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Does it hurt you when ppl lie to you ot dont turn out to be who you thought?

Dark Angel 2012/06/08 07:50:49
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Yeah, it hurts i jus don't show it
Yeah, it hurts a lot
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When i get hurt i dont let it show it. I usually deal with it myself but yeah it hurts sometimes I hate when ppl lie and i cant stand it when ppl dont turn out to be who i thought they were. Its disapointing...
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  • lady blue 2012/06/08 12:13:14
    I don't care
    lady blue
    +9
    When I see lies and head games I turn off right away. My time is too valuable to
    waste on losers who say they are my friend then betray me and treat me shabby.
    I have no use for hypocrites that say one thing and do another at my expense.
    Also 'users ' that say they are my friend only to use me as an ornament to make themselves look good or to feed their ego.
    And last but not least, men who say they love me and do not a damn thing to prove it.
    I've learned the hard way not to care abour liars and those who do not live up to who they say they are or how they feel about me. Does it hurt when people lie to me ? Yes, but I move on because I have no time or regard for ' fake ' people.

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  • justnotsaying (: 2012/06/10 22:43:22
    I don't care
    justnotsaying (:
    I wouldn't be hurt, but I would be bit disappointed if it was a friendship. If it was online I wouldn't care, since I already expect that.
  • CherryPOP 2012/06/09 23:55:39
    Yeah, it hurts i jus don't show it
    CherryPOP
    I've learnt to take it as a grain of salt, It's not worth keeping myself upset.
  • Yuki 2012/06/09 22:11:57
    I don't care
    Yuki
    My first impression of someone is always right…lol…so I know right off the bat if they are liars or not…and what kinda person they are…it’s hard to explain how I know I just do…so if they are liars, then I expect them to tell me lies…(and I can tell when ppl lie to me) so why would it hurt me? Of course when they do lie to me I still take that as an insult…(when ever I first meet someone I tell them that I can tell when ppl lie to me, and if they ever do that to me I WILL know about it) but yeah lol

    Blessings to all and,
    May all be well with you ^_^
  • Vision of Verve 2012/06/09 20:56:55
  • Treasure ♥ijm♥ 2012/06/09 14:35:26
    Yeah, it hurts a lot
    Treasure ♥ijm♥
    +2
    Yes, it hurts a lot....but I'd rather know the "real" person and not the person who pretends to be something they are not.......
  • Wild Dog 2012/06/09 12:58:38
    I don't care
    Wild Dog
    +1
    If someone has to lie, it's their problem. Lies do get exposed sooner or later,and I chalk it up to weak character.
  • Rogue_Loner 2012/06/09 11:32:14 (edited)
  • lady blue Rogue_L... 2012/06/09 12:47:29
    lady blue
    +3
    It was nice chatting with you today my friend and thank you so much for the rave.
    I truly appreciate it ! :))
  • jumpboots 187th PIR 2012/06/09 05:09:55
    Yeah, it hurts i jus don't show it
    jumpboots 187th PIR
    When they lie,and name call me I flush them out of my life..
  • David Hussey 2012/06/09 00:31:35
    I don't care
    David Hussey
    +2
    Its not so much that I don't care but that was the closest option available here.

    Since I tend to think that most people are going to be a disappointment it rarely comes as a surprise when they show themselves to be liars. While I hold a generally low opinion of people I still insist on giving the individual the opportunity to prove me wrong... so when they prove me right, rather than being hurt I am only validated in my beliefs
  • Foxylady 2012/06/09 00:20:29
    I don't care
    Foxylady
    +4
    This woman don't waste anytime on fake a** people
  • "OG" Foxylady 2012/06/09 00:56:42
  • lady blue Foxylady 2012/06/09 03:08:33 (edited)
  • Dark Angel lady blue 2012/06/09 03:10:06
    Dark Angel
    +1
    ya go girl!!! if only more girls thought like that
  • lady blue Dark Angel 2012/06/09 03:37:47 (edited)
    lady blue
    +1
    Hey girlfriend, thanks for your back up ...ain't it that the truth though ?
    Some people are so insecure that they have to ' fake' their way through life and SH. LoL ... but us real. people know better, don't we ? We see right through them and those lyin' men...ugh ... we have to dump them because their lies and and phoniness is such a turn off ! Great question girl ! Love ya <3
  • Rogue_L... lady blue 2012/06/09 11:47:44
  • lady blue Rogue_L... 2012/06/09 12:24:54 (edited)
    lady blue
    +2
    Hey friend, I'm not sure which way you're leaning here, with me or against
    me ...no LOL so I'm confused....but believe me I was not stating a fact that ALL men were liars and phonies but just a few that I met here. Nor are ALL women sexy, beautiful and honest...like me and my bestie Foxylady here..LOL ..
    I will never think or label the ' good ' men & women that get duped by the counterfeits here as ' pathetic '. Just because they are fooled does not make them the bad guy. We all live & learn. The absolute pathetic ones are the phony liars and ' fake ' friends. I beg to differ also about people of real substance having better things to do than cyber romance. Many couples have met, fell in love and are engaged or married today after meeting here or on other dating sites. I cannot judge others intentions or the quality of their being because they cyber romance. That is too much of a generalization for me to make. One can find romance and true love anywhere. I believe in fate and in a person's ability to find their true love if they follow their heart and sometimes the path of true love can very well be found here or on other various web sites.
  • Rogue_L... lady blue 2012/06/09 12:33:40 (edited)
  • lady blue Rogue_L... 2012/06/09 12:44:42 (edited)
    lady blue
    +2
    Thanks my friend. I'm glad it's not me ...LoL . I see it this way...there
    will always be better or worse men & women around and some that unfortunately leave a bad taste in our mouths. The fact still remains that there will be these lesser quality people floating around in thin air that will trip is up if we're not alert and hip to their tricks. Enough of this, I see you are from PA. I love PA and go there every other year at least. Nice state and I don't have to drive too far to get away from it all. LoL ... Talk soon Rogue. :)
  • Rogue_L... lady blue 2012/06/09 12:48:45 (edited)
  • lady blue Rogue_L... 2012/06/09 13:07:57
    lady blue
    +2
    Well I'm just sayyying that you have a right to your opinion and
    that's fine with me. However, I don't think everyone has something to hide because they play on the internet ...those are the fake people and not everyone is a ' fake ' person. I have nothing to hide either because I don't play head games or fake out people. :)
  • Rogue_L... lady blue 2012/06/09 13:22:53
  • lady blue Rogue_L... 2012/06/09 13:40:05 (edited)
    lady blue
    +1
    Well I thought you meant ' generally ' as in ALL people that
    play on the net hide things. There are people that are fakes and play head games here. I've learned my lesson all too well lately to avoid these game players and argumental people who bring me stress. They are just not worth my time. These creeps are far and few for me but I am weeding them out . Thank God I have some really true friends and those I can trust to watch my back here... any counterfeits are going in the blink of my eye. :)
  • Jerry 2012/06/08 23:25:23
    Yeah, it hurts a lot
    Jerry
    +2
    I hate fakers
  • lady blue Jerry 2012/06/08 23:27:08
    lady blue
    +3
    Hi Jerry, how are you ? I do too. They are such losers ! LoL ...
  • Jerry lady blue 2012/06/08 23:28:03
    Jerry
    +3
    that's ok once I find out the truth I simply do away with them.
  • lady blue Jerry 2012/06/08 23:30:14
    lady blue
    +4
    Great advice my friend. I do the same. Who has the time for these hypocrites ?
    Some people lie to themselves so how can they be honest with you ? LoL ..
  • Jerry lady blue 2012/06/08 23:35:40
    Jerry
    +3
    lol what about when they believe their own lies?
  • lady blue Jerry 2012/06/09 00:08:37 (edited)
    lady blue
    +4
    I know right ? They not only are liars but they are sick people too
    and who can get along with a sick person ? LOL..
    I hate it when someone goes back on their word and deceives you and I hate betrayers who use you and then dump you. They are a just waste of your time ! A man withot integrity is not a man at all !
  • Foxylady lady blue 2012/06/09 00:13:34
    Foxylady
    +3
    lol yes they are girlfriend ;)
  • lady blue Foxylady 2012/06/09 00:24:16
    lady blue
    +4
    Thank you girlfriend, I know you hear me and we always have eachother's back !
    You are a true friend and I appreciate you so much sister ! :)) <3
  • Foxylady lady blue 2012/06/09 00:40:39
    Foxylady
    +2
    Anytime girl always there for a friend.. ;)
  • Foxylady Jerry 2012/06/09 00:13:06
    Foxylady
    +4
    You and I both... It seems we have a couple on here that I know of ;))
  • lady blue Foxylady 2012/06/09 00:21:34 (edited)
    lady blue
    +4
    LoL girlfriend ! Ain't that the damn truth ! Love you Foxy...you are the best !
    <3333
  • Foxylady lady blue 2012/06/09 00:41:42
    Foxylady
    +2
    Love ya too beautiful hugs ;)
  • lady blue Foxylady 2012/06/09 03:13:01
    lady blue
    +2
    Love you my beautiful girlfriend ! Always here for you anytime you need me.
    Just shout out and I'll be there ! Friends helping friends. That's a true friend. Nothing fake about that girl ! <3
  • rockyjr5 2012/06/08 22:27:49
    I don't care
    rockyjr5
    If they have to pretend to be something that they're not, than I don't care about them,because they will be wasting my time.
  • in vino veritas 2012/06/08 18:13:38
    I don't care
    in vino veritas
    +2
    You cant control others,only yourself.Dont let phantoms of the net hurt you, many are figments of their own imagination only.They are pathetic self loathing narcissists and dont care who they drag along the murky path to nowhere,you learn hard lessons from these predatory beasts,I say to their fake azzez put up or shut up....Sorry you are hurting,guard your heart its the only one you have.
  • Pops 2012/06/08 18:11:58
    Yeah, it hurts i jus don't show it
    Pops
    +1
    Most the time ppl are not who or what they say they are! A true friend, is someone who is still a friend, after they get to know you!
  • Tony 2012/06/08 16:24:53
    Yeah, it hurts i jus don't show it
    Tony
    +1
    Happened to me recently. Thought I understood who someone was and what they were all about. Recent events lead me to believe I may have been duped.

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