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  • Alexia 2009/07/14 18:58:35
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    I had been dating this guy for a while. It was mostly a physical relationship but we were still together. He ended up cheating on me, I should have known better. I have seen the signs before and decided from that point on that I will never be with a guy that will treat me as a piece of meat. I am now happy to say that I have found the love of my life.

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  • D 2009/07/18 04:40:52
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    D
    he said I changed to much for him and I guess I did but I never understood how I seemd to be the one who ruined everything there now that wer talking he says I'm the freakin same and that he isn't over me but now I well am interested in someone else so yeah takin it slow this time
  • KittyC 2009/07/15 08:42:52 (edited)
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    KittyC
    It involved me throwing my girlfriend down a flight of stairs after finding her in bed with her best friend; the very girl that played matchmaker and got the two of us together.
    I threw her down the stairs too.
    Then I threw their clothes down after them.
    Apparently they'd been screwing behind my back for close to four months.
    I got "a little upset", for lack of a better phrase.
  • jose_s92 2009/07/15 04:06:53
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    jose_s92
    It was mutual. Those are the best. Because you both care about each other to see that you're both hurting each other and you don't want to anymore.
  • Will 2009/07/14 22:33:33
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    Will
  • Toasty 2009/07/14 22:05:50
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    Toasty
    Long story short, best six months of my life.
  • mad hatter 2009/07/14 21:19:49
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    mad hatter
    it was a girl who said she knew her other friend liked me and she didn't want to hurt her after about a month of us dating
  • arrabella 2009/07/14 20:29:11
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    well he got mugged and
    they killed him
    so...
    yup
  • eclecticpassion 2009/07/14 19:02:07 (edited)
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    eclecticpassion
    well few breakups are easy, but i still really like the guy as a person. it's just that in terms of interests, we'd grown apart and no matter how much i cared about him, i knew we didn't have a future together. in other words 'irreconcilable differences.'

    we argued at first, naturally, but now we're pretty much civil. personally i think as breakups go, it was pretty smooth, and i was lucky. i am extremely grateful we were ever together to this day as he was (and is) a really decent and interesting person, and despite us growing apart, the year we were together i learnt so much, and have some amazing memories. He encouraged me to be more open-minded too with certain things (non-sexual) and i am grateful he did...i learnt much more about politics, science, questioning authority, and marijuana, lol.
  • Alexia 2009/07/14 18:58:35
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    Alexia
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    I had been dating this guy for a while. It was mostly a physical relationship but we were still together. He ended up cheating on me, I should have known better. I have seen the signs before and decided from that point on that I will never be with a guy that will treat me as a piece of meat. I am now happy to say that I have found the love of my life.
  • eclecti... Alexia 2009/07/14 19:17:31
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    go you! glad you've moved on and have found someone who better deserves you =)
  • Jen 2009/07/14 18:34:51
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    Jen
    ok it really wasent good or bad i broke up with him though cause he was a reall jerk and thier was another a guy that i thought was my best friend but then i started likeing him 2 so i couldnt handle it so i broke up with the other guy and he got so pissed he started calling me names and he know hates mebut im still friends with the other guy
  • Terice =D 2009/07/14 18:27:47
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    Terice =D
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    He died. June 20th, 2009, approximately 6:24 PM
  • Jen Terice =D 2009/07/14 18:36:12 (edited)
  • Terice =D Jen 2009/07/14 18:40:56
    Terice =D
    thanxxxxx
  • ♛Littlɘ Ǫuɘɘn~ƿɦɐɘϯ 2009/07/14 17:51:57
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    ♛Littlɘ Ǫuɘɘn~ƿɦɐɘϯ
    +1
    but that was way back in 1990, so it's just a faded memory.
  • KELSO 2009/07/14 17:47:24
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    KELSO
    very bad actually BIG fight but guess who won ME!!!
  • Maine Guy 2009/07/14 17:05:34
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    Luckily, it was a very long time ago. luckily
  • rebecka 2009/07/14 17:00:55
  • jyl 2009/07/14 16:59:52
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    he broke up with me over text we are still friends but I tried to commit suicide he was worth it and always will be
  • Ashley 2009/07/14 16:55:44
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    i really dont know how exactly we broke up all i know is that i got in trouble and i wasnt able to talk to him for like five months and when i finally got to he didnt know what to say to me
  • Terri3GS..Allergic to Stupi... 2009/07/14 16:43:20
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    Terri3GS..Allergic to Stupidity.
    +2


    and way past due,lol
  • Noone 2009/07/14 16:43:03
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    Noone
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    where's the none of the above!?
    anyways she told me se loved me and I answered with a "I just appreciate you alot" (I know it's terrible) and it kinda ended by itself
  • eclecti... Noone 2009/07/14 19:27:15 (edited)
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    lol, at least you were honest. my ex told me he liked another girl just 2 weeks after *i* broke up with him after a year together (and was serious, it wasn't just to make me jealous), and then when flirting with me about a month later, said that he thought *i* was a rebound from the girl he'd kissed! however brutal that was i still greatly appreciate his honesty...better than cheating and deception any day. i'm pretty sure he didn't cheat on me with the girl when we were together btw...he admitted to finding her attractive but he's the kind of person who values telling the truth over saying what people want to hear...i greatly admire him for that

    p.s i was also in a similar situation to you with the 'i love you' thing. it's horrible feeling pressured to say it, and it's something you can't force... i also think there are degrees of love- while i wasn't 'in love' with my ex, i was definitely smitten with him and cared about him a lot. it definitely wasn't a casual thing...i just wasn't ready to sign my life away to him!
  • Noone eclecti... 2009/07/14 20:53:12
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    wow that's a bad story...well honesty can hurt but discovering lies hurts way more..and I defenitely agree about the "I love you thing"..there are sure various degrees but it's easy to misunderstand what the other person meant.So honesty helps alot..about feeling forced you are right too
    Sometimes it's really hard to tell a person you just like her..and lying feels terrible too.
    Regards XD
  • keeper 2009/07/14 16:37:04
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    I wish you had a neutral choice, kinky... my last serious relationship and by mutual consent (even though she stole $700 from me...LOL) ,,, but it is in the past ;=)
  • Dave**Gay for Girls** 2009/07/14 16:23:07
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    Dave**Gay for Girls**
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    D-I-V-O-R-C-E! Much needed! d-i-v-o-r-c-e
  • Imogenery 2009/07/14 16:23:03
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    Imogenery
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    It ended with a court case. He was physically and emotionally abusive.
  • southern<3killjoy 2009/07/14 16:23:01
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    southern<3killjoy
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    i broke up with my boyfriend he waz an ass so i had a good reaspn
  • muffincake 2009/07/14 16:21:13
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    he had to move away, so we decided to better end it.
    bad for me, cause i still love him and possibly good for him, cause he found a new girl.
  • Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥ 2009/07/14 16:18:17
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    Dave Sawyer ♥ Child of God ♥
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    Divorce.
  • kinky Dave Sa... 2009/07/14 16:19:37
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    im sorry to hear that
  • Kay 2009/07/14 16:17:04
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    Kay
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    In flames
  • Jen Kay 2009/07/14 18:39:06
    Jen
    what do u mean
  • Kay Jen 2009/07/14 18:43:51
    Kay
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    Like a crashing aircraft. an old saying is "Went Down In Flames"
  • Jen Kay 2009/07/14 18:47:05
    Jen
    +1
    awww im so sorry awww
  • Kay Jen 2009/07/14 18:49:30
    Kay
    +1
    thanks..no biggie...better off all the same
  • XSummerX Tokio Hotel Freak(= 2009/07/14 16:14:57
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    XSummerX Tokio Hotel Freak(=
    very very badly
  • Jen XSummer... 2009/07/14 18:39:14
    Jen
    how
  • Hitch 2009/07/14 16:14:47
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    Hitch
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    good for me and bad for him lol that obsessive, over dramatic kid haha

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