No if someone is more successful or luckier then you.You should be happy for them. And maybe follow what there doing.And then you might find yourself just as lucky or successful as them.
Yea ... I dislike people cuz they're successful less ... but it happened .. at fact if I encounter sb that is more successful than me I wanna change myself & be better ... so the result is good 4 me !!:)
In my family the cousins have a lot more money and power that don't really bother me its what they do with it that does, they are bossy and rude and like to use people. And put our side down more because we are poorer, and always have been.Also they compare our family to theirs um not we didn't have 6 houses and land and property and all that other good stuff either. Our family suffered a lot , there's didn't.. The comparing stuff we shouldn't even have to go there. They take trips that you told them of places you wanted to go and if you lucky you get postcard they have no value of money they let it sit , throw it and even burn some. Dang.sighs
I remember freshman year in college, my first business class, there was an older woman that I didnt really care for.....realized later that I was just jealous because she was so smart and seemed to know everything
I know me choosing yes makes me sound like an ungrateful bitch. I truley do appreciate the blessings I do have like food, clothes, games, and a place to call home. Im not gonna lie though, I have a problem with the not being VERY lucky. When Im around people like my aunt and her kids, I go home in a sad mood because they have alot of money, and they get to do stuff, and buy stuff whenever they want. I dont dislike them. i love em to death of course, but everytime im around them, I cant help but to think of the stuff that I dont get to do, like go to a freakin bon jovi concert, or take a trip to austrailia or japan. I guess what i really mean here is that im just tired of wanting things that are more than likely not to happen. Im really not ungrateful. I promise that. Its just sometimes, I really wish I had more.
well, I do not do that..I mean, dislike people because of that.. I guess I get a little jealous, but then I start to admire them.. and it awakens in me a desire to compete, and then I try to be better and more successful person :)
i can say that i've envy what some had somtimes, like lets be honest we all have those moments where we've seen something that somebody had,but could only wish for it. I have never dislike someone for their success but i have dislike people who had more potential, like really smart people who just said "i don't care" and didn't want to be anything in life, like damn what a powerful brain you have tha ur putting to waste.
Actually disliked them? No. I will admit when I was younger it was easy to fall into the trap of having a 'pity party' when it seemed like others when far luckier/successful. It's something everyone wrestles with at some point in their lives. Sometimes we're just in too big a hurry to get there. The idea is not to focus on your missed opportunities, but to keep a sharper eye out for the next.
so??
shoot me!!!
them.They earned it.
I mean who hasn't it's nature. You don't wish bad on them, but you do wish it was you instead