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Have you ever had to dump somebody?

The Aging Yankee Liberal Douche 2013/01/14 21:23:27
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My one ex was your prototypical spoiled, rich gold digger and i gave her to her demands for the most part. One time i was flat broke, she wanted me to buy her something expensive and i told her i didnt have the money. She threw a fit and i was in a bad mood as it was so i said im nobody's sugar daddy.. Go find someone else. Im kind of glad that I did that now. No regrets.
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  • lady blue 2013/01/14 21:40:53
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    lady blue
    +9
    I don't like to use the word dump. As bad as some men were or can be they are
    not garbage. They are human beings and I don't dump men. I end a relationship if I think it is going nowhere and it is a waste of my time to keep trying. Yes, I've had to end a relationship before and I had to walk away from it because it wasn't working out.

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  • StEwPiD MoNkEy 2013/02/14 18:43:30
    Yes
    StEwPiD MoNkEy
    +1
    Yep few.
  • Kat 2013/02/14 18:07:16
    Yes
    Kat
    +1
    He was a drunk and drug user and could not keep a job. Took two years but I finally said that's it. He died in a car accident a couple years later.....
  • Footage 2013/02/13 22:44:16
    Yes
    Footage
    +1
    Unfortunately yes. Most recently my wife.
  • Amasaman 2013/02/13 20:03:31
    Yes
    Amasaman
    +2
    One girl was a total nutcase. At first it was love at first sight for us both, but she was an irresponsible drunk. We dated for about two weeks, and I could tell she was a bit loony tunes. One one night we stayed up drinking and partying. The next morning she wanted ME to call HER work and tell them she wouldn't be in because she was hungover, but she wanted me to lie and tell them that she wasn't hungover, just otherwise ill. She said she had called in sick too many times in the last year. I finally had to walk out of her her house after we argued about it for about 15 minutes. She followed me to my car, crying and begging me not to leave, but I never looked back.

    A couple years later I ran into her at a party. She never changed. She was drunk and hanging all over everybody, but wouldn't even look me in the eye.

    Another girl was a blonde bombshell with a knockout body, who couldn't let go of her abusive ex-boyfriend. We dated about a month and one night she didn't come home. I figured she was with her ex and told her if it was true, just pack up and leave. She did, but left me a note (more like a teary eyed novel) saying she was sorry. About 6 months later she was pregnant with another guy's kid. Whew! I dodged another bullet there.
  • _Casey_Logan_ 2013/02/13 18:20:51
    Yes
    _Casey_Logan_
    +2
    I've dumped 3 one cheated, one ignored me, the other turned out to be really crazy
  • Neko-chan 2013/02/13 18:02:52
    Yes
    Neko-chan
    +1
    but he didnt get it and "broke up" with me in a letter that i got on my birthday... xD
    think my bf just broke up with me for the 3 1/2 time :o :'( not sure yet, he wont answer me :'(
  • Scar 2013/02/13 17:21:43
  • AbDoU 2013/02/13 17:07:06
    Yes
    AbDoU
    +1
    Some People Who Dumped Me Before, So When They Came Back I Just Dumped Back. :D
  • KoAm 2013/02/13 16:46:38
    Yes
    KoAm
    +2
    Good for you for telling the gold-digger to hit the road.
  • Hakking 2013/02/13 16:22:31
  • thomas.bogan.5 2013/02/13 15:18:05
  • Chico Pernalis 2013/02/13 15:05:18
    Yes
    Chico Pernalis
    +1
    My ex-wife, she was a cheat.
  • Peewee ~PWCM~JLA 2013/02/13 15:01:43
    Yes
    Peewee ~PWCM~JLA
    +2
    Yes, and it was really ugly....had to get a ppo, change my locks, I put everything of his on the back of his pickup and his trailer so he couldn't come back in.
  • baby cakes 826 2013/02/13 14:42:00
    Yes
    baby cakes 826
    +2
    Yes. I was dating a Marine, and he was wicked sweet at first and brought me on an extravagant date for our first date. We went into Boston saw Blue Man Group and stayed there overnight. Later on that week he was like oh yeah so by the way I'm going to be stationed in California for the next year or so. I was okay this can still work...So he left and I called him everyday and wrote him a letter. This went on for three weeks. He never wrote me a letter back and always seemed to be rushing me off the phone (usually because he wanted to go party). So finally I had enough and broke up with him.

    So he finally came back home from Cali and messages me to hangout with him...haha. I look at his messages and laugh. So glad I didn't waste more time with him.
  • Jesterz 2013/02/13 14:15:54
    Yes
    Jesterz
    +3
    Goes with the job... I'm a hitman so I have to dump the bodies somewhere you know...

    ?Oh you meant........ Damn....... Well, now I have to get all those who read this... Talk about work overload...
  • Tanya Smith 2013/02/13 13:51:53 (edited)
    Yes
    Tanya Smith
    +3
    Yes I dumped this guy because I was bored with him.....He treated me like a queen though...
  • Tiger!! 2013/02/13 13:44:30
    Yes
    Tiger!!
    +2
    only 2girls!!!!
  • Lorenz0 W. ElMenzo 2013/02/13 13:44:04
    No
    Lorenz0 W. ElMenzo
    +1
    No, Not Yet; But, there is always, a 1st., time! eh?
  • Jack's Pearl 2013/02/13 13:43:47
    Yes
    Jack's Pearl
    +2
    I've broken up with a few past boyfriends. It's never easy or a decision I take lightly. For one I never rushed those decisions. When it came down to it, I knew it was right, therefore I didn't play cat and mouse games of on and off.
  • Kezzi Morris 2013/02/13 13:21:32
    No
    Kezzi Morris
    +1
    Never been with anyone :/ yet
  • hayley 2013/01/17 02:24:00
    Yes
    hayley
    +3
    No point in being in a relationship if you dont really want to. its not fair on you or them
  • Free Spirit 2013/01/16 05:52:22
    Yes
    Free Spirit
    +2
    Sure have.
  • Sir Anthony Of Camelot 2013/01/16 05:35:36
    Yes
    Sir Anthony Of Camelot
    +4
    Yes, wasn't easy but was something that was needed for my own sanity.
  • PrincessJ*e*s*s*i*c *a Nico... 2013/01/16 04:19:51
  • Justin~PWCM~JLA 2013/01/15 23:26:46
    Yes
    Justin~PWCM~JLA
    +3
    Yes we dated a week and yes I stole her...you know...but she was a complete pshyco and like completely in love with me and was talking about marriage and wanted to be around me all the time and was really creepy about it so i said "um you(i forgot her name) but I think it would be best to just be friends" yes i said friends omg lesson learned on that one she only stabbed me twice and that night in the hospital was totally worth it. omg
  • TerryAgee 2013/01/15 19:49:51
    Yes
    TerryAgee
    +3
    Twice for cheating. The creepy thing is that they wanted me. Will wonders ever cease!
  • Liz 2013/01/15 16:02:41
    Yes
    Liz
    +3
    My ex-husband the best thing I didand that was over 11 years ago
  • sglmom 2013/01/15 08:49:36 (edited)
    Other
    sglmom
    +5
    Divorced one ..
    (his mother deemed her "precious son" could do no wrong .. POS definitely dug the GOLD he got and spent it all within LESS than 30 days from the divorce being final .. GOOD Riddance to BAD rubbish)


    and then there was another (whom I was not involved with) .. who I knew his parents (Good folks) .. his other sib was very responsible too. This BRAT has always lived off the backs of his parents .. when he wondered WHY no one will date nor talk to him anymore (and are angry when he shows up) I finally had it and gave him the REASON why too .. (more politely than most .. but he got an earful for sure)
  • addie 2013/01/15 06:02:06
    Yes
    addie
    +2
    A few. It always gets so annoyingly messy.
  • Erin PVL 2013/01/15 05:05:17
    Yes
    Erin PVL
    +2
    A couple times
  • Jon the Flamer 2013/01/15 04:56:26
    Yes
    Jon the Flamer
    +2
    My last boyfriend(also 2nd boyfriend)

    I realized that it just wasn't going to work between us, and I just wasn't attracted mentally nor physically. I'm not the one for him, and he's not the one for me. I personally think I may end up alone, and I'm actually okay with that. Of course, these days I'm actually wanting a boyfriend....I have no idea what's wrong with me.

    Just the other day, I wanted to have a baby. o.0 Not sure what I must have smoked.
  • fallnhope 2013/01/15 03:40:44
    Yes
    fallnhope
    +3
    Didn't want to talk to me anymore... just wanted to drink.... then he turned around and stalked me for over 3 years
  • avery johnson 2013/01/15 03:27:48
  • Jenna ☮♡ッ 2013/01/15 03:05:13
    Yes
    Jenna ☮♡ッ
    +4
    Yeah I dumped this guy who got way too clingy way too fast for my tastes. And I'm very glad I did, because now I've found someone so much better. :)
  • s2k 2013/01/15 02:43:07
    Yes
    s2k
    +4
    It felt terrible. Such a sweet girl but we had nothing in common. It was hard but I made the right decision. Shortly after, I met my future wife
  • John 2013/01/15 02:06:40
    Yes
    John
    +3
    This is too close to home right now. Everyone who has ever dated has either had to dump someone or has been dumped themselves. It's not always easy.
  • rbeas 2013/01/15 01:44:35
    No
    rbeas
    +2
    Sounds like a great decision.
  • Buck 2013/01/15 01:06:04
    No
    Buck
    +3
    No..I keep em all.Only had/got one
  • GeminiWolf 2013/01/15 00:51:40
    Yes
    GeminiWolf
    +3
    For the most part I'm the dumper... the last couple were hell and have made me hesitate getting into anything serious for a long time.
  • Fran-Halen 2013/01/15 00:49:41
    Yes
    Fran-Halen
    +3
    It can be hard, or the easiest thing.

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