I really think that I'm bi sexual... But Got prohibits this... What should I do? What should I say to my family?

by ~Here Comes The Sun~ Posted 2012/08/20 03:16:17

Related Topics: God, Family, Gay, Religious, Sexual, lesbians, Lesbian

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I was a atheist before, now I'm on the path of being religious.
I Know that God doesn't like gays, lesbians and bi's... But I cant help feeling this way.

Luke 2012/08/20 13:28:43

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Be yourself, Be a kind person, and be honest with the family.... that's all you can do.
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adeenmckenziekennedy 2012/09/08 17:30:05

My best advice is to pray about it.

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BlondeAphrodite 2012/08/21 03:20:44

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why spend your life begging to be forgiven? you only get one live it! You can ask for forgiveness on your deathbed

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Luke 2012/08/20 13:28:43

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Be yourself, Be a kind person, and be honest with the family.... that's all you can do.

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Ben 2012/08/20 11:14:22

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If there is a God, then He/She/It/They will be morally advanced enough to love and accept you no matter what your sexuality. Anyone who tells you different is just trying to push their own prejudices onto what they believe God is.

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Radical Ed 2012/08/20 06:49:47 (edited)

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ignore the religious bigotry, if a god exists then it wouldn't care what sexual orientation you are.

edit: there are several on this post that are proselytizing and calling it a sin. ignore them, they are idiots.

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Simeon~thegayliberal 2012/08/20 06:01:55

The idea that "God doesn't like gays" is a highly contested one. I know it's too much to ask you to read all of what's in this link (I have read it), but it is a really in-depth discussion of the opposite side of the arugment: http://www.soulforce.org/reso...

I know plenty of gay Christians who do not live in shame.

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Muskoka 2012/08/20 05:39:48

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God does not prohibits it at all. The Old Testament was abandon by christians decades ago and they no longer follow it.

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Radical Ed to Muskoka 2012/08/20 06:48:34

yet people still follow it. the abrahamic books can be interpreted in soo many ways that anything can be true if looks at the right way.

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Muskoka to Radical Ed 2012/08/21 02:34:43

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The Jews still follow it. Christians use it to point fingers at other groups they do not approve of.

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Metaldane 2012/08/20 04:53:40

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Well I'd were gonna go by your guy's logic "god" created you as you are so shouldn't you be yourself? there's always the chance that the guys who wrote up the bible got things wrong.

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Tigerlilycoconut 2012/08/20 04:25:20

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You are who you are. No one can change that, and according to all religions, no one on this Earth has the right to judge you.

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Leprachaun999 2012/08/20 04:11:27

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Any God worth worshiping would except you for who you are.

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★earthbound_misfit★ 2012/08/20 04:10:44 (edited)

Keep praying and reading the Bible, let God guide you on a personal level and reveal His will for your life. I honestly don't know if God has a problem with homosexuality in the context it's practiced in today...but I do know He loves everyone, including homosexual and bi people, and He will help you change if that's His will. Never let your struggles prevent you from coming closer to God.
As for what to say to your family, are you talking about being religious or being bi? Either way, I think honesty is the best policy, but you don't have to tell them everything right away.

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diane RN 2012/08/20 04:03:24

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You should tell your family that you dont know how to spell, lol.

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~Here C... to diane RN 2012/08/20 04:12:11

Funny.... I CAN spell....

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diane RN to ~Here C... 2012/08/20 04:37:13

Well than good thing you deleted your post

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~Here C... to diane RN 2012/08/20 15:16:58

What post? I didn't delete any post.....

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☆The Rock☆ * AFCL* The Sher... 2012/08/20 03:52:28

He loves all homosexuals, he just hates the sin..Repent of it and turn to God..Jesus can set you free from it..Believe me everybody has a sin that they have a hard time dealing with..God loves you despite of yourself..He will never hate you!

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Red 2012/08/20 03:48:39
abigail-13 2012/08/20 03:48:36

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God loves us jus the way we r. We aren't perfect and he will accept u jus the way u r. I'm bi as well and realized its ok as long as i have faith and love god. And well idk about tellin ur parents i don't tell mine. I suggest u try and investigate there opinions on gays and bis and if they really don't care then tell em if they discriminate em don't tell em. Good luck!

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★Calliope★ 2012/08/20 03:47:56

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God loves all his folks EQUALLY.

Don't listen to propaganda.

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Bibliophilic 2012/08/20 03:41:44

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If any type of god exists I highly doubt that he/she would dislike you just because you're bisexual.

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☆astac☆ 2012/08/20 03:38:56

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God likes all people, God may not approve of what we do, but it is between you and your God on how you will be judged. Depending on how you lead your life, and how you treat others is all that really matters. Keeping your sexual decisions as private affairs would be a great start

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John Storz 2012/08/20 03:36:29

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last time I heard god was supposed to love everyone, and if your religion tells you different you might want to reconsider that faith...

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Asim 2012/08/20 03:32:51

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Don't worry about that. You are what you are, and not many people follow God's word 100% anyway. :)

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XXrawwwrXX 2012/08/20 03:23:25

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i think its perfectly fine to be straight, gay, or bisexual. no one can tell you who you are, not even god.

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☆stillthe12c☆ 2012/08/20 03:22:06

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Follow the word of God the best that you can. There is not one of us without sin not one. Try to avoid getting in situation that would expose your weakness. May God bless and strengthen You.

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