER happened
  • +1
    ninibear March 09, 2009 23:06:42
    ninibear

    Offended

    thats nasty i would get off and be like when you can control your little friend call me bye!
  • +1
    Caitlyn March 09, 2009 22:57:55 (edited)
    Caitlyn

    Undecided

    I really wouldn't care. I'd probably make fun of him playfully.
  • +1
    pixie March 09, 2009 22:41:24
    pixie

    Flattered

    that mean she got wat it take to get him up flattered wat
  • +2
    Marked for Life March 09, 2009 22:30:40
    Marked for Life

    Flattered

    If she feels comfortable enough to be there....then she shouldn't mind a seat back to lean on.....LOL
    I can't just have anybody on my lap........;o)
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