How do people react to their parents yelling at them? and how do you think they should react? and what age should you stop dealing with it?
caroline.smith.73997861
2012/07/18 01:56:54
I get mad, because i hate it when someone yells at me. It makes me really angry and want to hit someone. but if you are over the age of 18 your parents shouldn't yell at you. They should just let you make your own choices then, your graduated (or almost graduating) at that time you need to make your own choices and try and live life as much as you can. but around 16 you should start to stick up for your self a little to get ready for the real world. Parents haven't realized that kids don't respond well with yelling if you sit down and TALK to them they will listen better. or ASK them to do something if they don't do it, then ask them again. There is no need to raise your voice at kids, your not gonna get any where. but thats just my opinion...
That said, I urge you to learn how to NOT get angry. When you're able to control your emotions, you realize that nobody can make you feel anything or ruin your day. It's all literally up to you. :O)
my kids know they they can say no to me when i ask them do something for me, when they get into trouble, they get a warning and i sit them down and talk to them, if they do it again, they get time out and sat down and talked to.
Usually I get so pissed off at my parents I end up lashing out at something or someone. I think 16 is a good age to start defending their selves, as for the parents, they should let their kids make decisions for their selves and learn from them. Life is about learning after all.
Talking would be a great alternative to yelling and screaming, I agree with when the teen is 18 it's time for the parents to start showing some respect, instead of treating them like they're still children.