Giuliana and Bill Rancic Are Expecting a Baby Via Surrogate: Would You Ever Have a Baby That Way?
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2012/04/24 00:58:29
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jOkEsOnYoU 2012/04/24 04:26:22No
+3I would adopt. I wouldn't go through all that trouble to bring yet another child into the world when I could be adopting a child who needs a good home.
-Wouldn't the woman still feel that way?
"With adoption your chance of a baby is near impossible and to get a new born which is a massive bonding time it's even harder."
-How is it harder to bond?
"To adopt a child like you it's even rarer and most have to adopt in other countries now."
-I wouldn't mind adopting from another country. I don't believe in racial superiority.
"With out of country adoption that child has a rougher time than your own child."
-To an extent, but I don't see it being more problematic than surrogacy.
Why is it alright for them to have children and not you? They want their own child and that's what this give them even with the cancer.
Surragacy is their child. Their DNA that they know who and what that child came from. With adoption you have no family history of that child or their health problems.
-It wouldn't be the wive's child.
"Why is it alright for them to have children and not you?"
-It works for them because it doesn't bother that wife. I would never put a woman through something like that; an adopted child would be less obtrusive to a woman than having a child that is the result of her husband and another woman.
"Their DNA that they know who and what that child came from. With adoption you have no family history of that child or their health problems."
-That is a fair point, but medical technology and records is consistently improving.
My friends also had her eggs and his sperm. I guess you don't know much about it.
-Most surgeries are only possible with the use of another woman's egg. If the woman was capable of conception, a surrogacy would usually be completely obsolete. Your friend had a rare case where it was possible to have both parents' DNA.
"My friends also had her eggs and his sperm. I guess you don't know much about it."
-Of course I don't know much about your friend's surrogacy; am I expected to know everyone's personal information?
Its like this if a husband and wife made a cake at their house and they used all their ingredients, but they just needed your oven to bake it in.... get it?
"Surrogacy is an arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for another couple or person. This woman, the surrogate mother, may be the child's genetic mother (called traditional surrogacy), or she may be genetically unrelated to the child (called gestational surrogacy)."
You are talking about gestational surrogacy only.
Have you ever tried to adopt in this country? A baby? I bet not. You wait years and years and then get hopes dashed so your alternative is to adopt in another country where you don't know the childs culture.
Do your parents also have children of their own?