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How do you deal with people who judge you?

sarah 2013/01/02 13:44:09
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On Sodahead and in real life I've been judged by people of all faiths and by those who do not believe in God, sometimes I'll respond sometimes I'll ignore and move on to the next question.

How do you deal with those who judge you?
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  • SA 2013/01/02 16:57:04
    None of the above
    SA
    +6
    Most of the time whether it be in real life or on Sodahead I just feel pity on people who judge me. They don't know my journey. Other times I just laugh.

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  • Bronco 2013/01/06 09:53:52
    I laugh
    Bronco
    +1
    People who judge me, do so because my presence is powerful and they are intimidated. They're typically female, even though I am not very pretty.
  • ☆stillthe12c☆ 2013/01/04 01:45:21
    None of the above
    ☆stillthe12c☆
    +1
    I really do not care.
  • Scooter 2013/01/03 20:38:23
    I ignore and move on
    Scooter
    +3
    Don't care....
  • oldrwizr 2013/01/03 19:27:03
    I ignore and move on
    oldrwizr
    +2
    Judgement is not a part of my universe. If someone has a judgement of me I just consider it an interesting point of view. It's none of my business what they think of me. What I think of them is just an awareness, my point of view, and none of my business either.
  • Hippygirl 2013/01/03 03:33:46
    None of the above
    Hippygirl
    +1
    For me it depends. The truth is I really don't care about what people on SH say about me because they don't know me. What someone believes in or does not believe in is only one part of who we are. I am confident in what I think and I don't let others judgment of that sway me.
  • ... BIANCA ... 2013/01/03 03:24:32
    I judge them back
    ... BIANCA ...
    +1
    those are people that are immature of handling non_- sense
  • addie 2013/01/03 02:14:53
    I laugh
    addie
    +1
    and move on.
  • Queen B 2013/01/02 23:26:22
    None of the above
    Queen B
    +2
    For anyone who thinks it's their job to judge me....
    who cares
  • Phil 2013/01/02 22:44:13
    I laugh
    Phil
    +1
    Because if their lives mean nothing to me their opinion of me means less then Zero
  • Eddie 2013/01/02 22:33:35
    None of the above
    Eddie
    +1
    It depends. I find that those who judge me positively are generally those who I interact with frequently. Whereas those who see me in a more negative light are generally people that I rarely interact with anyway. So I really don't have much reason to be concerned with their opinions. At any rate, what one see's in themselves is generally far more important than what others choose to see.
  • Horace 2013/01/02 21:33:52
    All of the above
    Horace
    +1
    It depends on what they are judging me for, if it is an insight which I believe I could benefit from I thank them for it, if it is done out of spite I ignore it, if it is funny I laugh at it. We all judge each other, by you shake someone's hand for the first time you have already made 5 different judgement about them based on their gender, their clothes, their voice, their face, everything, it is just the way as humans we are. The trick is to be open to changing your judgement of other people, be aware of the fact that you can't accurately judge people based only on meeting others, and be ready to eat crow once and a while.
  • Bacci 2013/01/02 21:29:29
    I judge them back
    Bacci
    +2
    I judge them back and then block them here on SH. In real life, I am not around people like that so it doesn't apply.
  • Bacci Bacci 2013/01/02 22:16:51
    Bacci
    +2
    and I think quite a few of the people here who posted, are lying to themselves. I've seen quite a few here who checked they didn't judge, judge others, by belittling and ridiculing others, and to me, that is judging others.
  • john Bacci 2013/01/02 22:35:18
    john
    +3
    I like a women who talks to herself...
  • Bacci john 2013/01/02 22:47:03
    Bacci
    +2
    Then you must like me a lot. : - ) Happy New Year John!
  • john Bacci 2013/01/02 22:48:19
    john
    +2
    Same to you, hon and yes...lol
  • Sister Jean 2013/01/02 21:22:20
    I respond to those who judge me
    Sister Jean
  • Robbb 2013/01/02 21:15:13
    I laugh
    Robbb
    +3
    People are welcome to judge me as they please.
  • Relay 2013/01/02 21:09:20
    I ignore and move on
    Relay
    we all have a right to an opinion ...
  • peaches 2013/01/02 20:11:00
    I respond to those who judge me
    peaches
    +2
    I'm usually very appalled by their ignorance. A lot of the times it seems to be wasted energy, but I usually always try to enlighten them on their judgments and ignorance. I don't judge them, just preach open-mindedness in hopes that they will recognize their mistake even if they don't want to outright admit that they were wrong to judge.

    Live and let live, people! That's what I always say!
  • bob h. 2013/01/02 19:58:10
    I ignore and move on
    bob h.
    +3
    They're a dime a dozen.
  • lm1b2 2013/01/02 19:42:51
    None of the above
    lm1b2
    +1
    Who cares?
  • sarah lm1b2 2013/01/02 19:55:36
    sarah
    "who cares?" not you but you don't speak for everyone. :)
  • lm1b2 sarah 2013/01/06 16:55:48
    lm1b2
    Your problem,not mine!
  • Accuser 2013/01/02 19:32:10
  • Sista Nunya 2013/01/02 19:30:27
  • Barefoot Peace and Love∞ijm... 2013/01/02 19:27:59
    Undecided
    Barefoot Peace and Love∞ijm♥☮♥∞
  • Lady 2013/01/02 19:21:55
    None of the above
    Lady
    +1
    I use to try and tell them how I really am,that I'm not the person they judged me to be but I don't anymore,it's just not worth it,they see me as they wish but I know who I am
  • deidara.trueart 2013/01/02 19:00:25
  • Lulu's Mom 2013/01/02 18:25:36
    I ignore and move on
    Lulu's Mom
    +3
    People in the real world seem to give me more credit then I think I deserve. The rest I take with a grain of salt.
  • rand 2013/01/02 18:01:28
    I laugh
    rand
    +2
    Unreasoning people are often funny without intending to be. In reality, no one can "judge" (affect my life) me without my consent.
  • Kashee 2013/01/02 17:30:25
    I ignore and move on
    Kashee
    +4
    Unfortunately, many people do judge other people. We have to know who we are and not allow their judgment to change us. Just love yourself and choose not to judge other people.
  • Lunacat 2013/01/02 16:58:07
    I ignore and move on
    Lunacat
    +5
    What people think of me is meaningless.
  • SA 2013/01/02 16:57:04
    None of the above
    SA
    +6
    Most of the time whether it be in real life or on Sodahead I just feel pity on people who judge me. They don't know my journey. Other times I just laugh.
  • sarah SA 2013/01/02 16:58:13
    sarah
    +2
    That's usually how I feel too, they don't know me
  • Lulu's Mom SA 2013/01/02 18:27:14
    Lulu's Mom
    +4
    I know how wonderful you are, and for those who don't, that is their problem.
  • SA Lulu's Mom 2013/01/02 19:02:58
    SA
    +4
    Thanks Lulu's Mom!! Love you, my friend!!
  • john 2013/01/02 15:35:37
    I respond to those who judge me
    john
    +5
    I wish I could ignore them, but I find I need to get my point across and won't give up until they do or block me...
  • Sista N... john 2013/01/02 19:31:29 (edited)
  • john Sista N... 2013/01/02 22:33:59
    john
    +3
    But I enjoy it, it can be fun and I like to see how long before they block me, although I've made some friends as well....

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