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How do you handle a person who is two faced???

Adi 2011/02/02 01:10:30

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How do you handle a person who is two faced???


At some point in our lives we all encounter people having two faces or surfaces who make us believe they are genuine in their dealing with us or they care about us. But sadly enough, the opposite is true.


 


(1) Always know that a two-faced person is not your friend. They may try to act as one but in reality, they are just pretending just to get something from you. Don't expect them to help you in times of need or be at your side when you need someone to be there for you.


(2) Never share any personal information that is important to you to this person. They will only use that to harm or manipulate you to their advantage without thinking twice


(3) Keep your ideas away from this person. If you share your ideas with a two-faced person, they will only steal them, use them to their advantage and hurt you in the end.


(4) Be nice and kind to this person even if you can't stand them. As we know, a two-faced person can abuse their friends. Can you ever imagine what they are capable of doing to their enemies?

(5) Try to stay away from an unhealthy environment where this person hangs out. If it is a working place, see if you can find a different place of work or limit your interaction with this person. The farther you are from them, the safer you are and the less stress you will go thru.

(6) A two-faced person can tell if you are not interested in establishing close friendship with them and most often they will stop bugging you. However, if they are still persistent, be very careful because this person may want something so bad from you that may harm you in the future. Find better people that you can trust without doubt and let this person see that you have confidence in them better than you have in them and pray that they will leave you alone.

*** THIS IS JUST A QUESTION AND NOT DIRECTED AT ANY PERSON(S) SO TRY NOT TO BE OFFENDED ***

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  • nora.abbas1 2014/02/09 10:32:33
    nora.abbas1
    +3
    the problem is that i am a friendly person at work , but i noticed that most of them are using my kindness and friendliness against me , i am not afraid to say what i think , i am very open , but when i found out that they are talking in my back , i decided to keep the conversation only work related , but they keep trying to talk to me and ask me like , ooh u are acting differently , why you are serious
    the other thing is the comments they say about things they shouldnt like , about my hair or my way of walking or talking on the phone , many small details that are in my opinion personal and no one has the right to judge , when i get mad and tell them to stop and thats non of their business , they step back and creat a group and start talking even more bad things in my back
    now i am acting like a robot , come to work , do my job and leave , without talking at all , only in case someone askes me something related to work , i answer shortly and firmly
    its working somehow , at least away from drama
    any suggestions ?
  • Beccy 2013/07/31 01:07:24
    Beccy
    +1
    The best thing to do is not to be too trusting when you first meet someone.
  • Adi Beccy 2013/07/31 15:42:20
    Adi
    I never am....only dealing with my critters am I THAT trusting ;-)
  • Trader1 is kerbonkin' 2013/07/30 22:25:21 (edited)
    Trader1 is kerbonkin'
    +2
    I treat that person as being untrustworthy and therefore as a mere aquaintance.

    oops, edited ... forgot a word. :)
  • Adi Trader1... 2013/07/30 23:31:42
    Adi
    +2
    OMG....it has been way too long!!!
    Where have you been hiding at???
    It is GREAT seeing you again :-)
  • Trader1... Adi 2013/07/31 00:03:26
    Trader1 is kerbonkin'
    +1
    Hi! :)

    Took a break for a while ... great seeing you too. :)
  • Adi Trader1... 2013/07/31 05:13:44
    Adi
    +2
    LoL - I had too a few months ago. Back now - but still same ole BS going on around here....this place just isn't the same since I first joined :-(
  • Trader1... Adi 2013/08/01 00:11:51
  • Adi Trader1... 2013/08/01 00:37:26
    Adi
    +1
    I am sad about that too my friend!!!
  • All American 2013/07/30 22:17:55 (edited)
    All American
    +1
    Duplicity is thy name. I can't and won't tolerate anyone like this and will terminate all contact with them.
  • Adi All Ame... 2013/07/30 23:32:23
    Adi
    +2
    That is understandable sweetie!!!
    great seeing you too again:-)
  • Gone. 2013/07/30 22:09:47
    Gone.
    +1
    Surgical removal from my life.
  • Adi Gone. 2013/07/30 23:34:37
    Adi
    +2
    OUCH - sounds painful :-)
    Hi sweetie.....it's been a really bad day - sad day and I am still here. Came home long enough to take shower and I am back here at work. Guns I might lose this little guy....Dr. doesn't think he will make another night. My heart aches so much and right now I feel like shyt. I am so mad.....this shouldn't or shall I say should NOT have happen!!!
  • Gone. Adi 2013/07/31 13:36:35
    Gone.
    +1
    If he goes, Adidas; God just needed him elsewhere.
  • steve 2013/07/30 12:26:36
    steve
    +3
    My question is what if it is your girlfriends parents?
    cause 20 yrs ago in high school they took her away from me and didnt allow her to see me. And now 20yrs later we have found each other again, but she is going thru a divorce now but we lived in her parents house for a yr together but as the divorce gets closer and the custody battle is closing in the lawyer says in the best interest that i should move out, so i did but at that moment i hear from co-workers at the place her dad owns where i was working that he has wanted me gone and wishes i would go back to missouri where i came from, and then the mom tells her she can't control her but she can control me from coming back to her house and for working for her dad, and now that my gf is opening up a business of her own with the parents help she tells me the mom has done told her she doesnt want me at here business.
    but i will say my gf makes every effort to see me and spend time with me but how am i suppose to act with her parents acting this away toward me, cause i've done told her that they r two face and i wont go around them for the way they have treated me.....
  • Adi steve 2013/07/30 22:05:44
    Adi
    +1
    Sounds like a lot of two facing going on there!!! I say round them ALL up in one room and let it rip - tell them how YOU feel and that you want the truth from ALL of them!!! You could always go on the Dr. Phil show - he will get to the bottom of it :-)
    Sweetie I really hope things work out and this lady who you have loved for so long - isn't the one being a two face to you. I am so sorry you are going through this!!! Please let me know how it all works out for you.
  • Todd The Libertarian 2013/01/16 19:15:54
    Todd The Libertarian
    +1
    Get rid of them.
  • Adi Todd Th... 2013/07/31 05:13:18
    Adi
    +1
    LoL - you are probably right!!!
  • Jdogg 2013/01/16 17:07:41
    Jdogg
    +1
    When you have to deal with someone like this, And you know they are like this, be careful what you say to them, And if they start prying like some are known to do change the subject or just excuse yourself and go elsewhere.
  • Adi Jdogg 2013/01/16 19:14:21
    Adi
    Now that is some GREAT advice!!!
  • Jdogg Adi 2013/01/16 21:00:29
    Jdogg
    +1
    I have worked with a few in the past, It also helps when you are warned about these kind of people through your co-workers.
  • RobHom 2013/01/16 15:09:48
    RobHom
    +1
    I refuse to allow people like that to be around me.... And I make it clear I have no tolerance for their type.

    Life is too short to be involved with liars, drama queens, and trouble makers....
  • Adi RobHom 2013/01/16 15:56:44
    Adi
    +1
    Hear-Hear!!!
  • jere.chievres 2013/01/16 01:35:52
    jere.chievres
    +2
    Stay away from them.
  • Shifting Piece 2013/01/15 22:24:42
    Shifting Piece
    +1
    I don't handle them.
  • Golden Panther 2013/01/15 15:45:09
    Golden Panther
    +2
    While they are still young, send them to the Democratic National Party, aka communist party, for the fine tuning only they are credentialed to furnish with zeal.
  • Tic-Toc 2013/01/15 15:39:31
    Tic-Toc
    +2
    Buy them two tubes of lip gloss
  • Todd Parsons 2013/01/15 14:08:48
    Todd Parsons
    +1
    Smack one of the faces off them
  • Adi Todd Pa... 2013/01/15 14:11:35
    Adi
    ROFL:-)
  • Artist~PWCM~ 2013/01/15 11:56:09 (edited)
    Artist~PWCM~
    +1
    You vote him into the White House especially if he's black/white.
  • Katherine 2013/01/15 10:28:38
    Katherine
    +2
    Distance myself. I was always told by my family to avoid chaos and chaotic people. It took a couple dozen times to learn that lesson, but I've finally relented. For the most part.
  • Adi Katherine 2013/01/15 10:54:41
    Adi
    +2
    What a hard lesson to learn in life.
  • Katherine Adi 2013/01/15 12:09:50
    Katherine
    +1
    I try not to judge a book by an instinct based on the title, try to give second chances sometimes, yadda yadda... Life is too short and there are too many people to stick around after you've established someone is harmful and has no intentions of stopping.
  • Adi Katherine 2013/01/15 13:02:19
    Adi
    +1
    Awesome advice!!!
  • joe keeney 2013/01/15 10:16:06
    joe keeney
    +1
    I'm very out spoken I don't don't know that many people.
  • Adi joe keeney 2013/01/15 10:21:47
    Adi
    +2
    You are totally lucky!!!
  • joe keeney Adi 2013/01/15 10:37:55
    joe keeney
    +1
    Thanks
  • jackiexx 2012/10/25 17:13:36
    jackiexx
    +2
    im so upset this girl broke me and my bf up and now she is making him go out with her because if he says no she will spread untrue ruomours i want to get her back! but how???
  • Adi jackiexx 2012/10/26 17:26:40
    Adi
    +1
    Sounds to me that she isn't worth it babe?
  • desi-cakes 2011/04/17 02:52:48
    desi-cakes
    +2
    I don't give them my attention
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