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How long does it usually take you to get over a relationship gone bad?

ThatGirl 2007/10/02 02:48:37
The Boyfriend Club
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24%
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Of course, it depends how long you were in the relationship, so give the length and how long it took you to get over it.

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  • summer ♥ † John 3:16 † ♥ 2008/03/18 02:10:05
    Days
    summer ♥ † John 3:16 † ♥
    +4
    i had to learn the hard way, 1st bf took a yr. within that year he married and had a child... wasted time when lots of hotties wanted me... soo i took 4-5 days the most... the guy is not worth it!! =D

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  • TaCOs aRE goOD! 2009/07/23 15:57:04
    Weeks
    TaCOs aRE goOD!
    3 weeks at least
  • Blueheart 2009/05/25 05:14:13
    Years
    Blueheart
    forever
  • ~*i <3 myself and no one ca... 2009/02/09 01:37:14
    Undecided
    ~*i <3 myself and no one can change that*~
    i say never but you can always learn from it and prey it wont happen again lol but once your heart is rip to shreads it takes a good damn long time to repair i know that well untill you find your rite person to heal and make your heart sealed and healthy again. . . .
  • prinzessin 2008/12/17 11:02:29
    Undecided
    prinzessin
    All depends on how long before breakup we were already apart. Sometimes, no time at all, but for one or two true ones, never in a lifetime; we didn't really break up at all, just got stuck 3,000 miles in either direction with an ocean in between one.
  • ACN 2008/10/14 06:05:19
  • .:angelbaby:. 2008/08/03 19:57:14
    Weeks
    .:angelbaby:.
    a few weekz if i wuz really in to them but rite now itz been like months wit dis guy n i havent gotten over it yet
  • savanna 2008/06/21 23:38:40
    Months
    savanna
    a long time bec u can not get over somone u love
  • William 2008/05/30 16:06:26
    Days
    William
    ive been hurt so many times i dont let it get to me anymore but im in relationship now that if i lose her it would probaly take me a few weeeks to get over it
  • Casey 2008/04/30 17:55:45
    Undecided
    Casey
    it depends on who it was and how long it lasted
  • joe Casey 2011/01/08 02:50:49
    joe
    +3
    we have been together 34 years.she is doing a lot of drugs big time i say stop.i will get you help she said no way shes olny wants drugs. god help me.
  • Denita 2008/04/20 02:16:53
    Undecided
    Denita
    +2
    Not long for me, depending on the situation, the reason being for the departure. If the guy leaves me and within some days or weeks or so later hes with another woman, then Im immediately over the breakup, because now Im feeling that if it didnt take him but a split second to get over the breakup then why am I wasting my time crying and being depressed and hes walking around like hes the happiest man in the world. Secondly, if hes all over another woman that soon after our breakup then apparently he was seeing and loving her more than he was me when we were together. So, I really dont have time to waste crying and being depressed over a man. Thats why I thank God for creating more than 1 man in this world. And besides, God knows exactly who he wants me with anyways. So, why am I trying to pick who I want to be with, when every choice I make is the wrong choice, or it just pleases me for the moment that I got it, instead for just stepping back, letting God do his job and be happy the rest of my life. And wont have to worry about getting hurt or heartbroken by some guy that wasnt meant for me in the first place.
  • *courtney-N-dustin* 2008/04/09 13:07:37
    Undecided
    *courtney-N-dustin*
    if i really really loved him it would take me a while cause there is one guy i am still tryin to get over and its been about a year and a half i really had feelings for him but now he tries to ask me back out and i say no because i have somebody way better now !
  • PenelopeAvery 2008/03/27 12:06:43
    Days
    PenelopeAvery
    it usually takes a few days cuz i break up with them
    but there was one time when i never recoverd almost it took months
    im still not sure if im completely over him
    i want 2 b over him but i dont no
  • kristen (ily.a&f.) 2008/03/26 20:50:14
    Undecided
    kristen (ily.a&f.)
    +1
    depending on how much that person meant to you...and how much u loved him
  • NIKA 2008/03/26 17:45:05
    Days
    NIKA
    +1
    i say days coz you've lived without him all you're life,why shouldn't you now,it's hard to get over a guy you love but it's over and he may not come back to you again just say this'ONE DOWN,ONE MILLION OF OTHER GREAT PEOPLE TO GO'no ones worth it to rewen your chances with other people!!
  • summer ♥ † John 3:16 † ♥ 2008/03/18 02:10:05
    Days
    summer ♥ † John 3:16 † ♥
    +4
    i had to learn the hard way, 1st bf took a yr. within that year he married and had a child... wasted time when lots of hotties wanted me... soo i took 4-5 days the most... the guy is not worth it!! =D
  • Million Dollar Chick 2008/03/02 00:29:12
    Days
    Million Dollar Chick
    +2
    Not long for me. If it went bad then it wasn't meant. Shit 1 car breaks down and i keep taking it to get fixed and it doesn't get right, i just have to get a new car. A limo maybe
  • RoxiLuvs 2008/02/22 00:51:32
    Weeks
    RoxiLuvs
    +2
    stupid boyfriend
  • Elizabeth 2007/10/12 05:19:34
    Months
    Elizabeth
    Depends on how emotionally attached i got to the person but generally in a serious relationship it takes me 3-4 months to feel comfortable in talking to them again.
  • Liz 2007/10/05 23:50:55
    Undecided
    Liz
    +2
    depends on how long you had been together, how much had gone on, what made it go bad...
    it can take years though
    sucks but thats true
  • LaChica 2007/10/04 00:15:30
    Undecided
    LaChica
    +1
    I dont know but when you find out pleeeaaasse let me know!
  • Amanda 2007/10/03 01:01:14
    Weeks
    Amanda
    +1
    when a guy breaks up with me it takes me weeks 2 get over it. sometimes it takes me longer if i really luved them
  • Piglet 2007/10/02 20:18:36
    Years
    Piglet
    I hear that you multiply the length you were with the person by 2. So if you were with a person for 2 years...it will take you 4 to get over them.
  • ACN Piglet 2008/10/14 06:07:14
  • ronnie 2007/10/02 15:19:10
    Undecided
    ronnie
    Now that I have been married for 41 years, I really can't remember how long it would take me to get over a bad relationship. I think weeks would be the proper answer, but, again, I am not sure. Funny, but as one gets older, one forgets things like this!!!
  • ACN ronnie 2008/10/14 06:09:09
  • joe ronnie 2011/01/08 03:18:06
    joe
    +2
    i hope so
  • mslsa2u 2007/10/02 13:36:12
    Undecided
    mslsa2u
    +3
    Only you can make that decision. When you get sick and tired of being sick and tired of hurting, you will let it go.
  • ACN mslsa2u 2008/10/14 06:09:36
  • Bust it Baby #1 2007/10/02 12:49:48
    Weeks
    Bust it Baby #1
    the only way to get over one lover is to find another one.
  • Fef 2007/10/02 04:44:02
    Weeks
    Fef
    +2
    I don't think any breakup I've experienced lasted longer than a few days. Maybe one lasted weeks but I don't really remember now. You see, people get over these things when they realize life goes on and dwelling on the past doesn't help. Don't forget the past. Love it. Just look forward and think how you want to go on -- happy or sad. You decide.
  • Ihr Hase ~ Radix Libertas 2007/10/02 03:42:01
    Undecided
    Ihr Hase ~ Radix Libertas
    +1
    Oof that depends on the relationship.....

    Are we talking about a woman? If I forsake all other women for one, and she just leaves, I am over it immediately, but if she plays those mind games with me it can screw me up for months....
  • ThatGirl Ihr Has... 2007/10/02 03:44:04
    ThatGirl
    +1
    I guess it does depend on the situation. It took me a year to get over mine, I guess I'm still not completely over, because I have a hard time trusting men now, but I don't feel heart broken any more. :o)
  • Ihr Has... ThatGirl 2007/10/02 03:48:12
    Ihr Hase ~ Radix Libertas
    Yeah well I will always have issues with trusting women....
  • ThatGirl Ihr Has... 2007/10/02 03:50:39
    ThatGirl
    +1
    I'll probably be the same with men. But that's life, ain't it? :o)
  • Ihr Has... ThatGirl 2007/10/02 03:58:09
    Ihr Hase ~ Radix Libertas
    It is the case of fool me twice shame on me....

    I have one failing in relationships and it is why I opt to not have them, I trust a woman to do the right thing, be faithful or leave... and normally they do niether.....
  • ThatGirl Ihr Has... 2007/10/02 03:59:55
    ThatGirl
    +1
    I've never understood that. If you're not happy in a relationship, why not just leave instead of cheating? It would be easier to break up with someone than to cheat on them. I'd feel like crap if I was betraying someone who loved me.
  • Ihr Has... ThatGirl 2007/10/02 04:05:27
    Ihr Hase ~ Radix Libertas
    Well I am so far spread that my attention is not really all that attentive...

    they usually end up cheating on me with some sissy guy who kisses their ass....
  • Bust it... Ihr Has... 2007/10/02 12:50:47
    Bust it Baby #1
    +1
    why do you have a issue with trusting women?
  • Ihr Has... Bust it... 2007/10/02 15:56:55
    Ihr Hase ~ Radix Libertas
    Because I do have an issue with allocating time, and instead of saying something about it the women I date, that is have a relationship with, go seek the attention elsewhere, and reward the moron with sex....

    But they do not tell me anything, they just stick around for the sex, at least when I just screw around and don't get involved, I get the same relationship....

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