Families Spending an Average of $1,078 on Prom: Too Much, Too Little, or Just Right?
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2012/04/15 19:58:27
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Schools may be cracking down on sexy dresses, but prom spending is on the rise. According to a recent Visa survey, this year families are spending an average of $1,078 on the springtime rite of passage. That is an increase from the $807 average last year.
Where is all this money going you may be wondering? The most costly item is usually the tux or the dress, and these days, families are willing to spend more for one-of-a-kind outfits.
"There's a general sense of people wanting to be differentiated," said Jatlow Levy, a retail strategist at consulting firm Kurt Salmon. "Going to a national chain and getting the same dress that 18 other girls have is not a chance for me to differentiate myself or express my individuality, which is such an important part of my social experience today."
But let’s not forget all the other prom expenses: dance tickets, corsages and boutonnieres, rides in limos or party buses, professional hair and makeup services, visits to the nail salon, new shoes and jewelry.
And this kind of “social-arms-race spending,” as Jason Alderman (director of Visa’s financial education programs) describes it, is not limited to the extremely wealthy. According to the survey, parents in one of the lowest income brackets reported planning to spend the most on prom. Those in the $20,000 to $29,999 salary range will spend more than $2,600—that’s twice the national average—while families in high income brackets plan to spend between $700 and $1,000.
So what do you think SodaHeads? Is $1,078 too much (or too little) to spend on prom? Or is it just the right amount to make it a special night to remember forever?

Where is all this money going you may be wondering? The most costly item is usually the tux or the dress, and these days, families are willing to spend more for one-of-a-kind outfits.
"There's a general sense of people wanting to be differentiated," said Jatlow Levy, a retail strategist at consulting firm Kurt Salmon. "Going to a national chain and getting the same dress that 18 other girls have is not a chance for me to differentiate myself or express my individuality, which is such an important part of my social experience today."
But let’s not forget all the other prom expenses: dance tickets, corsages and boutonnieres, rides in limos or party buses, professional hair and makeup services, visits to the nail salon, new shoes and jewelry.
And this kind of “social-arms-race spending,” as Jason Alderman (director of Visa’s financial education programs) describes it, is not limited to the extremely wealthy. According to the survey, parents in one of the lowest income brackets reported planning to spend the most on prom. Those in the $20,000 to $29,999 salary range will spend more than $2,600—that’s twice the national average—while families in high income brackets plan to spend between $700 and $1,000.
So what do you think SodaHeads? Is $1,078 too much (or too little) to spend on prom? Or is it just the right amount to make it a special night to remember forever?

Read More: http://www.usatoday.com/money/industries/retail/st...
Top Opinion
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Too much+19You kidding me? And they wonder why they're in the low-income brackets? No sense of budgeting or thrift.






















If the parents are paying for (most or all of) it, it's too much. I'm not against spending a lot of money on the only prom your son/daughter is going to have, but $500-$700 should be fine.
I can see parents giving their daughter $400-$500 for clothes, hair, nails, and makeup for prom, and if she wants something more expensive, she can use money she earned herself.
It's a freaking school dance - formal, yes, rent a tux - $80. Buy a dress $100.00 Dinner, $100 at most. And the kid should pay for it. My daughter was able to keep her cost down to less than $100 and looked like a million dollars...
Her senior year, she wanted to do something special, off the wall, she wanted to involve two of her friends and their dates. She asked us to host their dinner out. We decided to create "Chez Prom" in our home. The dogs went with a friend for the evening and move furniture around and create three tables for two, fabric on the walls, hired a three piece dinner music group. Even got Host(ess) station at the front door for one of the couples mother work. I was the Table captains and we had three servers. My hubby was the chef and another mom was his sous chef (complete with chief jackets). It was all tie and jacket affair. It was far cheaper to rent a van with captain chairs as opposed to a limo. One of the other dad's was the driver (suitable dressed). Offered a four course meal, that took about 1 1/2... appetizers, starter course, main course and dessert.
Total cost for the three couples, including rental of the van, their prom tickets, ($400). That's less than $70 per kid. Six kids and we did it for $400.00 I can't imagine $1k per kid or per couple for a prom. Oh and these kids, now adults, still speak fondly of a night they can't forget... they were sober.
I'm wearing trainers and walking 15 minutes to school by myself with a tonne of chocolate, maybe wearing leggings or even jeans. I don't even wear make-up so I won't nead it, nor can I do anything with my hair since it looks like a large sponge Then I'm going to watch everybody with their partners and eat all of the food. Price? Next to nothing. It's not like it's my wedding; why pay so much?
And all of that is if I want to go.
After a few requests for money to help from my neices and nephews here were my contributions...1) Save up 2) Get a job 3) Leave Aunti Mame alone until AFTER Prom and you can come with me to Macy's to SHARE your memories as you carry my packages.
IT so tough raising these kids. LOL LOL
but 1000 dollars.. omg that's a rent payment!