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If A Woman Asks A Man Out For A Date Should She Foot The Bill?

luv2skate89 2009/02/19 19:36:11
Yes, a man still pays for a woman even if she asks him on a date
No, she invited him to a date so she should pay
It really depends on the circumstances
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It's well known that when a man asks his partner out for a date he picks up the tab for dinner, a movie, etc. What about when it's the other way around and the woman calls her love interest and invites him to go out on a date? If a woman calls her love interest and asks him out on a date should he still have to take care of the expenses?
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  • Angie 2009/02/19 19:40:23
    No, she invited him to a date so she should pay
    Angie
    +6
    But dammit, he better at least offer to pay!

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  • stevegtexas@aol.com 2012/12/27 20:34:43
  • will 2009/06/04 14:32:07
    It really depends on the circumstances
    will
    you'd better pay if you want a second date..
  • Cassie 2009/03/20 10:13:05
    Yes, a man still pays for a woman even if she asks him on a date
    Cassie
    if hes a true gentleman he'll offer to pay
  • hunt16 2009/03/17 02:13:30
    No, she invited him to a date so she should pay
    hunt16
  • ashley 2009/03/15 15:10:40 (edited)
    It really depends on the circumstances
    ashley
    if a woman asks a guy out on a date then she should pay but the guy should at least offer to pay(agree with Dropped_Shopper)....it really depends on the circumctances.
  • ~YeLLaPoPsIcLe~ 2009/03/03 07:08:38
    Yes, a man still pays for a woman even if she asks him on a date
    ~YeLLaPoPsIcLe~
    no no no ladies i gottcha ....i will always pay for the ladies ...jus sit on daddy's lap afterwards lmao ...j/k
  • danceprincess 2009/03/02 16:48:13
    It really depends on the circumstances
    danceprincess
    it really does.depending on the type of guy and how much money you have
  • Nikky :] 2009/02/28 16:43:11
    It really depends on the circumstances
    Nikky :]
    I think who ever asked should pay BUT sometimes men refuse to let a women pay for them so yah because men are very stuborn people
  • ash 2009/02/28 14:08:48
    Yes, a man still pays for a woman even if she asks him on a date
    ash
    the man should its always been a tradition no mattr wat and it should stay that way
  • Jon 2009/02/25 20:54:19 (edited)
    No, she invited him to a date so she should pay
    Jon
    She should, yes. And if he asks her out, he should pay. asks pay
  • sqrlysweetp 2009/02/25 18:12:07
    No, she invited him to a date so she should pay
    sqrlysweetp
    or maybe go dutch.
  • stevegt... sqrlysw... 2012/12/27 20:35:55 (edited)
  • Royal Warrior 2009/02/24 02:54:52
    It really depends on the circumstances
    Royal Warrior
    Usually I'd figure whomever did the 'asking' should pay, but some circumstances are exceptional.
  • kaylamarie13 2009/02/23 19:51:06
    It really depends on the circumstances
    kaylamarie13
    But, I normally think that the guy should at least offer to pay!
  • ~The Tickler~ 2009/02/23 16:52:34
  • laciejay 2009/02/23 12:59:21
    No, she invited him to a date so she should pay
    laciejay
    I have always offered to pay even if i didnt ask the guy out. if we go to dinner and a movie, i pay for the movie and he pays for dinner or vice versa
  • Devil King 2009/02/23 09:36:59
    It really depends on the circumstances
    Devil King
    i guess, and what is up with the wording, yes means she is gonna pay, but it says the guy is, and vice versa
  • lovely99 2009/02/23 02:00:10
    Yes, a man still pays for a woman even if she asks him on a date
    lovely99
    i mean come on be a man. pay gosh.
  • fieldstone! 2009/02/23 00:02:39
    It really depends on the circumstances
    fieldstone!
    idk
  • NightWorld 2009/02/21 15:14:45
    No, she invited him to a date so she should pay
    NightWorld
    but it would be good to offer they know the girl will say i got it or something
  • hdyh sam 2009/02/21 08:58:40
    It really depends on the circumstances
    hdyh sam
    depends,it doesnt matter for me.
  • Matt 2009/02/21 03:48:34
    It really depends on the circumstances
    Matt
    She should be canonized. I realize that the current state of the economy has changed a lot of circumstances. Men and women both need to balance the equation. Is this date a harbinger of things to come ?
  • Ally5644 2009/02/21 03:06:42
    It really depends on the circumstances
    Ally5644
    Have a cup of coffee or something--- get to know something about each other thats how my wife and I proceeded 45 years ago.
  • yvonne 2009/02/21 00:29:17
    It really depends on the circumstances
    yvonne
    he HAS To at LeasT OffrEr TO pAY
  • norma 2009/02/21 00:18:13
    It really depends on the circumstances
    norma
    hey what can i say a woman is a woman and a man is a man so he should act like one...but if the girl begs to pay he should let her
  • The Cyber1 2009/02/20 21:35:25
    It really depends on the circumstances
    The Cyber1
    He should offer to pay, but also respect her request if she offers to pay instead.
  • Cloud 2009/02/20 18:49:20
    No, she invited him to a date so she should pay
    Cloud
    +1
    The one who initiates the date always pays, equal rights and all!
  • I yams what i yams 2009/02/20 18:37:38
    Yes, a man still pays for a woman even if she asks him on a date
    I yams what i yams
    Only gentemen know the answer...
  • my account? 2009/02/20 18:19:45
  • booster66 2009/02/20 18:17:33
    No, she invited him to a date so she should pay
    booster66
    +2
    I might sound like a "pig" here, but...but please don't read into this anymore than what's on the surface....When women wanted voting rights, they fought for them. When women wanted equal pay, they fought for them. When women want a man, they expect him to do everything??? sounds like "cake and eating it to"...
    I believe if a woman asks, then she should "expect" to pay. Doesn't mean the guy won't offer, but she should NOT EXPECT HIM to pay.
    I almost always pay for my dates. Even if she asked me out. If on those occasions, I don't see her "digging for her card", I'll still probably pay, but I may not want to go out with her again.....
  • my acco... booster66 2009/02/20 18:20:32
  • laciejay booster66 2009/02/23 12:58:19
    laciejay
    whats the point of having cake if you can't eat it. lol but seriously, I usually do half and half with my boyfriend. I'll pay sometimes and he pays sometimes. Things work out better that way.
  • maritza 2009/02/20 17:41:17
    It really depends on the circumstances
    maritza
    +1
    IF I ASKED A GUY OUT I WOULD SAY I HAVE TO PAY, AND IF HE IS A GOOD GUY AND DECIDEDS TO END UP PAYING ANYWAYS HE WOULD BE A KEEPER, BUT IF I END UP NOT BEING INTERESTED IN HIM I WOULD SPLIT THE BILL, AND IF HE DINT OFFER TO PAY OR AT LEAST SPLIT I WOULD SPLIT OUT OF THERE AND LEAVE HIM TO PAY.
  • Jenn 2009/02/20 16:52:30 (edited)
    It really depends on the circumstances
    Jenn
    +1
    ... and on each individuals, (for a lack of a better word), standards.
    Chivalry... such a lonely word. individuals standards chivalry lonely
  • stevegt... Jenn 2012/12/27 20:36:42
  • barney 2009/02/20 16:50:11
    Yes, a man still pays for a woman even if she asks him on a date
    barney
    +2
    a woman should have to ask a man out but if she does he needs to do thr right thing and pay for it all
  • Gun665 2009/02/20 16:33:52
  • Sister Jean 2009/02/20 16:29:23
    It really depends on the circumstances
    Sister Jean
    +1
    depends on how well they know each other and ones finances
  • LinkinIsBack 2009/02/20 16:21:07
  • tokio hotel freak 2009/02/20 16:11:32
    No, she invited him to a date so she should pay
    tokio hotel freak
    +1
    well, i think that the bill should b split n half, but that wasn't a choice so.....i had 2 settle 4 she should pay.

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