I've been with my husband, who is my second husband for 28 years and we've been married for 25. He is by far the easiest man in the world to live with. He's kind, considerate, very clean and not at all demanding. The thing that some women might not like is that he is not someone who wants to celebrate birthdays or the usual man made holidays like Valentines Day. He's not one to send flowers or give me cards. What he does do is treat me like it's Valentine's Day every day. I don't like spending money on frivolous items anyway. I can buy whatever I want whenever I want and he would never say a word.
My first husband was gay and that's a deal breaker!
Does your spouse/s.o. have any habits that nearly kept you from being together?
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My husband wears the rattiest clothes and has lousy grammar, plus he's an alcoholic. Why I actually said "I do", is because I didn't want to disappoint the parents. Stupid - they're not the ones who have to live with him.
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Gracie - Proud Conservative 2010/07/28 02:50:27
Hmm how long have you two been together? Alcoholism kinda a deal breaker for me. I can learn to overlook the other things mentioned.
I married a man who was just right for a time. Then he developed habits that are now most definitley keeping us from being together.
My first husband was gay and that's a deal breaker!
However, yeah - sorry about the gay man.
Then as the months went on stuff came out of the wood work.
he is addicted to Marijuana
he cannot spell to save his life..
And i have to hold his hand in any dicissions.
We have been together for almost 2 years now.
Things are the same. but maybe that makes me love him?
thats ok my boyfriuend texts me and he always calls me "beauiful"