Have you ever had to dump somebody?

Yep few.

He was a drunk and drug user and could not keep a job. Took two years but I finally said that's it. He died in a car accident a couple years later.....

Unfortunately yes. Most recently my wife.

One girl was a total nutcase. At first it was love at first sight for us both, but she was an irresponsible drunk. We dated for about two weeks, and I could tell she was a bit loony tunes. One one night we stayed up drinking and partying. The next morning she wanted ME to call HER work and tell them she wouldn't be in because she was hungover, but she wanted me to lie and tell them that she wasn't hungover, just otherwise ill. She said she had called in sick too many times in the last year. I finally had to walk out of her her house after we argued about it for about 15 minutes. She followed me to my car, crying and begging me not to leave, but I never looked back.

A couple years later I ran into her at a party. She never changed. She was drunk and hanging all over everybody, but wouldn't even look me in the eye.

Another girl was a blonde bombshell with a knockout body, who couldn't let go of her abusive ex-boyfriend. We dated about a month and one night she didn't come home. I figured she was with her ex and told her if it was true, just pack up and leave. She did, but left me a note (more like a teary eyed novel) saying she was sorry. About 6 months later she was pregnant with another guy's kid. Whew! I dodged another bullet there.

I've dumped 3 one cheated, one ignored me, the other turned out to be really crazy

but he didnt get it and "broke up" with me in a letter that i got on my birthday... xD
think my bf just broke up with me for the 3 1/2 time :o :'( not sure yet, he wont answer me :'(

Some People Who Dumped Me Before, So When They Came Back I Just Dumped Back. :D

Good for you for telling the gold-digger to hit the road.

Told them it wasn't working out, don't bother me any more .

My ex-wife, she was a cheat.

Yes, and it was really ugly....had to get a ppo, change my locks, I put everything of his on the back of his pickup and his trailer so he couldn't come back in.

Yes. I was dating a Marine, and he was wicked sweet at first and brought me on an extravagant date for our first date. We went into Boston saw Blue Man Group and stayed there overnight. Later on that week he was like oh yeah so by the way I'm going to be stationed in California for the next year or so. I was okay this can still work...So he left and I called him everyday and wrote him a letter. This went on for three weeks. He never wrote me a letter back and always seemed to be rushing me off the phone (usually because he wanted to go party). So finally I had enough and broke up with him.

So he finally came back home from Cali and messages me to hangout with him...haha. I look at his messages and laugh. So glad I didn't waste more time with him.

Goes with the job... I'm a hitman so I have to dump the bodies somewhere you know...

?Oh you meant........ Damn....... Well, now I have to get all those who read this... Talk about work overload...

Yes I dumped this guy because I was bored with him.....He treated me like a queen though...

only 2girls!!!!

No, Not Yet; But, there is always, a 1st., time! eh?

I've broken up with a few past boyfriends. It's never easy or a decision I take lightly. For one I never rushed those decisions. When it came down to it, I knew it was right, therefore I didn't play cat and mouse games of on and off.

Never been with anyone :/ yet

No point in being in a relationship if you dont really want to. its not fair on you or them

Sure have.

Yes, wasn't easy but was something that was needed for my own sanity.

no

Yes we dated a week and yes I stole her...you know...but she was a complete pshyco and like completely in love with me and was talking about marriage and wanted to be around me all the time and was really creepy about it so i said "um you(i forgot her name) but I think it would be best to just be friends" yes i said friends omg lesson learned on that one she only stabbed me twice and that night in the hospital was totally worth it.

Twice for cheating. The creepy thing is that they wanted me. Will wonders ever cease!

My ex-husband the best thing I didand that was over 11 years ago

Divorced one ..
(his mother deemed her "precious son" could do no wrong .. POS definitely dug the GOLD he got and spent it all within LESS than 30 days from the divorce being final .. GOOD Riddance to BAD rubbish)


and then there was another (whom I was not involved with) .. who I knew his parents (Good folks) .. his other sib was very responsible too. This BRAT has always lived off the backs of his parents .. when he wondered WHY no one will date nor talk to him anymore (and are angry when he shows up) I finally had it and gave him the REASON why too .. (more politely than most .. but he got an earful for sure)

A few. It always gets so annoyingly messy.

A couple times

My last boyfriend(also 2nd boyfriend)

I realized that it just wasn't going to work between us, and I just wasn't attracted mentally nor physically. I'm not the one for him, and he's not the one for me. I personally think I may end up alone, and I'm actually okay with that. Of course, these days I'm actually wanting a boyfriend....I have no idea what's wrong with me.

Just the other day, I wanted to have a baby. o.0 Not sure what I must have smoked.

Didn't want to talk to me anymore... just wanted to drink.... then he turned around and stalked me for over 3 years

Yeah I dumped this guy who got way too clingy way too fast for my tastes. And I'm very glad I did, because now I've found someone so much better. :)

It felt terrible. Such a sweet girl but we had nothing in common. It was hard but I made the right decision. Shortly after, I met my future wife

This is too close to home right now. Everyone who has ever dated has either had to dump someone or has been dumped themselves. It's not always easy.

Sounds like a great decision.

No..I keep em all.Only had/got one

For the most part I'm the dumper... the last couple were hell and have made me hesitate getting into anything serious for a long time.

It can be hard, or the easiest thing.