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How long should you wait to be in another relationship after breaking up with someone?

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  • Marked for Life 2008/02/19 00:22:21
    You should wait.....
    Marked for Life
    +10
    You should give it 1 year 3 months 2 weeks and 5 days......LMAO!
    I think you really should give it some time before you jump into another relationship to make sure your heart is really in it....:O)

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  • 000 2009/06/01 09:44:35 (edited)
    You should wait.....
    000
    You really should wait a while, because, when your heart is broke, it affects the others parts too.
  • nonya 2009/01/16 03:34:10
    You should wait.....
    nonya
    You should wait until the feeling of nausea that creeps into your stomach every time you see them with someone else goes away. Then you can be sure that you're okay enough to fuck up someone else's life.
  • Heather 2008/05/26 07:40:45
    You should wait.....
    Heather
    to get into another serious relationship...however in the mean time I strongly recomend a couple re-bound flings. You don't have to have sex with them...just have fun!
  • taco 2008/02/22 18:53:28
    You should wait.....
    taco
    +1
    give ur heart some time to recover . wait about 1 yr then go into another relation ship
  • doc 2008/02/21 23:24:59
    You should wait.....
    doc
    +1
    as long as it takes you to get it out of your system.
  • Vyper 2008/02/20 02:05:17
    You should wait.....
    Vyper
    +1
    It depends on how long the relationship was.
    If it was over a year you should probably wait a while, but if it was only two months or so then maybe just a couple weeks.
  • Elaine 2008/02/20 00:13:52
    You should wait.....
    Elaine
    +1
    As soon as you can get your ass up off the couch..!! and that should be only minutes. right .!!
  • LDA40 2008/02/19 22:59:53
    Why wait.....
    LDA40
    +1
    well it depends on y u break up with them!!!!!!! Like if they cheat on u then yeah!!!!!! lol
  • Skull-One-225 2008/02/19 21:47:57
    You should wait.....
    Skull-One-225
    +1
    How serious of a relationship are we talking about? I mean if you met her at the club and left her the next morning, it might be OK to move on right away. If you dated for 3 years, you might need threapy for a while. Seriosly, I think 1/4 the total length of the relationship should be sufficient for one to loose the baggage.
  • Kelly 2008/02/19 20:14:12
    Why wait.....
    Kelly
    +1
    its all up to you if you think your ready ur relationship ur decision
  • Unmistakably Liz 2008/02/19 19:22:10
    Why wait.....
    Unmistakably Liz
    +1
    It's all up to you....
    Depending on how you feel
    http://loversquarrel.etsy.com
  • Kay Kay 2008/02/19 17:23:44
    You should wait.....
    Kay Kay
  • Shane - oldschoolelf 2008/02/19 17:23:06
    You should wait.....
    Shane - oldschoolelf
    +1
    as long as it takes. Do you want to end up in the same mess as before? People wonder why they can't be in a stable relationship. It's because you didn't wait for the right one or the right time. When the right one and time does happen, you'll know.
  • Prema LaNay 2008/02/19 16:32:49
    You should wait.....
    Prema LaNay
    +1
    depends on your age & how long the relationship lasted. A yr is a good average.
  • Linda 2008/02/19 16:01:40
    Why wait.....
    Linda
    +1
    If you really love the person so go 4 it! =)
  • jason 2008/02/19 15:44:33
    Why wait.....
    jason
    +1
    its all dependent on how long you were going out with them, and how close you were with them... but it really doesnt matter, i mean, if you find someone you shouldnt have to wait, if youre happy than go for it, time doesnt wait for you, why wait for time
  • Matel haed 2008/02/19 14:51:58
    Why wait.....
    Matel haed
    +1
    It all depends on the situation if you brake up woth them and you dont have feelings for them any more then go for it but if they broke up with you probably you will want to wait
  • Ronny 2008/02/19 06:16:02
    You should wait.....
    Ronny
    +2
    until your really sure that you made the right decision. my ex left me and got with another bloke 2 weeks later. another 2 weeks later she was ringing me crying because he broke up with her because he knew she still loved me. thankfully i didn't take her back
  • Vivoriramor 2008/02/19 05:25:29 (edited)
    You should wait.....
    Vivoriramor
    +1
    That's a very personal question that seldom people answer-LMAO! that's what my 1st boyfriend said/e-mailed to me when i asked if he liked me. but it really depends on the person, and how strong the relationship was. you don't HAVE to wait as set amount of time-what would it matter? If your heart is ready, the go for it.
  • LoKi ~So cool I'm Hot ~ lol 2008/02/19 04:12:05
    Why wait.....
    LoKi ~So cool I'm Hot ~ lol
    +1
    sometimes women wait longer because they seem to be more emotional. you just have to remember that you should give everyone an equal chance that you do date and not vent out "OMG my ex did this and that and this to me"
  • alw_ays 2008/02/19 03:34:18
    Why wait.....
    alw_ays
    +2
    The only time I initiated the break-up, I did it because relationships were overlapping. It's called dating, and it's wicked rough. The worst part is still being in love after you've done it.

    When I'd been broken up with, it took me a g e s to even think of another relationship.

    Now I'm married. I have offered up that choice; given it away, dissolved it. I fall in love every day, and I've sworn to keep it that way. It works quite well for me...I love being in love!!!
  • DEE CEE 2008/02/19 03:27:35
    You should wait.....
    DEE CEE
    +2
    at least day or two.... lol
  • Florida Keys 2008/02/19 02:55:54
    You should wait.....
    Florida Keys
    +1
    20 years
  • rnvtach 2008/02/19 02:52:58
    You should wait.....
    rnvtach
    +3
    Only you can answer that question. You will know when it's right. Gotta trust your heart. If you trust your heart and not your desires, you'll know.
  • Vivorir... rnvtach 2008/02/19 05:13:45
    Vivoriramor
    +2
    That's a really good answer, especially for a SH with a viking for a profile pic. LOL! JK, but good answer though.
  • rnvtach Vivorir... 2008/02/19 11:59:55
    rnvtach
    +1
    Thank you, GO VIKINGS
  • Angel 2008/02/19 02:35:42
    Why wait.....
    Angel
    +2
    my dad was a man of few words but he told me once the best way to get over one was to get another.....lol....but that doesn't men you have to fall in love time and time again.....some relationships can be fun and brief
  • dnanna 2008/02/19 02:33:03
    You should wait.....
    dnanna
    +2
    until you feel emotionally ready only you know when that is
  • Bobbye Leigh :) 2008/02/19 01:54:56
    You should wait.....
    Bobbye Leigh :)
    +1
    for a little while but not too long. and it just depends on how bad you had it for that person
  • Haku 2008/02/19 01:35:30
    You should wait.....
    Haku
    +3
    For as long as you need. Some people recover faster then others. It mainly depends on how serious you considered your last relationship to be in my opinion.
  • Valkyries "In God We Trust" 2008/02/19 01:29:58
    You should wait.....
    Valkyries "In God We Trust"
    +3
    Enough time so you don't run out & date the first loser you see. lol
  • Stap-Lay-Tone 2008/02/19 01:17:27
    You should wait.....
    Stap-Lay-Tone
    +2
    until you really feel its right... Dont go jumping into a relationship just to be in one.... but dont pass up on an opportunity that could mend all your past pains...
  • Chansi (Mea) 2008/02/19 01:10:36
    You should wait.....
    Chansi (Mea)
    +3
    Until you are really over the last relationship...
  • MAGGIE IRISH EYES 2008/02/19 00:48:35 (edited)
    Why wait.....
    MAGGIE IRISH EYES
    +4
    What are you waiting for??? Move on!!! The only reason I didn't get too involved in another relationship following my divorce was because I had children. I did not want to put a man in front of my children. Furthermore, I did not want my children to have a step-father or a "live-in".
  • vaynemud13 2008/02/19 00:46:32
    You should wait.....
    vaynemud13
    +2
    for your heart to heal an for you to get your head back on straight and for gods sake... make sure you truly love the one you go for with all your heart
  • zsazsa 2008/02/19 00:38:33
    You should wait.....
    zsazsa
    +1
    Until you feel ready to move on to a new relationship with an open heart and eyes
  • Stephen 2008/02/19 00:36:48
    You should wait.....
    Stephen
    +2
    I would assume it depneds on the person. But the heart wants what the heart wants you can't change that. You just want to make sure it IS your heart and not that you're feeling alone or horney. I've never seen a sucessful needy relationship.
  • ShineFloyd [Ninja]™ Chi-Kung 2008/02/19 00:35:51
    You should wait.....
    ShineFloyd [Ninja]™ Chi-Kung
    +3
    heheheee... imagine..
    I am divorced since 1993... and with trouble... 3 years before..(1990)..
    and I am still waiting ...for
  • byebye ... ShineFl... 2008/02/19 00:44:36
    byebye ,I love you,gotta go
    +2
    Don't say it Luigi........lol
  • CaliforniaLove 2008/02/19 00:27:19
    You should wait.....
    CaliforniaLove
    +3
    as long as it takes you to get over your Ex.

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