I love a guy,n v were into relationship frm 9 yrs.he loves me too,but he says v cant get married as his mom wont accept me,he has broken up with me since 5yrs back,but still he has physical relation with me,i dont know what to do.will he marry me?

by crazydeeps Posted 2011/12/13 13:42:29

Related Topics: Relationship, Physical, Love, Married, Marry, Mom

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Freedom4 2011/12/15 15:38:57

Of you are asking this to us because you already know you need to get rid of him. Se times the eight decision os not always the easy one buy your life will be better off in the long run. Your life would have even been better if you did not waste 9 years with the dead beat.

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Freedom4 2011/12/15 15:35:42

It sounds like he does not respect you at all. Get rid of him. Take the time to think about why you have put up with this so long. There are plenty of good people out there. Dump the loser and break all toes completely.

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Hobbitt / Oldsquid 2011/12/13 19:18:11

Move on

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crazydeeps to Hobbitt... 2011/12/14 05:06:52

m tryin to since 5 yrs but m unable..

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Hobbitt... to crazydeeps 2011/12/14 22:47:09

find anothe guy who will treat you right...they are still out there

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classic 2011/12/13 16:05:27

+1
Maybe he should marry his mother. Cause he damn sure doesnt love you.

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crazydeeps to classic 2011/12/14 05:07:42

u really think so..?

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oros 2011/12/13 15:57:29

A word from the ancient you are a lucky girl who would want a guy like that.
A real man puts the women who has chosen him for a husband above all others.

Weasel forget him a real man is waiting for you. Get on with your life..

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crazydeeps to oros 2011/12/14 05:08:29

+1
cant der b ne other way out..?

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oros to crazydeeps 2011/12/14 05:15:59

Sorry it hurts like hell I know but that felling will pass, time will heal and at least it means you can love and are alive, go out and do crazy happy things don't dwell in the mind.

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crazydeeps to oros 2011/12/14 05:17:55

+1
thanks,i hope i hav better life ahead. :-)

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oros to crazydeeps 2011/12/14 05:20:11

Oh you will thats for sure you are young the ride is just starting go out and have fun.

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La 2011/12/13 15:34:33

Probably not.

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Hannie 2011/12/13 15:24:08 (edited)

+1
Sounds like to me that wants a relationship without the commitment. If he really wanted it, it wouldn't matter what mom says.

Edit: ↓ They're right too.

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crazydeeps to Hannie 2011/12/14 05:08:48

+1
yaa i too think so.

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Hannie to crazydeeps 2011/12/14 23:04:51

You should find someone better than that.

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Mr.Steve 2011/12/13 14:35:57
crazydeeps to Mr.Steve 2011/12/13 14:37:23

+1
its nt dat easy,v wer into relationship since 9 yrs.

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Mr.Steve to crazydeeps 2011/12/13 15:02:46
crazydeeps to Mr.Steve 2011/12/14 05:09:49

+1
i really dnt trust ne guy now..

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Mr.Steve to crazydeeps 2011/12/14 11:56:55
autumnfae 2011/12/13 14:24:39

I'm sorry ... but if the man picked mommy over you ( he did this when he broke up with you because she won't "approve") then I think your best bet is to move on ..

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crazydeeps to autumnfae 2011/12/13 14:26:46

+1
i love him.m unable to move on.

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autumnfae to crazydeeps 2011/12/13 14:29:33

You won't be able to until you realize you deserve better ... The relationship is supposed to be with man and woman, not man woman and mommy ..
what happens if you get pregnant? if you want to do something for or with baby but mommy doesn't want it to happen that way ... history shows he will listen to his mommy over you and that is an all around bad situation

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classic to crazydeeps 2011/12/13 16:08:37

How old are you, Jeeez get a grip, life goes forward, put yourself out there, you will find a man that will love you, the world is full of them.. What are you going to do.. the dude doesnt want to marry you, he is using his mother as an excuse..Why would you want someone like that?

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crazydeeps to classic 2011/12/14 05:11:38

naa.but y dis hapned wid me..?i nvr cheated him,i was always loyal 2 him..though i knw he wnt marry me,i still love him.

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Fran-Halen 2011/12/13 14:06:36

Not til his mom let's go of that damn umbilical cord.

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Kelly Stevenson 2011/12/13 13:46:18

+1
Have you ever asked him again?

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crazydeeps to Kelly S... 2011/12/13 13:49:30

+1
yes i have asked him many times but he still says the same thing,n basically he is my mom's best frnd's son,v know each other's family well,he is afraid that if he marries me,then v can b the reason to spoil r family's relation,but he loves me,yet afraid to get married to me.

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Kelly S... to crazydeeps 2011/12/13 13:50:43

Well the best thing for you to do is either marry him or move on and find somebody else

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crazydeeps to Kelly S... 2011/12/13 13:52:01

+2
i want to marry him,i cant think of any one else.. :-(,n i cant marry him until n unless he wants to.

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Kelly S... to crazydeeps 2011/12/13 13:52:53

Ask him why he thinks his mom won't acept you?

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crazydeeps to Kelly S... 2011/12/13 14:06:27

+2
well kelly thanks fr taking interest.i really felt nice.

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Kelly S... to crazydeeps 2011/12/13 14:08:58

+1
Not a problem that is why i'm her just to help. Message me i want o tell you something that might shock you just don't tell anybody else if you promise not to i'll tell you

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crazydeeps to Kelly S... 2011/12/13 14:10:51

+2
hey wats dat..?

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crazydeeps to Kelly S... 2011/12/13 14:15:31

+1
m waiting,promise i wont tel ne 1,wat shocking thing u knw..?

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Kelly S... to crazydeeps 2011/12/13 14:27:50

add me as a friend and i will tell you

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