...but I can only say that because my first marriage was an open marriage. In my current marriage of almost 30 years I would not cheat for any reason whatsoever. "When you have steak at home, you don't go out for hamburger." Paul Newman
You and Jimmy have something in common, you lusted in your heart. You know I know a person, since January 14, 2010 and I can say I have never, ever thought of another in sexual fantasy terms since we met. I hope and pray he is not raw because someone else listens to the whack - nonetheless, like a lady said here, it's about loyalty. When she saw the tears run down his face, that jerked her sensibilities. I'd like to believe the person in my life is as in love with me and not prone to emotional infidelity either. God bless you.
I learned from my mistake.
Of course I've daydreamed about someone else. No, I've never seriously thought about doing it.