How can people have sex with just about anyone...
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Isn't sex a little personal....they're all up in your business huffing and puffing...sweatin' and pettin'..
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onetirednurse 2012/07/30 07:15:55I agree, that would be awkward
+9I've never understood the "one night stand" thing with total strangers. I have to know and trust someone before I let them touch me like that.
I'm not saying I'd die without sex, but after food and water, it's probably the thing I crave most!
Sex without love or commitment has become the norm.
Ignorance, is often mistakenly labeled in place of INTELLECTUAL DISHONESTY, which is the catalyst of the philosophy of unaccountability. Intellectual Dishonesty, or "ignorance" is a learned behavior and a shortcut for actual principle, conviction and honest philosophy. We live in a society that has come to prefer bendable philosophies and principles. This empowers standards of unaccountability. For example: "Don't Judge me/people" has become the champion phrase of this philosophy. Meaning, "Don't point a finger and make me take responsibility for my actions, or lack thereof, and then when it comes your turn to be a wishy-washy, irresponsible coward we'll make sure the same standard is in place for you." And then if you don't agree with their philosophy or tactics they'll call you names and accuse you of not being "open-minded", another champion word of their philosophy.
**Another companion phrase to these two that used to be a lighthearted one that has since been adopted by douchebags everywhere and is now even being marketed as one of those annoying acronyms is "You only live once." (SIGH) You'd think that this phrase might draw respect from the po...
Ignorance, is often mistakenly labeled in place of INTELLECTUAL DISHONESTY, which is the catalyst of the philosophy of unaccountability. Intellectual Dishonesty, or "ignorance" is a learned behavior and a shortcut for actual principle, conviction and honest philosophy. We live in a society that has come to prefer bendable philosophies and principles. This empowers standards of unaccountability. For example: "Don't Judge me/people" has become the champion phrase of this philosophy. Meaning, "Don't point a finger and make me take responsibility for my actions, or lack thereof, and then when it comes your turn to be a wishy-washy, irresponsible coward we'll make sure the same standard is in place for you." And then if you don't agree with their philosophy or tactics they'll call you names and accuse you of not being "open-minded", another champion word of their philosophy.
**Another companion phrase to these two that used to be a lighthearted one that has since been adopted by douchebags everywhere and is now even being marketed as one of those annoying acronyms is "You only live once." (SIGH) You'd think that this phrase might draw respect from the polar opposite of the philosophy that it is being used by. But alas, NO! Whereas I would hope people would look at life and say "You only live once. I will live with honor, conviction and integrity!" They are actually saying "You only live once. Let's get away with as much as we can. Who cares about the supposed consequences or who gets hurt along the way!"
We live in an inherently dishonest, hedonistic, greedy, vanity driven, self serving society. Men of principle and integrity are few and far between and are seemingly the new outcasts. "Lo! My Eager Eyes Will Behold The TRUTH." -- Tanner Merritt
Something else I don't understand is, why people believe in certain other intangible unseen things. Take for example, fear. We cannot see it, it isn't a tangible element but we can feel it presence. We see the effects it has. I compare this to spirituality (God).
Hmm. I can lend you this idea in a quote by C.S, Lewis: "You don't HAVE a SOUL. You ARE a SOUL. You HAVE a body."
Sit and make a list of ALL the things we cannot see, but we KNOW are in fact there. It's awesome! And now I'll quote Dustin Kensrue of Thrice from the song 'Treading Paper': "If anything means anything, there MUST be something left for us to be. A song that we were MADE to sing. There must be, SO MUCH more that we can't see...."
I believe that when you master yourself and your ego and you can truly open your mind and spirit, God is there waiting to be heard.
I'll close by quoting Vitor Belfort: "There are two ways: A life of Principle, or a life of Preference."
There is nothing to prevent a promiscuous person from being discriminating. Furthermore, promiscuous people might have strong feelings of love and affection toward all of the people with whom they are intimate. Finally, promiscuity does not necessarily stem from boredom. One could be promiscuous simply because they enjoy with sex with many partners.
There is a woman on here this thread who likes to sleep around and she said so herself she discriminates against "ugly guys". She says she doesn't just do anyone.
"Furthermore, promiscuous people might have strong feelings of love and affection toward all of the people with whom they are intimate"
Love? Doubt it. Their attention and desire is too divided in order for them to actually give love. All they can offer is crotch...whoppie.
I think you may be projecting. It might be difficult or impossible for you to feel love and affection for more than one person at a time. That does not mean that others can feel love and affection toward more than one person at a time.
I don't think anyone devotes their whole life to another individual. Friends, family and co-workers fulfill needs both physical and emotional that can't be met by one person.
Ultimately, you and I have two different world views. Nothing is wrong with your paradigm. It is just not one that I embrace.
I'll let you have the last word on this exchange.
But sex is always better when there is feelings involved
And so on and so on
And scooby-dooby-do
The reasons are endless.
But anywho...yes, yes & yes on what you have said and also that so many teens don't feel they are getting love and they go in search of it, anyway they have to. Seen that too much when I was younger. It was their way of feeling accepted by a guy.
I'll have to check the new letter out now!