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Hiring a Marriage Proposal Planner: Reasonable or Ridiculous?

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While the words themselves may be simple, the process of planning the perfect proposal can be incredibly anxiety provoking. As such, in recent years, a new service has cropped up in the wedding industry: marriage proposal planners. For a fee, these consultants advise men, and sometimes women, on how to create the ideal scenario to pop the big question.

Sarah Pease, the owner of Brilliant Event Planning in New York, got the idea to offer proposal-planning services after one of her friends proposed with an engagement ring at the bottom of a bucket of Kentucky Fried Chicken.

“I figured there must be a better way,” she said. (Though she added that the couple in question is now happily married.)

Michele Velazquez decided to open Heart Bandits in Los Angeles after her boyfriend (now husband and business partner) executed a somewhat uninspired proposal. Lacking a timeline, Marvin Velazquez proposed at the end of a sunset cruise as the ship was docking. Then, he had no plan for how to celebrate, so they just went home.

Pease charges $500 to devise a plan while Velazquez charges $99 to give an idea. Fees increase if the planners are called upon to assist with execution, and that’s in addition to the costs charged by the venders themselves.

And yet, no matter how much money is spent, marriage proposal planners have no control over the most important thing of all: whether or not your boyfriend or girlfriend will say “yes.”

What do you think about hiring a marriage proposal planner? Reasonable or ridiculous?

Read More: http://www.nytimes.com/2011/12/25/fashion/weddings...

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  • MARY 2012/01/11 02:05:26
    Reasonable
    MARY
    I was kinda hoping for an undecided option for this because the planner my help the guy make the proposal perfect, it also means the guy didnt have to make it perfect on his own which would make it that much more special. Does that make sense? I think it's a neat idea though.
  • Chris Simmons 2012/01/10 16:13:01
    Reasonable
    Chris Simmons
    i meant to click rediculous but page loaded and droped the clicker so i hit the other
  • Mrkando 2012/01/10 04:26:55
    Reasonable
    Mrkando
    As long as money is not a factor I think it would be an excellent way to build a fantastic memory! But the one deciding factor is knowing what your intended can handle. Nothing could be worse than being turned down when the whole world is watching.
  • MARY Mrkando 2012/01/11 02:06:46
    MARY
    +1
    There was a video on yahoo news of a guy being turned down on the jumbotron, it was horrible :(
  • Mrkando MARY 2012/01/11 04:47:54
    Mrkando
    +1
    Yes, I saw that and it is what I was referring to. He took a big chance because he clearly did not know what her reaction would be. I would love to know if they were able to work it out.
  • MARY Mrkando 2012/01/11 04:52:17
    MARY
    +1
    Me too, like maybe she really did have "stage fright".
  • Mrkando MARY 2012/01/11 05:12:25
    Mrkando
    +1
    Well it may have had a lot to do with that woman sticking that microphone in there face and almost crawling all over the poor woman. That was enough to turn anyone off. But who knows. I hope that was it and he was able to make it up to her.
  • MARY Mrkando 2012/01/11 05:31:54
    MARY
    +1
    Haha true, and i hope so too he seemed like a genuinely sweet guy
  • theJosmo 2012/01/09 22:05:12
    Ridiculous
    theJosmo
    +1
    Just propose! Having creative over-the-top proposals are overrated anyway!
  • Student 2012/01/09 21:49:07
    Reasonable
    Student
    This is a good idea for those who have the money.
  • Predators Eyez 2012/01/09 21:25:13
    Ridiculous
    Predators Eyez
    I just think this is stupid.
  • wpsark_BN_0 2012/01/09 21:10:23
    Ridiculous
    wpsark_BN_0
    +1
    I wouldn't marry a man that needed this service...Most likely he'd be a complete moron..not my type
  • Abel Lewis 2012/01/09 21:07:34
    Ridiculous
    Abel Lewis
    I seriously don't see the point.
  • Aspect of B 2012/01/09 21:00:11
    Reasonable
    Aspect of B
    ...Can I take that job?
  • Erin Innocent 2012/01/09 20:45:32
    Ridiculous
    Erin Innocent
    +2
    proposing should be something special and personal
    getting someone else involved just makes it awkward!
  • Knot_Rich 2012/01/09 20:06:04
    Ridiculous
    Knot_Rich
    +1
    It's rediculous, to anyway, just another case of too many people with more money than brains. Perhaps if some of these folks would pull their heads out of their cell phones and/or video games long enough they could come up with a little creative thinking of their own. I just can't imagine some woman looking back and remembering some special proposal, thought up by someone other than her husband. "Oh, he's so wonderful, he paid someone to think of this." But, that's free enterprise, there's always someone willing to seperate a fool and his money.
  • dan198309 Knot_Rich 2012/01/09 20:36:59
    dan198309
    lol how did you manage to spell ridiculous wrong when its written write above your comment
  • Dickens 2012/01/09 19:21:47
    Ridiculous
    Dickens
    +1
    ...if the relationship is SO fragile that the wrong proposal will spoil everything, maybe they should rethink the entire marriage thing...
  • skull+crossbones 2012/01/09 19:17:40
    Ridiculous
    skull+crossbones
    +1
    Honestly what is the world COMING TO?!?
  • Aingean 2012/01/09 18:48:44
    Ridiculous
    Aingean
    +3
    Is it really that hard to come up with an idea on your own? You don't need to be a rocket scientist to ask someone to marry you. I would be very disappointed if my boyfriend didn't come up with something on his own..
  • agnessa 2012/01/09 18:20:55
    Reasonable
    agnessa
    I would not hire proposal planner but I am a women and I do know that some man have a really big problem with how to surprise a women and do it right, so for them, why not? It would lessen their stress
  • skull+c... agnessa 2012/01/09 19:19:23
    skull+crossbones
    But if It was your husband, would you not mind?!?
  • agnessa skull+c... 2012/01/10 16:22:06
    agnessa
    it depands, of cours I would not like to hear sth that planner wrote as a proposal, but if he/she just helpped to organize a whole think- I mean proposals that include flowers restaurant candels and many more things, not sth easy, and of course the whole speach should come frome heart (of fiance not the planner) in that case why not some women would like to have proposals almost as big as the wedding itself, but in my case if you'r asking I would like simple proposal, I just say it is not such a bad idea ;)
  • none 2012/01/09 17:21:13
    Ridiculous
    none
    Looks like there are some smart people out there who've found a new way to get money from idiots.
  • bob 2012/01/09 17:20:25
    Ridiculous
    bob
    silly is what silly does
  • Bikermike 2012/01/09 17:12:41
    Ridiculous
    Bikermike
    +2
    Honey...I wanted to ask you something straight from my planner's heart
  • Kezzi Rose Lavigne Biersack 2012/01/09 16:54:23
    Ridiculous
    Kezzi Rose Lavigne Biersack
    Silly
  • <3 stephanie_blank <3 2012/01/09 16:35:50
    Ridiculous
    <3 stephanie_blank <3
    +1
    This is what happen when you plan a proposal
  • Lorelei Lee 2012/01/09 16:22:02
    Ridiculous
    Lorelei Lee
    +1
    If he or she can't take the time to think of a very nice way to propose to me and have to pay someone else to do it,it will make me wonder if I should marry him or her. And besides,I'm a simple girl. I don't really need he or she to do something real big or fancy. I'll be happy with just the ring.
  • srini 2012/01/09 16:09:37
    Ridiculous
    srini
    If you need a planner to help you with the proposal--game-over!
  • retrograve 2012/01/09 16:03:19
    Ridiculous
    retrograve
    That's what their momma's for! I was going to say her mom but then I remember that 'Can women propose to men' question.
  • NarcolepticGoat 2012/01/09 15:59:08
    Reasonable
    NarcolepticGoat
    +3
    It may be a ridiculous thing for a guy hire a proposal consultant but it is a BRILLIANT way for someone to employ herself (or himself)! It adds a job to the economy maybe more! YAY!
  • wpsark_... Narcole... 2012/01/09 21:11:24 (edited)
    wpsark_BN_0
    +1
    at least there's a profit to be made from those suckers born every minute, huh...
  • BigMoki 2012/01/09 15:24:41
    Ridiculous
    BigMoki
    It's ok to hire a MPP if your GF doesn't find out, and if she does, you can throw away your ring or she will do it for you :'D
  • WhoMe 2012/01/09 15:03:07
    Ridiculous
    WhoMe
  • the fuze 2012/01/09 14:48:33
    Ridiculous
    the fuze
    +2
    If ABSOLUTELY ridiculous had been a choice, I would have gone with that.
  • smitty 2012/01/09 14:39:33
    Ridiculous
    smitty
    +2
    If you can't propose to the woman you want to be your spouse without someone else telling you what to say and do. Maybe you shouldn't propose.

    If you want to propose by putting a ring at the bottom of a KFC bucket, more power to you. At least your spouse won't be fooled into thinking you are something you aren't.
  • mambotango 2012/01/09 14:29:20
    Ridiculous
    mambotango
    I think I'd faint if my bf even asked.
  • mambotango mambotango 2012/01/09 14:30:50
    mambotango
    Although I wouldn't mind getting paid for something like that ;)
  • kmay 2012/01/09 14:11:36 (edited)
    Ridiculous
    kmay
    +1
    How about advice, and the tools, on how to make your marriage work and not bailing at the first sign of disagreement. The proposal planner is just about $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

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