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Does Sexting Count as Cheating?

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Toby Green of BodyAndSoul.com.au (Australia) writes, "Anonymous pictures, fantasies and thoughts are okay when contained." Contained? I think Green has it upside down to believe that one can look at pornography and have fantasies about someone other than your partner. Green only considers it cheating when inviting a "real third person" into the partnership.

Green therefore considers "sexting" as cheating in a relationship, stating people in relationships are being unfaithful when they send dirty text messages to someone outside of the relationship. What do you think? Does sexting count at cheating?

BODYANDSOUL.COM.AU reports:
Does sexting count as cheating? Is it okay for a man to text dirty messages to another woman while in a relationship?
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  • Milady 2012/08/17 06:16:40 (edited)
    Yes
    Milady
    +18
    Not ok at all. Very insulting to the partner, if you ask me. If anyone I was in a relationship with did that to me, he would need surgery to have the phone removed from where I'd forcefully insert it!

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  • evangel... starlight 2012/08/18 01:58:38
    evangelism_vision
    +2
    Like I tell my friends, as a Christian, we have a Human Nature tied to us until we leave this Earth.

    He looked at me kind of like what? I said look at you're shadow.... Everywhere you go that human nature goes with you and you have two choices...

    Accept the temptation or turn away from it we all make Choices every day and even Christians blow it too some time but we Confess, Dust off and keep moving on and try to learn from the mistake the next time
  • starlight evangel... 2012/08/18 02:01:25
    starlight
    +1
    yeah your right
  • evangel... starlight 2012/08/18 02:04:26
    evangelism_vision
    +4
    Life is hard enough, I try to avoid those things that causes me to have to regret what I did..... Hey I'm not Perfect!
    heck I use to be an Atheist Really! I was! but then I found God and trusted Jesus as Lord and I try to live my life like his and to be more like him....

    Geeeeeeeeeeeee He's got his work cut out for me! hahahahha
  • starlight evangel... 2012/08/18 02:15:38 (edited)
    starlight
    haha well thats good
  • evangel... starlight 2012/08/18 02:18:46
  • Cat starlight 2012/08/18 13:23:53
    Cat
    You might want to bookmark this page to read when you're ready to invite God into your life.

    Peace With God
    The way to Salvation

    http://peacewithgod.jesus.net/?
  • Kozmo evangel... 2012/08/18 07:34:49 (edited)
    Kozmo
    Used to be the same way, but I've only got as far as Deist,
    more abstract, a Jungian.
  • Cat Kozmo 2012/08/18 13:24:40
    Cat
    You too might want to bookmark this page to read when you're ready to invite God into your life.

    Peace With God
    The way to Salvation

    http://peacewithgod.jesus.net/?
  • Kozmo Cat 2012/08/18 15:29:26 (edited)
    Kozmo
    Already have (but skeptical) & presently expostulating with IT. Thinking that Divinity is in Human Form is Anthropic Chauvinism,
    ask Bonobos, Chimps & Dolphins [maybe Crows too], now recognized to have a kind of culture. Descartes is wrong on this.

    I Volunteer at 5 (Protestant) Churches (& a Sufi Mosque), neither the Clergy nor (most of, can't win 'em all) the Brethren have any problem with the way I am. At one I offer Communion (Lay Acolyte?) & read Bible lessons from the pulpit (last week, it was 1 Kings 19:4 - 8 & Ephesians 4:25 - 5:2, the Pastor read the Gospel, John 6:35, 41 - 51 NRSV)

    I vacillate among Deism, Pantheism & Theism (a Transtheist),
    as said above, a (Jungian q.v.) Mystic (or Shaman).

    "There are many ways up the Mountain, but the view of the Moon is the same" - Japanese Proverb
    "God made so many different kinds of people, why would Ze allow only one way to serve Zim?" Martin Buber
    "Christianity might be a good thing if anybody ever tried it"
    - George Bernard Shaw
    "I don't have enough faith to be an atheist". - Frank Turek
  • thє вlu... evangel... 2012/08/18 19:18:44
  • evangel... thє вlu... 2012/08/18 20:52:01
    evangelism_vision
    I am under Grace and not the Law That was restricted during the old testament and many of the Jews today still don't eat Pork and that's fine. I do some not a lot


    But I read the Bible through Every Year and have for a long time.

    Again, Not under the Law but by Grace
  • Cat starlight 2012/08/18 13:15:34
    Cat
    You need a better bf. You're not a geek, he's a dog.
  • Action ... evangel... 2012/08/18 01:53:21
    Action Bastard The II
    +1
    Damit.. why would you tell me that? I hate you... damit.. look what you did.
  • evangel... Action ... 2012/08/18 01:55:04
    evangelism_vision
    +2
    Hey... It's the Conscience or maybe conviction of the Holy Spirit? I don't hate you !

    Have a Great Weekend
  • Action ... evangel... 2012/08/18 02:17:47
    Action Bastard The II
    Lol i am just messing around. I dont hate you at all. :)
  • Cat evangel... 2012/08/18 13:14:47
    Cat
    He also said if you confess those sins and repent He will forgive them.
  • sonofason 2012/08/18 01:33:08
  • Texas Gal 2012/08/18 01:23:24
    Yes
    Texas Gal
    +2
    It's cheating in my book. Just like I don't think there is such a thing as harmless flirting.
  • I(◕‿◕✿)I 2012/08/18 00:56:39
    Yes
    I(◕‿◕✿)I
    +2
    If they want to sext another person then they shouldn't be in that relationship.
  • hi imjaredleto 2012/08/18 00:55:06
    No
    hi imjaredleto
    +1
    Then I cheated on my boy with Syn Gates Synyster gates
  • Huki68 2012/08/18 00:38:09
    Yes
    Huki68
    ah yeah... if you are flirting with someone and you have already a comment with someone else, yes it's cheating texting, on the phone, by letter...
  • gocar 2012/08/18 00:33:15
    Yes
    gocar
    +1
    I think it shows something. Like disloyalty and not living in the real world. I don't think I would trust a partner that did such a thing.
  • Soviet Revolution 2012/08/18 00:20:41
    Yes
    Soviet Revolution
    Pretty obvious its a yes
  • Justin Teufel Hunden 2012/08/18 00:18:44
    Yes
    Justin Teufel Hunden
    It's the principle of the matter.
  • Dan 2012/08/18 00:11:05
    Yes
    Dan
    +1
    If you really love someone but you still get off by sexting someone else then you're not really in love. Period
  • serethiel 2012/08/17 23:50:28
    Yes
    serethiel
    +1
    the intent is still there. it counts just as much as physically cheating, in my opinion.
  • Rebecca 2012/08/17 23:41:21
    Yes
    Rebecca
    +1
    I think so. if its something your keeping with your SO it's kind of like emotional cheating. the intention is there
  • moviebuff 2012/08/17 23:33:09
    Yes
    moviebuff
    +2
    The intent is there. It won't take too long before the virtual line is crossed.
  • mikeeonly 2012/08/17 23:30:47
    No
    mikeeonly
    +1
    lack of penetration
  • Georgia50 2012/08/17 23:25:03
    No
    Georgia50
    Depends on the couple. I personally would consider it cheating but a couple with an open relationship might not give a flip.
  • still_c... Georgia50 2012/08/18 00:30:50
    still_cheeky
    +2
    So, why do you say no when you feel it is? Is this your opinion or the opinion of other people?
  • Georgia50 still_c... 2012/08/18 00:49:00
    Georgia50
    Not comfortable with yes or no so I just winged it. On a strictly personal basis, the answer is yes.
  • Commander Pyle 2012/08/17 23:10:15
    Yes
    Commander Pyle
    +1
    People can rationalize it as just a little harmless game, but when they purposely dismiss the feelings of their partner they are being pretty damn unfaithful.
  • Pastor Nellie 2012/08/17 23:08:00
    Yes
    Pastor Nellie
    +1
    It's also the least classy thing one can do. Respect yourself and stop being slutty.
  • Bingo's Faddah 2012/08/17 23:05:34
    Yes
    Bingo's Faddah
    If you're Catholic, thinking about a deed and doing it are the same think. I have to send Halle Berry a thank you card!

    halle berry
  • Jaiheena Star 2012/08/17 23:05:28
    Yes
    Jaiheena Star
    Yep,can be. If you text to some when have somene.
  • jerry 2012/08/17 22:40:07
    Yes
    jerry
    +1
    I am encouraged that 85% say "yes". Glad to see some morals. Good job to all of you who have not deluded themselves that cyber relationships "are harmless"
  • JessaRoo4K 2012/08/17 22:34:53
    Yes
    JessaRoo4K
    it is totally! if your thoughts turn to actions it happened.......once ya sext you go for it face to face
  • This is W³ 2012/08/17 22:34:38
    Yes
    This is W³
    +1
    Hell to the yeah!!
  • Boo 2012/08/17 21:56:03
    Yes
    Boo
    +1
    If you are a Christian, comitting the sin in your mind is the same as acting on the sinful thoughts.

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