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If A Married Person Cheats, Whose Fault Is It?

Jason 2011/07/26 19:39:16
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  • NPC 2011/07/26 19:41:26
    The Cheating Spouse?
    NPC
    +3
    He said and she said is the queston and battle of the sexes of all time ! If you make a commitment then stick to it or get a divorce !

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  • Nyce 2011/07/27 12:26:09
    The Cheating Spouse?
    Nyce
    +1
    They're the ones who signed the contract.
  • TKramar 2011/07/27 10:56:17
    The Cheating Spouse?
    TKramar
    +1
    The cheater is in a relationship, and knows he or she is in a relationship. If he or she is not satisfied with the relationship, then they should end it before starting any other.
  • fireware0062 2011/07/26 22:34:22
    The Cheating Spouse?
    fireware0062
    +1
    its all about communication, once that breaks down, its all about she said, he said, but if you ladies want to be a wife, the only way to keep your man is to produce the freakiest nastiest sex there is... in reality that is what he is looking for, hell all men look for that that's why we marry you if that doesn't do it.... then.... divorce it is
  • Rosalie 2011/07/26 22:15:25
    The Cheating Spouse?
    Rosalie
    +1
    Once a cheater,always a cheater........
  • sam123 2011/07/26 22:08:24
    Other
    sam123
    +2
    yours
    why?
    because you are asking such question that only the person himself or herslef know but no one else
    don't you know that the answer to this question depend on individual expereince ? !!!!
  • Jason sam123 2011/07/27 00:16:50 (edited)
    Jason
    Um . . . yes? Wait, no? I don't know. Thanks for participating.

    Let me please add this is not my personal experience as any of the above parties involved in the question.
  • sam123 Jason 2011/07/27 19:06:44
    sam123
    +1
    it is good to add '''' none of these ''' , but it is too late now, just advice you to live the question as it is, may be somone can confess whse fault is it ???
    thanks for posting this personal question.
  • mrscas 2011/07/26 22:03:25
    The Cheating Spouse?
    mrscas
    +1
    The cheater....duh.
  • Rana 2011/07/26 22:03:01
    The Cheating Spouse?
    Rana
    +1
    Who else's fault COULD it be?
    elses fault duh
  • lonewolf 2011/07/26 21:51:27
    Other
    lonewolf
    +1
    both it takes two to tangle.
  • METALheadMom 2011/07/26 21:35:39
    The Cheating Spouse?
    METALheadMom
    +2
    That is not a question at all. We are all responsible for what we choose to do.
  • lolzforthefall 2011/07/26 21:13:50
    The Cheating Spouse?
    lolzforthefall
    +2
    They're the one who chose to cheat.
  • Ian 2011/07/26 21:01:42
    The Cheating Spouse?
    Ian
    +1
    It is true that the faithful spouse could of,"driven", the other to cheat, though the cheater is the one who makes the decision and commits the act.
  • Abel Lewis 2011/07/26 20:30:35
    The Cheating Spouse?
    Abel Lewis
    +2
    The cheating spouse. Nobody can make you cheat on your husband or wife. Cheating is a choice. It's either you want to be faithful or you want to cheat. Those are your only two choices.
  • I am not real 2011/07/26 20:24:11
    Other
    I am not real
    +1
    It would be my fault.
  • Cantus_bird 2011/07/26 20:18:58
    The Cheating Spouse?
    Cantus_bird
    +2
    If A Married Person Cheats, Whose Fault Is It?" ..... i say the cheating spouse because they chose to take the action to cheat with another which brings them no closer to a solution of what lays troubled between the two in their relationship ...
  • I'm A TeenageDirtbag 2011/07/26 20:09:56
    Other
    I'm A TeenageDirtbag
    +1
    Both the Faithful and Cheating spouse.
  • Jason I'm A T... 2011/07/26 20:10:51
    Jason
    +1
    Why, may I ask, you think the faithful as well?
  • I'm A T... Jason 2011/07/26 20:14:14
    I'm A TeenageDirtbag
    +1
    cuz the faithful didnt do anything to prevent it from happening
    and didnt make the other spouse feel wanted/loved so they cheated to get watt they wanted
  • Dimmy I'm A T... 2011/07/26 22:08:03
    Dimmy
    +2
    You have no way of knowing that, and I can guarantee you that's not true in every situation.
  • I'm A T... Dimmy 2011/07/30 00:52:14
    I'm A TeenageDirtbag
    watever!!!...of couse not in every sitution every situation is different...Duh?!
  • Dimmy I'm A T... 2011/07/30 02:16:40
    Dimmy
    Why are you freaking out? You made it seem as though you believed your response to be true in all cases, so I responded according to how you commented.
  • Jason I'm A T... 2011/07/27 00:17:52
    Jason
    +1
    Thank you for expanding. GREAT POINT!
  • I'm A T... Jason 2011/07/30 00:52:24
    I'm A TeenageDirtbag
    Ur welcome..thanks
  • Sarah TH Marshall Switcher 2011/07/26 20:02:35
    The Cheating Spouse?
    Sarah TH Marshall Switcher
    +1
    As simple as that.

    You aren't driven to cheat...you choose to do so because something about your relationship is unsatisfying.

    It's not the other man or womans job to honor your wedding vows. It's yours.
  • Kayvon Rahimi 2011/07/26 19:56:41
    Other
    Kayvon Rahimi
    +1
    It differs per situation, because the faithful spouse could drive the 'cheater' into the 'others' arms, but the cheater could also seduce the other without the spouse knowing or the other could seduce the cheater, which would have effect because the faithful spouse is not giving enough attention/love to the cheater.

    If you could give a clear example, than this answer can be answered with a clear answer.
  • User Deactivated 2011/07/26 19:42:22
    The Cheating Spouse?
    User Deactivated
    +1
    The only one responsible for the act of cheating is the cheater. The other person can obviously contribute to what leads up to the cheating, but they don't make that decision for the cheater. If you aren't getting what you need or want out of a relationship, you owe it to the other person to just break it off with them when and if you can't work things out.
  • NPC 2011/07/26 19:41:26
    The Cheating Spouse?
    NPC
    +3
    He said and she said is the queston and battle of the sexes of all time ! If you make a commitment then stick to it or get a divorce !
  • wolf sloan 2011/07/26 19:41:04 (edited)
    Other
    wolf sloan
  • NPC wolf sloan 2011/07/26 19:42:45
    NPC
    +2
    You are right. It is always Bush fault no matter what.
  • Jason wolf sloan 2011/07/26 19:42:54
    Jason
    +1
    Hilarious!
  • wolf sloan Jason 2011/07/26 19:43:47
    wolf sloan
    +1
    Sorry, I couldn't resist
  • Jason wolf sloan 2011/07/26 19:44:34
    Jason
    +1
    No problem, it was funny.

    Any thoughts on the post?
  • wolf sloan Jason 2011/07/26 19:48:09
    wolf sloan
    +1
    My first instinct is to say "the cheating spouse" who needed the other man/women to pull it off. But you have to wonder how strong the marriage was in the first place
  • Jason wolf sloan 2011/07/26 19:49:58
    Jason
    +1
    GREAT point. I know plenty of married women that have reached their fills with their husbands.

    I'm not saying it's cool for them to go have an affair, but many partners do not treat their spouses with the necessary respect.
  • wolf sloan Jason 2011/07/26 19:53:53
    wolf sloan
    +1
    I'm sure that there are plenty of those "staying together for the sake of the kids" that figure in there too.
  • Jason wolf sloan 2011/07/26 19:58:13
    Jason
    +1
    Again, wonderful point. That is something else I hear. "If it wasn't for the kids . . . "

    It really blows my mind how many unhappily married women (and men) there are. It's kinda sad.
  • Jason 2011/07/26 19:40:01
    The Cheating Spouse?
    Jason
    +1
    It takes two to tango, but at the end of the day we are responsible for our own actions . . .

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