How do ask someone to leave,without sounding rude ?

by Kennedy1st Posted 2011/10/01 20:36:12

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SCOOP--RIP, MY DEAR MAX 2011/10/01 20:39:47

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I always pick up my car keys and say I have to be somewhere and thank them for stopping by. If I just to get a coffee and come back home, I wasn't fibbing to them. I had to have a cup of coffee. lol
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Otaku Link 2011/10/06 15:55:00

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I'm not sure...

But why should you? I mean where's the fun in that?

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lady blue 2011/10/04 12:00:25

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The best way to deal with anyone in any situation is to be straight out and honest.
I usually just say that it's been fun but I really must go right now because I have other things
to tend to.
That works just fine for me. Also sometimes it's not what you say but how you say it.
I am always very sweet in saying goodbye to a guest.

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Valerie Howeth 2011/10/02 22:20:09

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I have somthing to do right now so if you don't mind,I 'd like to be alone.

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Zammo 2011/10/02 18:27:02

If I had to ask someone to leave, I wouldn't care if I was rude! It would be like, "There's the door. Use it!"

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4099aj 2011/10/02 16:51:08

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Aly Hart 2011/10/02 13:52:32

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I have alot of homework to do, can we catch up later? *slowly backs up the stairs and shuts the door*

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kalosanthropos 2011/10/02 13:52:07

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i want some time for myself or something like it!!!

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Mrs Reckless 2011/10/02 11:52:16

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lie...say you arent feeling well and you just want to relax for a bit?

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Jensola 2011/10/02 08:49:18

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Oh dear, I don't think there IS a way!!

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mrdog 2011/10/02 07:36:41

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We say.... goodbye...bark

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Helmholtz 2011/10/02 05:36:58

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marcia maria 2011/10/02 03:46:25

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This has been really fun and we should do this again but I really have a lot to do today, but you're welcomed to stay and help!

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mg's haven~POTL~PWCM~JLA 2011/10/02 03:17:50

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Im not proud of this, but i have almost convinced someone that they had mentioned having to do something after coming to my house...By the time they were completely gone the door was shut behind them. They didnt bother trying to come back in either.

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I NEED A HORSE 2011/10/02 03:07:17
Leo 2011/10/02 01:45:37

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I feel an episode of explosive diarrhea coming on. It won't be pretty!

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Dixienc 2011/10/02 01:34:13

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Kennedy...I really had to think about this one. It's been a long time that there has been anyone come to visit that I wouldn't hesitate at all to simply say "make yourself at home I have to go out". But to answer your question...just be honest. Tell them...I have things I have to do. It's been nice spending time with you but let's call it a day and make plans to visit another time."

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marcia ... to Dixienc 2011/10/02 03:25:14

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That was really nice.

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Kennedy1st to Dixienc 2011/10/02 11:07:02

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Great amswer Dixienc.

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Alphamale 2011/10/02 01:32:52

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GET OUT

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4099aj to Alphamale 2011/10/02 16:53:08

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LOL

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Lazarus Long 2011/10/02 01:29:14

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4099aj to Lazarus... 2011/10/02 04:11:46

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LOL...

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Moonbeams 2011/10/02 01:28:32

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I tell them, "Someone is knocking, can you please get the door?". Then, I push them out.

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4099aj to Moonbeams 2011/10/02 04:12:03

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hahahahaha

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wandering mystery aka Relch... 2011/10/02 01:21:44

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I just say, "listen, I enjoyed you visiting, but you must leave now."

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4099aj to wanderi... 2011/10/02 04:12:17

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LOL

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wanderi... to 4099aj 2011/10/02 14:07:37

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I've done it. My cousin Karen will stay until you ask her to leave

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4099aj to wanderi... 2011/10/02 16:48:31 (edited)

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It could be tough...and also can help them understand, there Limitations Thanks or feedback!

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wanderi... to 4099aj 2011/10/02 22:34:41

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welcome

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Jack's Pearl 2011/10/02 01:15:36

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Just state it calmly and cooly. That's all you can do. It likely won't go over well no matter how you say it. But later on the person can at least say, "at least he/she was decent about it."

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drreverol 2011/10/02 01:06:24

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I leave, or I give those people the 'Evil Eye'.
That would sure scare them away.

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4099aj to drreverol 2011/10/02 04:12:42

LOL

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Dewymoon 2011/10/02 00:55:34

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I tell them straight and to the point ..... I have things to do and you have to go no sense beating around the bush

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4099aj to Dewymoon 2011/10/02 04:13:08

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STRAIGHT uP

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Anna E 2011/10/02 00:22:34

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I usually say with some humor, "Git. I have to get busy." It's the truth and the humor takes the edge off.

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ruru 2011/10/01 23:58:42

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Tell them you have an appointment in an hour and you have to get ready.

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Lea Mirton 2011/10/01 23:37:37

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Some call it rude, I prefer 'straight to the point'.

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4099aj to Lea Mirton 2011/10/02 04:13:45

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HAHAHAHAHAHA,,,,,freakin good one!

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Larry Roemer 2011/10/01 23:34:34

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Black... no frills

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Walt 2011/10/01 21:16:30

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The one time I've had to kick someone out of my home, I didn't worry about being rude.

I simply pointed toward the door and yelled, "Get your ass OUT OF MY HOUSE!"

Of course they never came back and weren't friends with me after that.

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