How should a woman of 65 years old react when her husband tells her that she is fat and he does not make love to a fat woman nor does he sees himself been married to a fat woman? I am 5'4 weight 158, size 12 or size 10 clothes.

by Ms Cardinal Posted 2012/04/27 12:31:38

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lin sugar lips 2012/04/27 13:06:01

no, he should look at himself first

+6
I would tell him I wouldn't make love to a big mouth little dick of a man!!!! lol
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Muskoka 2012/04/28 01:38:27

no, he should look at himself first

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She needs to tell him to get over himself and learn to respect her and what she has given him in the life time they have spent together.

If he continues with that kind of rant, I would kick his sorry ass out the door.

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oldlady 2012/04/28 00:28:55

no, he should look at himself first

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Get all the important finantual paperwork out of the house, remove money out of bank accounts then talk to a lawyer. He's getting ready to screw you like he never did before!!!

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Muskoka to oldlady 2012/04/28 01:39:16

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I think you have an excellent plan.

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oldlady to Muskoka 2012/04/28 02:15:11 (edited)

Take it from someone who knows when a man or woman is an ass. Once the lines are drawn like the one that ass put out, well it's time to forget about love and think survival of the fit. He's the problem, not her. No doubt we both wish her the best ;-)

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Muskoka to oldlady 2012/04/28 03:26:10

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You are definitely right about that ass drawing a line and he should be buried on the other side of it.

That lady needs to get her act together quickly, get her finances in order and get her self on the high road to a great new life.

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Just me ∞ijm♥G☮F♀U∞ 2012/04/27 19:28:43

Looks don't matter

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Makes me wonder if he isn't saying that to you b/c he is trying to deal with a little problem of his own....*IMPOTENCE*. He doesn't want to be a problem and so he has to create one for you. 5'4 and 158# is a little curvy...not hugely obese.

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Teri- Oregon 2012/04/27 18:43:37

Looks don't matter

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you should get a new husband! Or find a boyfriend :)

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Cantus_bird 2012/04/27 14:32:32

Looks don't matter

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"tells her that she is fat and he does not make love to a fat woman nor does he sees himself been married to a fat woman?" ... wow! he might as well have said, "i don't want you anymore". How would i react? ... at age 65 i'd have to know more about your circumstances to see what a good reaction would be but i certainly wouldn't walk out that door empty handed. If leaving is not an option then i'd consider taking some privileges away from him. I mean there must be a reason why he's still with you unless he's starting to lose his mind due to senility.

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rand 2012/04/27 14:26:39

Looks don't matter

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...but fitness does. If you aren't getting aerobic exercise, do so for your own benefit.

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Dagon 2012/04/27 14:13:18
oldlady to Dagon 2012/04/28 00:34:16

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...and your just another asswipe floating in a sea of human waste :/

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Dagon to oldlady 2012/04/28 04:29:11 (edited)
flyingseaturtle BN 2012/04/27 14:05:03

Looks don't matter

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How people in a relationship treat each other is more important than how they look. What he said was truly hurtful. If he wants to do something about it then you and him can walk together because exercise is beneficial to everybody ;-)

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Peewee 2012/04/27 13:38:45

no, he should look at himself first

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That's really shallow. If he really loved you he'd talk about it instead of hurting your feelings.

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Nameless 2012/04/27 13:30:50 (edited)

Looks don't matter

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Your husband is saying this to you? Are you kidding me? Your husband is making excuses and what he said is terribly mean. Also, that sounds like a man who may be cheating... Honey, you need to tell your husband that you want to go to marriage counseling. If he refuses, then you need to determine if you want to remain in a marriage where you are being belittled and treated badly. Emotional abuse is abuse. Could you be healthier and lose some weight? Yes. However, in my not so humble opinion, no husband who truly loves his wife would talk to her like he did to you. So, you have some decisions to make about what you are willing to tolerate...

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lm1b2 2012/04/27 13:22:49

Looks don't matter

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GO on a diet!

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jackie to lm1b2 2012/04/27 13:31:46

+3
thumbs down again*

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oldlady to lm1b2 2012/04/28 00:35:51

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Get a personality :/

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Muskoka to lm1b2 2012/04/28 01:41:48
oldlady to lm1b2 2012/04/28 02:38:49

Go play with yourself :/

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Lady Whitewolf 2012/04/27 13:19:37 (edited)

Looks don't matter

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He should love her for who she IS... not LOOKS.

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TasselLady 2012/04/27 13:07:52

no, he should look at himself first

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Some of these men are real jerks. Some of THEM look no better than the women they point fingers at. I've told a few men that. I told them they're not a great catch either. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

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lm1b2 to TasselLady 2012/04/27 13:23:38

You must be fat to!

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TasselLady to lm1b2 2012/04/27 13:25:39

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Nope. Sorry to spoil your day.

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jackie to lm1b2 2012/04/27 13:30:55

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*thumbs down*

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Muskoka to lm1b2 2012/04/28 01:43:02 (edited)

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Only men can be bald with an enormous beer belly and think they are sexy with a dick the size of a sardine.

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lin sugar lips 2012/04/27 13:06:01

no, he should look at himself first

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I would tell him I wouldn't make love to a big mouth little dick of a man!!!! lol

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TasselLady to lin sug... 2012/04/27 13:23:54

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I had a boyfriend like that. I cut him down to size real fast. He wasn't so swift to make nasty remarks again!

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Aingean 2012/04/27 13:03:23

Looks don't matter

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If he really and truly loves you, your weight wouldn't be a factor.

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Ms Card... to Aingean 2012/04/27 13:05:56

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that is what I told him and he told me that looks count. BUT he says he still loves me!

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Aingean to Ms Card... 2012/04/27 13:15:24

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Well he has some issues then. He must not of minded what you looked like when ya'll got together and it isn't like a person can stay the same size forever. I would tell him he isn't exactly what you got with either so he needs a mirror before he throws stones. By the way you aren't fat.

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Ms Card... to Aingean 2012/04/27 13:24:01

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thanks it is just depressing that one person can tell "the truth" and thinks it is ok.

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Aingean to Ms Card... 2012/04/27 13:35:04

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Even if it was true a person that really loved you would say something like "more to love". I really think he needs a reality check if he says he loves you but treats you that way.

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Duke----The Non Racist, Fun... 2012/04/27 13:00:54

no, he should look at himself first

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And then she should wack his pee-pee with a mallet

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Aingean to Duke---... 2012/04/27 13:03:52

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lol

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Muskoka to Duke---... 2012/04/28 01:45:20

+1
Perhaps it is too small to find.

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Duke---... to Muskoka 2012/04/28 01:52:28

Yeah, she may have to get the ole penis enlarger out first and then do the wacking..lol

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Muskoka to Duke---... 2012/04/28 03:27:13

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Yup, little man syndrome always needs a microscope not one of those silly magnifying glasses you are using there.

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Ms Cardinal 2012/04/27 12:59:03

Looks don't matter

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I look at the soul of a person and not looks or money. Right now I am at a crosspoint as what to do, slim down to his size, slim down for me or just walk away from such a shalow person.

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Cindy 2012/04/27 12:58:20

Looks don't matter

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Love is love.. I wouldn't care if my boyfriend gained 100 lbs I love him for who he is not what he looks like & he'd feel the same way

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