If a couple does a lot of fighting should they seperate or can they work it out ?

by Tudie BN Posted 2012/06/10 06:00:12

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blindfaith 2012/06/10 19:21:20

Undecided

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There are so many 'ifs', the only people who have the answer are the couple concerned. Some folk thrive on conflict, and shouting is simply that...hot air !!
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NYCbrit 2012/06/20 09:55:14

Undecided

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It depends on the couple and how seriously they take their vows.

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romie 2012/06/14 23:07:22

No

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lets not wait for the future to be dark

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the judgebigdogeagle 2012/06/13 18:35:13

Undecided

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I worked security but friends who worked with me told of the classic couple fighting near blows.But when security shows up,the couple turn on the guards & walk away holding hands. Go Figure.

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Tudie BN to the jud... 2012/06/14 23:44:27

Thanks The Judge ! lol

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the jud... to Tudie BN 2012/06/14 23:58:20

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aidet 2012/06/11 23:45:46

Undecided

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i think they should try to work it out and try to figure out why they're fighting so much but if it is just really bad then it would probably be best to end it...

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syl 2012/06/11 21:19:13

None of the above

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Fighting is so stressful! And what does it accomplish?

If there's little kids-what a horrible atmosphere for them to be in!!

I like PEACE & QUIET.

I HATE to hear people yelling at each other & fighting.

Hopefully people will get counseling, but rarely do. In fact, they usually don't want to hear it, because there's some accountability involved, & people don't want their "laundry" out for everybody to see!

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frank 2012/06/11 20:10:38

Other

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If it's vocal they can try to work it out, if it is physical NO WAY they need to separate perpetually.

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Maddog 2012/06/11 19:28:24

Other

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Some people do seem to thrive on conflict it's the glue that keeps them together, in a kind of weird symbiosis.

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poet4justice 2012/06/11 16:15:01

Other

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any relationship is workable, if one agree to the lifestyle of the other.

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Tudie BN to poet4ju... 2012/06/11 21:30:40

Thanks Poet4justice !

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shadow76 2012/06/11 11:45:34

Other

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Work it out

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Tudie BN to shadow76 2012/06/11 15:31:55

Thanks shadow76 !

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Jorge Enriquez 2012/06/11 07:50:47 (edited)

Yes

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i remember a quote from LA MEXICANA

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Tudie BN to Jorge E... 2012/06/11 15:31:39

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Thanks Jorge ! : )

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The One 2012/06/11 07:22:04
VintageLys 2012/06/11 05:04:48

No

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can work it out

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Tudie BN to VintageLys 2012/06/11 05:37:22

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Thanks VintageLys !

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♥dreamer-leigh♥ 2012/06/11 03:38:03

Other

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If any couple does alot of fighting...truly they can not be in love or do not fully understand what love is

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Tudie BN to ♥dreame... 2012/06/11 05:37:04

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Thanks dreamer_leigh !

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Moonbeams 2012/06/11 03:27:19 (edited)

Other

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"Life is very short, and there's no time, for fussing and fighting my friend"

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Tudie BN to Moonbeams 2012/06/11 05:36:39

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Thanks Moonbeams !

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Moonbeams to Tudie BN 2012/06/11 20:14:17

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With pleasure, Tudie!

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Captain-Morgan 2012/06/11 02:47:22

None of the above

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WHERE THERE IS A WILL THERE IS ALWAYS A WAY TO WORK THINGS OUT..

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Tudie BN to Captain... 2012/06/11 05:36:20

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Thanks CAPTAIN MORGAN !

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kurtanderson1 2012/06/11 00:51:28

Undecided

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It depends on what the problem is. A lot of people will become actors until they land their partner, then the real person comes out. I've seen this a lot.

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Tudie BN to kurtand... 2012/06/11 05:35:48

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Thanks kurt !

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beach bum 2012/06/10 22:31:04

Other

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seek counseling

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Tudie BN to beach bum 2012/06/10 23:00:43

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Thanks darthoz !

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beach bum to Tudie BN 2012/06/11 10:25:23

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yw tudie

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lyle 2012/06/10 22:15:54

None of the above

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we seem to know a lot more about 'holding grudges' than how to forgive

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Tudie BN to lyle 2012/06/10 23:01:10

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Thanks lyle !

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Freeranger 2012/06/10 21:43:16

None of the above

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Who knows. If they're bright enough, perhaps see the writing on the wall and move on if it's continuous. Life is too short.....

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Mel 2012/06/10 21:15:27

Other

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Sounds as if they need counseling. if that doesn't work, then time to separate.

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Raphy 2012/06/10 20:40:23

No

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We all have different personalities. But try to work it out. I'm not married, so my opinion shouldn't mater......

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13_JunkyardDog 2012/06/10 19:57:47

Yes

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because this is not a yes-no question

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blindfaith 2012/06/10 19:21:20

Undecided

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There are so many 'ifs', the only people who have the answer are the couple concerned. Some folk thrive on conflict, and shouting is simply that...hot air !!

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Lizzy 2012/06/10 19:19:59

Yes

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What is the point of living with someone if you argue so much ? !!.
Selfishness is often the cause of troubles in a relationship.

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blindfaith to Lizzy 2012/06/10 19:23:01

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The voice of wisdom :)

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Tudie BN to Lizzy 2012/06/10 19:25:05

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Thanks Lizzy !

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