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Does Teen Dating Lead to Teen Drinking?

SodaHead Living 2011/09/29 21:24:49
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Parents usually worry about their teenagers dating -- and their teenagers drinking. But do the two actually go together?

A new study suggests that teenagers with a new boyfriend or girlfriend tend to be more influenced by the drinking habits of their romantic partner's friends than they are by the partners themselves, according to Health.com. So if a girl's new boyfriend's pals like to have a beer or six, she may soon follow.

"Think of your son or daughter's new significant other as a bridge to a whole other group that he or she is now going to be exposed to," says lead researcher Derek Kreager, Ph.D., an associate professor of crime, law and justice at Pennsylvania State University, according to Healh.com.

While a teen's friends probably have a lot in common with him or her, a new romantic partner's friends may be totally different. And if they drink, the teen who is new to the group has "incentive to be like those friends, because that's what appeals to her partner."

The good news is the opposite is also true. Adolescents may start drinking less when they become involved with a group that abstains -- especially boys, who are more likely to binge drink and may be more influenced by a significant other, according to the study.
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  • Dickens 2011/10/11 16:27:59
    No
    Dickens
    +1
    ...nah, it takes marriage to REALLY give a reason to drink...
  • queenalyss 2011/10/06 01:00:01
    Yes
    queenalyss
    +1
    it depends, i started because of my boyfriend but not anything excessive. i still am an honors A+ student with kickass electives so what im trying to say is that even if a teen drinks it doesnt mean their stupid or a delinquent. dont judge a book by its cover or a situation by its common outcome, there are some strong teens out there who never have been swayed from their morals, so if your worried talk to your kid maybe talk to their partner or just keep an eye open you'ld be suprised what you can learn just by paying attention
  • skittles 2011/10/05 16:06:52
    No
    skittles
    not always
  • funguy11 2011/10/04 05:43:03
    No
    funguy11
    I guess not.
  • Andrew 2011/10/03 18:19:25
    No
    Andrew
    +1
    No, it does not.
  • lowerclassrock666 2011/10/02 18:06:31
    No
    lowerclassrock666
    +1
    But I think it all depends on the teen themselves. I didn't do anything I didn't want to do, I had a mind of my own but that's because I didn't care about being popular (ironically I became popular for not caring, go figure). But I had tons of friends into all sorts of stuff. I'm not gonna lie I did try things not because of any other reason but my own interest. Dating had nothing to do with it. When I was dating someone I took them out to try to have a good time, getting drunk was never on our minds. Even though I did drink I never invited a girlfriend who wasn't OK with it over. I kept it separate so dating had no influence on me drinking.
  • Thank you but no... 2011/10/02 16:54:03
    No
    Thank you but no...
    No, teen drinking leads to teen dating. Funny alcohol
  • DebbiWarrenBiggar 2011/10/02 05:47:07
    No
    DebbiWarrenBiggar
    +2
    Most teenagers these days have a lot more sense than when I was a teen (way back when). This was proven to me by my three children and their friends. Yes, some of them drank, even more than they should, but the majority abstained, and none of the drinking was ever caused by dating. We have to learn to give our children more credit for being reasonable in most things they do. There will always be a few bad apples, and some sterotypes, but overall, I have noticed teenagers of today are much smarter than teenagers of a few decades ago. (I wonder if that is because of good parenting from those teenagers of a few decades ago who learned some lessons the hard way and managed to pass them on to their children?)
  • The Br-o-ken Kid From Yeste... 2011/10/02 04:57:55
    No
    The Br-o-ken Kid From Yesterday
    +1
    Maybe some...but not all. It depends on the kind of teenager they are. I was the kind of teenager that could care less about peer pressure and things like that. I used to drink because I was curious. Do I regret it? Yes. I wish I would have waited. When I was 18 and a senior in high school I finally got busted and now I am not drinking until I am 21 and officially able to drink. I have less than a year before I can drink. The decision to start AND the decision to stop for now was all because of my head telling me. Most of my friends do pot but I never wanted to so I never did it. And I never will because I am smart and I don't want to screw it up by killing my brain cells for possibly an hour or however long of a "high". I can have fun just getting "high" off the company of my friends. Nothing and no one can influence me to do anything I don't already want to do.
  • Another Lone Wolf 2011/10/01 20:44:39
    No
    Another Lone  Wolf
    i dont date. but i still drink haha
  • Mike 2011/10/01 19:36:48 (edited)
    Yes
    Mike
    I would think, dating would lead to meeting others and to break the ice of meeting others, drinking has proven a sure way, for as long, as I can remember.
  • freakoutnow... cuz mom's here 2011/10/01 12:58:46
    Yes
    freakoutnow... cuz mom's here
    This is not a yes or no question. Who your teens hang out with: you-the parents, your friends, thier friends, who they are dating, their date's friends; they all can easy influence them. Most teenage drinking is caused by peer pressure and whether or not the adults around them enable them to drink. If you've ever been a teenage girl (or a teenager in general), you know how the pressure from your peers can lead to bad behavior especially if you haven't been raised right. Teen dating can also lead to teen sex, but that's another story. Bottom line is that parents need to be parents and not enable teens to drink/have easy access to alcohol. Also know who your kids friends are and who they are dating and who thier friends are also.
  • Gordon 2011/10/01 12:49:09
    No
    Gordon
    +1
    I started dating at 12 or 13, and I didn't drink. We must be careful in choosing our friends.
  • Pamu 2011/10/01 10:26:12
    Yes
    Pamu
    a social evil.
  • GayButNowFree 2011/10/01 08:21:09
    No
    GayButNowFree
    But teen drinking leads to teen screwing, which leads to a variety of things, few of which are good.
  • N00bKefka 2011/10/01 07:46:44
    Yes
    N00bKefka
    I don't trust teens when I m a teen. I still don't trust teen.
  • Lynn 2011/10/01 05:31:56
    No
    Lynn
    +1
    I never drank on a date when I was a teenager.
  • Coco Allie 2011/10/01 02:10:13
    No
    Coco Allie
    For me and all the people I know, it didn't make any difference. Then again, most of the people I know aren't the party type either. When I did decide to drink for the first time, I was actually single (I had already had a boyfriend before).
  • XRenX 2011/10/01 01:38:49 (edited)
    Yes
    XRenX
    Just as any social interaction can. I should say it can, but it doesn't always of course.
  • KingdomNow 2011/10/01 00:58:09
    No
    KingdomNow
    +2
    Stupidity leads to teen drinking.
  • TasselLady 2011/10/01 00:36:03
    Yes
    TasselLady
    Since teen dating leads to alot of sex, I know for sure it can lead to drinking too.
  • Friskywhisky 2011/10/01 00:31:05
    No
    Friskywhisky
    +1
    No, usually teen stupidity results in Teen drinking, and then later results in more teen stupidity.
  • bud man (oYo) 2011/10/01 00:29:56
    No
    bud man (oYo)
    but it leads to teen fu*king
  • overlord rai 2011/10/01 00:15:49
    No
    overlord rai
    lol.
    no.
  • FUS RO DAH! 2011/09/30 23:44:15
    No
    FUS RO DAH!
    +1
    Teens are going to drink, smoke, and have sex even if they don't date.
  • Sofahead 2011/09/30 23:35:44
    Yes
    Sofahead
    Has potential but I thought parents would be more concerned about
    "Does Teen Dating Lead to Teen Sex?"

    Music for Teenage Sex
    Baby Buddha - Little Things
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?...
  • laRonde 2011/09/30 22:51:19 (edited)
    No
    laRonde
    I've been dating my boyfriend for a year, he's friend and he loves to drink, but I've never tried it.
  • Aly Hart 2011/09/30 22:33:50
    No
    Aly Hart
    +1
    LOL. That's really farfetched.
  • TheTailor 2011/09/30 22:24:39
    Yes
    TheTailor
    It did when I was young and it's always been my mission to buy woman as many drinks as they want ;-)
  • Ash-the-empress 2011/09/30 22:24:08
    No
    Ash-the-empress
    +1
    Stupidity and poor parenting leads to teen drinking.
  • Kigan 2011/09/30 22:17:01
    No
    Kigan
    +2
    I guess you'd better move on to homeschooling, install a tracking chip, chain the kid to both your house and you, and install a powerful shock collar that goes off and temporarily incapacitates them if they still manage to escape.

    It's the only way to be sure.

    Or you could just try being a responsible parent.
  • harley oldman 2011/09/30 21:39:25
    No
    harley oldman
    NOT NECESSARILY..........But it could lead to a Hellofalot more than drinking...!
  • Seeker of Truth - War Wizard 2011/09/30 21:38:18
    No
    Seeker of Truth - War Wizard
    +2
    Dating does not need to lead to drinking... It's bad parenting that leads to it. If you let your kids hang out with others that you don't know then you are looking for trouble. Parents should know where their kids are, who they're with, and what they're doing as much as possible. Granted, they can't know all of this all of the time, but if they care enough to ask, then they will show their kids they are interested in them.
  • DebbiWa... Seeker ... 2011/10/02 06:23:55
    DebbiWarrenBiggar
    +1
    I asked my kids constantly who, where, when, and what, every time they left the house, it would drive them crazy! It is a parents job to guide their children, but not judge them. Give them respect and they will respect you in return. The same goes for trust and honesty.
  • Seeker ... DebbiWa... 2011/10/04 05:04:30
    Seeker of Truth - War Wizard
    That freedom has to come later in life, once they've earned the trust.
  • DebbiWa... Seeker ... 2011/10/04 16:45:28
    DebbiWarrenBiggar
    +1
    I hope you don't mean that you can't trust your children until later in life... I taught mine about truth and honesty at a very young age, their respect for these values earned them freedom at a young age. They are all adults now and I have never regretted giving them freedom and they have never lost my trust. Their age did not determine this, their attitudes did.
  • Seeker ... DebbiWa... 2011/10/06 04:11:45
    Seeker of Truth - War Wizard
    No, I mean that you have to gradually increase their freedom, and not allow them complete freedom to hang out with whoever they want without telling you where they are, as a young teenager.
  • DebbiWa... Seeker ... 2011/10/06 06:48:11
    DebbiWarrenBiggar
    +1
    I absolutely agree with that. I drove my kids crazy with, who, what, where, and when questions every time they left the house, but they weren't allow to go unless I knew all the info.
  • MIRANDDAAA :) 2011/09/30 21:33:34
    No
    MIRANDDAAA :)
    It could lead to it depending on who the teen is dating.
  • bob ''I just lost the game'' 2011/09/30 21:22:41
    No
    bob ''I just lost the game''
    teens always drink it is the way of life

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