How do you deal with a painful experience in your life?

by Chris'Elia Posted 2012/07/04 21:52:12

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CCRNRT 2012/07/04 21:54:27

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Try to understand it and deal with it
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Phyl *In God i Trust* 2012/07/06 05:12:23

prayer and music.

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Jan Haskell 2012/07/05 23:06:41

Face it, pray about it, do what I can (if anything), and try to let go of it.

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flrdsgns 2012/07/05 16:41:08

+1
Face it, deal with it and move on

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**StarzAbove** 2012/07/05 14:32:25

+2
Deal with it.

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lady blue 2012/07/05 14:29:57

I pray and God makes everything clear to me whether I like the outcome or not.
It's his will for my life not mine and I accept what he gives and what he takes away
from me. God is in control of my life and he knows what's best for me when I don't.

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Missile 2012/07/05 11:33:39 (edited)

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I usually go into shutdown mode, think things through and finally come out the other end.

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lady blue to Missile 2012/07/05 14:33:53

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Hi my friend, how are you today ? I was thinking about you this morning and I was
going to send you a msg in your profile and it's funny how I posted my comment right
above yours. I hope everything is going well. Hugs to Barney & Rubble. God bless you :)

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Missile to lady blue 2012/07/05 22:21:16

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Hi Sis, yes all well, hope you are too. Barney and Rubble send you big kisses. x

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lady blue to Missile 2012/07/05 22:27:05 (edited)

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Hi sweet sister, I'm so happy to hear that everything is well for you, :)
Awww I just love those dogs. Refresh me...they are both Border Collies right ?
I wish I could hug and kiss them. Bring yourself and those precious dogs to New York next vacation ok ? LoL. Seriously, if you are ever coming to New York City do let me know. Have a beautiful evening sis. <3 you !
{{{HUGS & KISSES }}}

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Missile to lady blue 2012/07/05 22:30:06

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Wee border collies, one has gone of to bed and the other is beside me, it's 11.30pm here. I might persuade you to come here instead...!!!! x

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lady blue to Missile 2012/07/05 23:28:06 (edited)

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Wee meaning smaller of the breed ? It is 7:24 pm here.
Why might you persuade me to go by you ...because you cannot travel with the dogs ? That makes sense but unfortunately because I have 3 weeks vacation that I have to use by the end of August and my guy doesn't want to travel abroad now. One never knows what ther future will bring We are good friends and that's all I know right now. :)
Thanks for commenting at Yuffie's Guru party. We both appreciate it so much my friend. Love you sis <3

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Chris'Elia to Missile 2012/07/05 18:14:11

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Now this one I done a lot recently in a current situation dealing with a custody issue.

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Vision of Verve 2012/07/05 01:21:11
Gunner 2012/07/04 23:05:44

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I face it - deal with it. Having survived Marine boot camp in '76, nothing can beat me. Never, ever give up! Never!

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Lauren.livelovelaugh. 2012/07/04 22:49:37

+2
Music, understand why it happened, and remember everything happens for a reason and i need to accept that

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esteeopolis 2012/07/04 22:46:07

I avoid people, shut down and make bad impulsive decisions.

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Chris'Elia to esteeop... 2012/07/05 00:12:18

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I find myself in a similar state.

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Kitty 2012/07/04 22:23:12

alcohol.

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Megan's a soul collector 2012/07/04 21:59:05

+1
Bury it, scream it out later.

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Marianne ☮ 2012/07/04 21:58:56

Simply deal with it in the best way I can, and get on with my life

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Sister Jean 2012/07/04 21:58:37

+2
moment to moment

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SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 2012/07/04 21:58:23

+2
music and talk to people.

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Dan 2012/07/04 21:56:13

+2
Learn from it and move on.

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Staind_wolf94 2012/07/04 21:54:48

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Dwell on it long enough to seem human, then surpress it and listen to music/ move on.

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CCRNRT 2012/07/04 21:54:27

+6
Try to understand it and deal with it

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Aingean 2012/07/04 21:53:59

+3
I write until I get it out of my system or vent some other way.

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Chris'Elia to Aingean 2012/07/05 00:14:01

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Writing tends to be a good outlet, but there are times I find it only to cause the flames to increase in proportion.

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Aingean to Chris'Elia 2012/07/05 00:15:55

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Sometimes. It took me nearly 7 years to get over one horrible experience. But writing every day helped ease some of the trauma.

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