How old should boys have to be to get their ears pierced?

Melicious Kiss of PHAET 2011/03/11 20:18:53
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I've noticed lately a lot of boys in my son's elementary school with their ears pierced and my youngest has a classmate in his pre-school who's ear is pierced.

Your thoughts? Is this okay?
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  • Tammyandson 2015/04/15 22:03:04
    I had my son's ears pierced when he turned 4 years old because he wanted to wear earrings. His favorite earrings were hoops that would swing sightly in his ears every time he moved is head. If anyone said he looked like a girl he would grin and tell hem he was a boy who could wear earrings as though that was a special priviledge for a boy. He is now grown into a fine young man in college and has never been without earrings since the day his ears were pierced.
  • Justine 2014/08/02 14:05:22
    This will probably sound very sexist; but I think it looks cute on girls but trashy on boys. They can pierce their ears if they want to I guess though.
  • mixalis delotis 2013/12/05 17:49:51
    mixalis delotis
    4 or more
  • Melicio... mixalis... 2013/12/05 23:29:55
    Melicious Kiss of PHAET
    Wow. how did you findustry this question?
  • laaaaaaa 2012/12/17 04:59:59
  • jennifer 2012/07/09 18:27:17
    i dont care ive been here all day trying to do it
  • cj 2011/05/08 20:46:27
    10 or more
  • M P 2011/03/26 20:14:24
    M P
    I"m not sure of what age, but it doesn't matter whether it's a boy or girl getting pierced. It's the same age.
  • Shawna 2011/03/13 08:03:17
    I don't think it is any different for boys than for girls. I don't really like the idea of piercing little children's ears and think it should happen with adolescence. But if most people think it is okay to pierce the ears of little girls, why should it be any different for boys?
  • Lyric 2011/03/12 17:41:48
    - Ummm ... 16 .
  • La 2011/03/12 15:21:23
    No boys should get their ears pierced, like in their lobes. They shouldn't get other ear piercings until they're 18.

    boys ears pierced lobes ear piercings 18
  • kitkat42 2011/03/12 05:07:23
    I don't think there is an age restriction. My grand daughter had hers done when she was 4 months old. I imagine a parent can have a son's ears done that young also. Myself, I would rather wait until the child asks to have it done. Not all kids like it.
  • ptete in left I trust ~ POT... 2011/03/12 00:59:41
    ptete in left I trust ~ POTC**FUKU2**
    Well, my grand daughter's ears were pierced when she was a couple of months old. It's become just as fashionable for boys/men to have pierced ears - but I do have some mixed feelings about it.
  • Ruby Dear - The Grifter of ... 2011/03/12 00:54:13
    Ruby Dear - The Grifter of PHAET
    I thought the male piercing fad was over?
    Piercings are fine, but say no to stretchers. I had a friend with stretchers, and every time she played with them, they'd stink. Plus they leave your ears mangled, and after they're stretched to a certain point they never recover.
  • La Ruby De... 2011/03/12 15:22:03
    Mhm, gross
  • Green 2011/03/11 23:52:31
    Same as girls.
  • wtxwoman 2011/03/11 23:47:47
    My daughter pierced her daughter's when she was about 6 months old. My grandson has no piercings yet and he is 10 years old. So, I guess there is still a sterotype to piercings. I think everybody, male and female, should choose for themselves at about 12 years old.
  • brutusin~ Proud Apetheist 2011/03/11 22:41:20
    brutusin~ Proud Apetheist
    Parental Consent.
  • JDLogan 2011/03/11 21:54:42
    It is as "Ok" for a parent to pierce their 6 year old boy's ears as it is to pierce their 6 year old girl's ears. (Or any other age)
  • bags 2011/03/11 21:28:20
    For us it's customary for both genders to have them pierced at a VERY early age. I was 3 days old.
  • Masatone 2011/03/11 21:02:41
    Im not sure never had my ears pierced, if it hurts i guess wait till the could tolerate pain. But i heard it doesn't hurt, so if it don't hurt i guess 10, but again im not sure.
  • KB 2011/03/11 20:52:27 (edited)
    I am a 31 year old married heterosexual male who has two pierced ears. I was in a band in college. I was 20 when I got mine done and the first thing my grandma asked was 'does it mean anything'. I laughed and said no Grandma, I just wanted to look cooler. I do.

    I'd let my son at like 10 years old probably.
  • Gara :D 2011/03/11 20:43:37
    Gara :D
    About 16 without parental consent, and about 10 with parental consent. Parents should definitely not get their childs ear pierced before they are old enough to sensibly decide what they want for themselves.
  • running... Gara :D 2011/03/11 20:51:16
    Why? If you take the piercing out, the hole should heal over just fine. An ear piercing is kind of a low risk situation as long as you don't let it get infected.
  • Gara :D running... 2011/03/11 20:59:18
    Gara :D
    Yes, you do have a point i just dont think that a child should get a piercing below that age, even if it is low risk. Also, i got my ears pierced very young and even though i cleaned them and looked after them, i still got a huge infection and my left ear is still slightly swollen to this day, many years on. I guess personal experience is clouding my judgement :D
  • running... Gara :D 2011/03/11 21:16:29
    Maybe you just didn't clean them well enough. I see no issue with a young child getting their ears pierced with parental consent, and included in that consent is a commitment made to making sure the child's piercing is taken care of properly. =]
  • Melizmatic Gara :D 2011/03/11 21:01:19

    I asked my mom could I get it done when I was 5.

    She was cool with it, and I didnt get any more piercings until I was 19.

    Also, many parents get their daughters (and sometimes their sons) ears pierced as an infant.

    If the parents consent, I see no issue.
  • Gara :D Melizmatic 2011/03/11 21:04:43
    Gara :D
    Ahh, i hate when babies have piercings. I find it really wierd.
  • Melizmatic Gara :D 2011/03/11 21:05:51

    Not my kid, not my concern.
  • CHUCK - Liberal in Seattle 2011/03/11 20:39:32
    CHUCK - Liberal in Seattle
    In my house, when they leave home.
  • PinkSugarZombie (Tori) 2011/03/11 20:26:53
    PinkSugarZombie (Tori)
    I'm with runningintriangles, same age as girls.
  • runningintriangles 2011/03/11 20:22:46
    Either 16 without parental consent (same for girls), or any age with parental consent.

    In other words: as old as girls. :|
  • Melizmatic running... 2011/03/11 20:27:57
    I totally agree.

    I had my ears pierced at five, because I asked my mom; & she was cool with it.

    My 6 year old daughter's ears aren't pierced yet, but only because she hasn't asked me to get it done.

    I'd be just the same way if I had had a son instead.
  • Melicio... Melizmatic 2011/03/11 20:40:01
    Melicious Kiss of PHAET
    My nine year old wants his ears pierced, but I have told him no. Maybe when he is older. However, if I were to be honest, I don't think I would have the same problem if I had a daughter and she asked. Which is such a double standard. I am ashamed of myself. :(
  • running... Melicio... 2011/03/11 20:50:20
    At least you're aware enough to REALISE you have a double standard going. ;)
  • Melicio... running... 2011/03/11 22:39:35
    Melicious Kiss of PHAET
    thanks... now I need to think about why I have this double standard, and perhaps it will change my mind. It makes me feel icky!
  • Melizmatic Melicio... 2011/03/11 20:57:20
    RIT said it best; at least you're aware of your double standard.

    That miles ahead of many folks who are not at all honest with themselves.
  • Melicio... Melizmatic 2011/03/11 22:40:23
    Melicious Kiss of PHAET
    Thank you. Makes me feel icky though. I need to figure out what my issue is. :O
  • Melizmatic Melicio... 2011/03/11 22:46:10
    You're human, my dear; just like all of us.

    None of us is anywhere near perfect.

    Again, at least by acknowledging your flaws and examining them, you are miles ahead of many others...

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