How easy is it to forget your children?
David Cameron's daughter was accidentally left behind after a visit to the pub. It's a scenario that's familiar to many parents, writes Kathryn Westcott.
For people who don't have children - or for those parents who are super-organised - the idea that a child could be left behind by a parent is simply outrageous. Forgetting your keys or wallet is acceptable but never a child.
But there are many parents who will identify with that feeling of horror when the realisation dawns that a child has been left behind somewhere. The Camerons were said to have been "distraught" when they realised that eight-year-old Nancy had been forgotten when the family left for home in two separate cars.
It's a heart-stopping moment - one that my family experienced not that long ago. Anyone with children will know that trying to get a group of them out of the house - shoes, hats, toilet runs - often needs to be planned with military precision.
It happened at a Sunday lunch several months agoAnd if there is a large party of folk to be extracted from the house, one parent may set off with half the gaggle, leaving the remainder with the other.
n our case, we streamed off down the road for a family event at the local church, three generations in tow. It was only when one four-year-old asked where his similarly aged cousin was, that panic set in. Frantic messages were verbally sent between the grown-ups, until we discovered that he hadn't been seen since we left the house. After a mad dash down the street, we discovered him at home, oblivious to the alarm that had been caused by that moment of parental negligence.
Like the Camerons, one parent simply assumed he was with the other.
Justine Roberts of Mumsnet website says that this is a familiar scenario for many parents.
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Justine RobertsMumsnetIn many cases both [parents] are working long hours - these are easy mistakes to make”
"Many people will have some understanding of how this happened to the prime minister and his wife. Particularly if you are a family with two cars, there is the assumption by one parent that the other parent has a particular child. Everyone can see how it happens - particularly the more children you have - when you become outnumbered."
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sglmom 2012/06/11 11:54:17No, I don't buy it, they are your biggest responsibility+6Just curious ..
what's a CHILD doing in a PUB anyways?
(hmm .. makes you think, doesn't it!)
I NEVER forgot where my children were .. anywhere ..
(and I was a SINGLE parent too)
even as little ones .. I taught them safety rules ..
Follow your name .. go hold mommy's hand (one left .. one right)
and do not let go once you are out of the car ..
(BOTH of them followed that safety rule for sure .. )






















Always hold your childs hand and at times even tie the hand of the child to yours if the place your are going to cannot be avoided and is crowded. Was taught that by my parents.
All parents have a responsibility and if the parents are irresponsible, its their bonding and attachment for their offspring that is in question here. Would never leave my child in a hotel room sleeping either as I know it is not my place and duplicate keys are freely available around.
Since most people have cellphones, there should be a final check between the vehicles to be sure that all of the kids are counted.
WTF???
This is obviously a man who is unable to pay attention to detail and taken into context with, Hunt and May not able to take any responsibilty to anything.
"The Big Society" - do it yourself (Haig more or less said that to the business leaders.
On Europe - "They need to get their act together!...
I have absolutely NO CONFIDENCE in the governement to look out for any but themselves - snout in trough, ass in the air and thats where all the bloody hot air is coming from...
Although because of his position, I cut him less slack. He should have his ducks in a row.
Ye Gods they had two cars, and two teams of "security",you and we are in the same boat with regard to idiot leadership!
I never forgot my son and I was going to college and teaching.
If they are to busy or to doped up to take care of their children it's on them. I don't buy their excusses, IT IS SIMPLE BAD PARENTING AND LACK OF ORGANIZATION.
what's a CHILD doing in a PUB anyways?
(hmm .. makes you think, doesn't it!)
I NEVER forgot where my children were .. anywhere ..
(and I was a SINGLE parent too)
even as little ones .. I taught them safety rules ..
Follow your name .. go hold mommy's hand (one left .. one right)
and do not let go once you are out of the car ..
(BOTH of them followed that safety rule for sure .. )