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Families Spending an Average of $1,078 on Prom: Too Much, Too Little, or Just Right?

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Schools may be cracking down on sexy dresses, but prom spending is on the rise. According to a recent Visa survey, this year families are spending an average of $1,078 on the springtime rite of passage. That is an increase from the $807 average last year.

Where is all this money going you may be wondering? The most costly item is usually the tux or the dress, and these days, families are willing to spend more for one-of-a-kind outfits.

"There's a general sense of people wanting to be differentiated," said Jatlow Levy, a retail strategist at consulting firm Kurt Salmon. "Going to a national chain and getting the same dress that 18 other girls have is not a chance for me to differentiate myself or express my individuality, which is such an important part of my social experience today."

But let’s not forget all the other prom expenses: dance tickets, corsages and boutonnieres, rides in limos or party buses, professional hair and makeup services, visits to the nail salon, new shoes and jewelry.

And this kind of “social-arms-race spending,” as Jason Alderman (director of Visa’s financial education programs) describes it, is not limited to the extremely wealthy. According to the survey, parents in one of the lowest income brackets reported planning to spend the most on prom. Those in the $20,000 to $29,999 salary range will spend more than $2,600—that’s twice the national average—while families in high income brackets plan to spend between $700 and $1,000.

So what do you think SodaHeads? Is $1,078 too much (or too little) to spend on prom? Or is it just the right amount to make it a special night to remember forever?

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  • Sterling 2012/04/15 20:04:43 (edited)
    Too much
    Sterling
    +19
    You kidding me? And they wonder why they're in the low-income brackets? No sense of budgeting or thrift.

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  • James 2012/04/16 01:45:59
    Too much
    James
    +1
    My wife made her own dress for prom (she was in fashion design in high school).
  • POWERSHAKER 2012/04/16 01:45:18
    Just right
    POWERSHAKER
    That sounds about right. There's nothing wrong with spending money for a special occasion. The prom is special. I loved my high school prom, and my high school sweetheart looked ravishing that night. :)
  • Anna 2012/04/16 01:39:06
    Too much
    Anna
    +2
    I already bought my dress, and for me I splurged on it (about $130, on sale from $200+). I'll probably have a friend do my nails and hair. Not sure about shoes yet. I'll check a thrift in hope, but they'll probably be about $30 unless I get lucky. Of course I'll probably reuse them. Already have the jewelry I'd use from gifts previous years, so no cost there. Maybe $10 for some new makeup, but I doubt it.
    . Finding the right undergarments might be pricey, I'll guess $100 to be extra safe, but probably won't spend that much, but those will also be used in the future, so I won't feel guilty.
    Not sure what limos go for, but I'll split that with a lot of friends, that or car pool, lots of people have minivans where I live, and I'm not too stuck up to use one in order to save on cash. I'll say about $50 there. Just in case.
    I'll average the prom ticket at about $50, that flower at $30 according to the internet average for both, but it may be less. Throw in a $10 dollar meal. All this assuming my date doesn't decide to pay for it (apparently it's tradition, but I wouldn't hold it against him not to).
    For pictures I'll just have them taken beforehand by a friend or parent. It seems everyone's a photographer nowadays with a pricey camera, no need to pay someone else.
    Through in an ex...



    I already bought my dress, and for me I splurged on it (about $130, on sale from $200+). I'll probably have a friend do my nails and hair. Not sure about shoes yet. I'll check a thrift in hope, but they'll probably be about $30 unless I get lucky. Of course I'll probably reuse them. Already have the jewelry I'd use from gifts previous years, so no cost there. Maybe $10 for some new makeup, but I doubt it.
    . Finding the right undergarments might be pricey, I'll guess $100 to be extra safe, but probably won't spend that much, but those will also be used in the future, so I won't feel guilty.
    Not sure what limos go for, but I'll split that with a lot of friends, that or car pool, lots of people have minivans where I live, and I'm not too stuck up to use one in order to save on cash. I'll say about $50 there. Just in case.
    I'll average the prom ticket at about $50, that flower at $30 according to the internet average for both, but it may be less. Throw in a $10 dollar meal. All this assuming my date doesn't decide to pay for it (apparently it's tradition, but I wouldn't hold it against him not to).
    For pictures I'll just have them taken beforehand by a friend or parent. It seems everyone's a photographer nowadays with a pricey camera, no need to pay someone else.
    Through in an extra $30 for fees I might have forgotten, and at most I see this costing $440. Most likely it will cost a good amount less.
    My date's will probably much cost less, as he most likely won't be buying new undergarments, makeup, new shoes, and will probably rent a tux, or use one he already has. Might get a new tie, but that shouldn't even cost $20.
    So where are they getting $1,000+ expenses?

    Also, for even half the predicted amount prom had better be more than a grinding fest, otherwise I will be ticked off big time.
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  • Common Sense Conservative 2012/04/16 01:36:20
    Too much
    Common Sense Conservative
    +1
    Stupid.

    I love my daughter like none other, but no chance.
  • Lord Claremorris 2012/04/16 01:35:36
    Too much
    Lord Claremorris
    I didn't spend anything on prom. I didn't even go. It's another useless tradition that people imagine is oh so important. If they want to blow 1000 dollars on it then they're fools.
  • rknothead 2012/04/16 01:24:21
    Just right
    rknothead
    Spend it if you can afford it. But remember, you're not doing much to prepare your kids for the real world.
  • the fuze 2012/04/16 01:13:36
    Too much
    the fuze
    +2
    Absolutely preposterous... does anybody wonder why we're in the financial crisis we're in? Everyone wants to blame somebody else for their problems, and in some cases blame can be placed there. But in cases like this, where we spend, and spend frivolously, we've no one to blame but ourselves. And we keep encouraging this pattern by showing kids it's ok to put SO much value on going to prom, and other such events. Prom used to be about one last high school event, and now it's turned into some sort of ridiculous high-priced pageant.
  • alex 2012/04/16 01:08:49
    Too much
    alex
    +1
    Comforting to know i didnt waste any money by not going
  • hari 2012/04/16 01:02:33
    Too much
    hari
    depends on capacity of earning / spending / culture / forum
  • Mr.Hoodz the Truth Troll 2012/04/16 01:01:50
    Too much
    Mr.Hoodz the Truth Troll
    +1
    Dumbasses.
  • redneck 2012/04/16 01:00:17
    Too much
    redneck
    +1
    One date,one night ,wear dress once,one limo ride too much money.
  • Whatsername 2012/04/16 00:59:14
    Too much
    Whatsername
    +1
    it's one night. you don't need to spend that much money on it. yes, you can get a pretty dress or a nice tux to wear, but why the hell would you spend THAT much on them?
  • Jiorgia 2012/04/16 00:58:42
    Too much
    Jiorgia
    it isn't a wedding its a school dance, i understand that it is a right of passage and a symbol of growing up but seriously i wouldn't be spending anymore then $500 on my kid for a school dance.
  • Melody 2012/04/16 00:55:07
    Too much
    Melody
    +1
    Prom is.. just a fail, no other way to describe it.
    You spend good money to dress either A. Like a slut or B. Nicely for once, and watch your peers grind each other to crappy music.
  • angel face 2012/04/16 00:54:15
    Too much
    angel face
    mine was only about 500 so thats way over the line
  • vinone 2012/04/16 00:51:49
    Too much
    vinone
    +2
    Is this for one prom? Or is this for a family's worth of proms?
  • Apache 2012/04/16 00:42:34
    Too much
    Apache
    +2
    How much will a wedding cost? $1 milllion?
  • Saul Bo... Apache 2012/04/16 09:52:29
    Saul Borbón-Dos Sicilias
    +1
    I went to a wedding in '09 that cost £1.7 million. It had 600 guests and the Bride dress was signed by Valentino. They booked all the ball rooms of the Hotel de Crillon in Paris.
  • Apache Saul Bo... 2012/04/16 22:44:58
    Apache
    I know this, it wasn't any of my sons or daughters.
  • AllTimeKassy(: 2012/04/16 00:41:19
    Too much
    AllTimeKassy(:
    +1
    Tooo damn much is more like it. I know it's prom but geez....not even my Sweet 16 dress was that much....
  • rightside 2012/04/16 00:41:16
    Too much
    rightside
    +4
    Parents are just too excessive now days. Whatever Lola wants, Lola gets. Whatever happened to "NO"?
  • Beccy 2012/04/16 00:25:48
    Too much
    Beccy
    +2
    Money in todays economy is too hard to come by to waste on one party
  • brittneylalaa 2012/04/16 00:23:16
    Too much
    brittneylalaa
    +6
    I spent like $60 on my dress that I got from JcPenny. My hair was probably about $30 and pretty sure I got the shoes for cheap also. I look just as radiant.
  • justcaroline† 2012/04/16 00:20:18
    Too much
    justcaroline†
    +1
    I have to admit my dress was pretty expensive, but I paid half of it out of my own paycheck.. So my parents had to pay about $250.. Whatever else I needed came out of my check or my date paid for it. Prom now definitely isn't worth that much since half the time almost everyone stays for a short period of time...unless they like seeing sex and what not on the dance floor.
  • Leasheryn/Lady Willpower 2012/04/16 00:20:02
    Too much
    Leasheryn/Lady Willpower
    +2
    Way too much! It's outrageous! It no wonder these people are in the lower income bracket. If they knew how to manage their money and taught their children not to be selfish, they would be able to develop a hefty savings account and improve their lives.
  • rightside Leasher... 2012/04/16 00:43:38
    rightside
    +2
    Oh so true
  • Leasher... rightside 2012/04/16 00:49:13
    Leasheryn/Lady Willpower
    +2
    I know people who, if they have money left over before their next paycheck, will go out to spend it on anything just to start out at zero. It would never occur to them to put that money into savings.
  • rightside Leasher... 2012/04/16 00:57:19
    rightside
    +2
    Yup, don't ya know that the government will take care of you!!!!! Why save, bama will just print more money.
  • Leasher... rightside 2012/04/16 00:59:04
    Leasheryn/Lady Willpower
    +2
    If I believed that, I would be amongst the delusional.
  • rightside Leasher... 2012/04/16 01:03:59
    rightside
    +2
    There are so many out there though!!!!
    obama and the living dead
  • Leasher... rightside 2012/04/16 01:09:24
    Leasheryn/Lady Willpower
    +1
    It's all the free Kool-Aid Obama's giving away.
  • rightside Leasher... 2012/04/16 01:18:53
    rightside
    +1
    Ya know, with Craigs List, there are so many things you can get for far cheaper than new. Prom dresses are one of those things.
    People have to consider what they spend and the time its used. $1000 is too much for a couple of hours of teenage fun.
    My granddaughter's friends decided to forgo the prom and went to one of the boys house by the lake and his dad bar b que'd for them and they danced on the dock and had a great time. She wore a borrowed dress and it cost them hardly anything.
  • Leasher... rightside 2012/04/16 01:23:38
    Leasheryn/Lady Willpower
    +1
    That's true. I can sew and have found that it's a lot cheaper to buy the material and make it. Also if you want something that no one else has, that's the best way to go. My wedding dress cost me less than $200 including the shoes.

    Barbeque by the lake sounds like a great idea and a lot of fun. Plus the fresh air is good for them. Kids don't get enough of that these days.
  • rightside Leasher... 2012/04/16 01:28:09
    rightside
    +1
    Yup, isn't the important just about having fun and making memories!!!!!???
    I think other kids should choose not to participate in things that have way too much expectations.
  • Leasher... rightside 2012/04/16 01:34:51
    Leasheryn/Lady Willpower
    +1
    That's all that counts. Personally I think there's too much put on kids these days. They should just have fun and not have to worry about what everyone else is doing or wearing. When I went to prom, my best friend and I went dress shopping together. We bought off the cheap rack at the bridal shop. My friend was thrilled because she had a bustle on her dress. (I don't know why I just remembered that but they sure were fun times.)
  • rightside Leasher... 2012/04/16 01:59:31
    rightside
    +1
    I think kids should start boycotting proms. Pictures can be taken anywhere. Memories can be made anywhere. You're right, have fun and be with your friends.
    I think it would be fun to wear a dress with a bustle.
  • Leasher... rightside 2012/04/16 02:52:19
    Leasheryn/Lady Willpower
    +1
    Proms aren't what they used to be. They could go out to the beach or a lake or a park and take a nice picture with their friends. It's the memories that count.

    I would have liked a bustle too. Mine had pleats and an empire waist.
  • rightside Leasher... 2012/04/16 02:54:11
    rightside
    +1
    WOW! Empire waist! Oh those memories of bad fashion.
    I used to love that style.
  • Leasher... rightside 2012/04/16 02:59:04
    Leasheryn/Lady Willpower
    +1
    I thought I was something else in that dress. I grew up in the 80s with big hair, shoulder pads and leg warmers.
  • rightside Leasher... 2012/04/16 03:07:09
    rightside
    +1
    Didn't we just look cute in our leg warmers?? giggle giggle

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