Ever use an online dating service?

Sorry to hear that. Back when I was looking I was able to have a first meeting with 9 women in one month. Yea way to many but it was fun. I went into each meeting with no expectations and because of that I simply had fun doing it. I finally found a women I could not leave alone and we ended up married. What I found was that I was the one that had to always make the first contact. Once I did that it was pretty easy.

If you go into it not expecting every woman to be the right one it can be fun and entertaining but it takes a very positive outlook. I never pushed any of them to tell me anything about themselves that they didn't feel comfortable with including where they live. I wanted them to know that they were safe with me because that is critical for women.

I came across, and had a first date with at least a couple of women that intimidated me. Of course that made me very nervous and it did not go well. They were very beautiful and very intelligent and they had their guard up a mile high. It was easy to see right away that they were looking for Mr. Perfect, at least in their minds and nothing else would do. Following the first date we never talked again and that was good for me.

Do not wait for them to come to you. If you expect your dating profile alone to make the sell then you have a real problem. I found that if you talked with them and let them get to know you they are much more likely to except the first date. After that it is up to you where it goes from there. The more they know about you and the safer they feel about you the better off you will be.