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Does Facebook Lead to Break-Ups? (Divorce Lawyers Say It Does)

SodaHead Living 2012/01/03 18:03:57
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Admit it: Even if you are (or were) in a relationship, you've checked out your ex's Facebook page, or maybe even looked up someone new. Well, it's precisely that sort of behavior that's leading to break-ups and divorces. Facebook was cited as a reason for a third of divorces last year involving "unreasonable behavior," according to law firm Divorce-Online, The Daily Mail reports.

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"People contact ex-partners and the messages start as innocent, but lead to trouble," said Mark Keenan, managing director of Divorce-Online, according to the Mail. "If someone wants to have an affair or flirt with the opposite sex then it’s the easiest place to do it."

According to the Mail, Divorce-Online says it has seen a 50 percent increase in the number of behavior-based divorce petitions that contained the word "Facebook" in the past two years. Thirty-three percent of the 5,000 behavior petitions filed with the firm in the past year mentioned Facebook. And flirty messages and suspicious photos are the most common "behavior" issues.

But it's not just what you do on Facebook that's the problem -- it's the fact that it's easy to get caught. "If you are keeping things from your partner, Facebook makes it so much easier for them to find out," Anne-Marie Hutchinson of Dawson Cornwell Solicitors told the Mail. Do you think Facebook leads to break-ups?
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  • Bethany Jansen 2012/01/03 19:24:49
    No
    Bethany Jansen
    +16
    I believe its your character not the website. If you aren't faithful, you aren't faithful. Facebook doesn't MAKE you unfaithful..it may make it easier to cheat but it has nothing to do with the site. I've had people try to hit on me. It's so easy to say, "I'm married, I'm in a relationship" etc. If you're faithful, you're faithful. If you're gonna cheat, you're gonna cheat, period. It's just easier with Facebook because you don't have to physically get out & meet someone.

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  • Bob DiN Beautif... 2012/01/04 03:53:17
    Bob DiN
    +1
    Good point but the site is loaded with immature people to start with.
  • Beautif... Bob DiN 2012/01/04 04:25:42
    Beautiful_Syn
    Agreed like I said ask for passwords from your boyfriend or girlfriend, and if something becomes a problem like an ex contacting you or your other then block them and move on.
  • jesika.... Beautif... 2012/01/04 05:15:55
    jesika.woody
    My man and i both have facebook and we both can check one anothers sites regularly. we have nothing to hide.
  • Beautif... jesika.... 2012/01/04 05:57:37
    Beautiful_Syn
    +1
    Same here but then again I have his passwords and he has mine as well.
  • Bob DiN Beautif... 2012/01/04 06:05:13
    Bob DiN
    Sounds good.
  • MLor Bob DiN 2012/01/04 07:57:36
    MLor
    Agreed
  • Bob DiN MLor 2012/01/04 10:56:15
    Bob DiN
    Okay.
  • Fitfly 2012/01/04 01:30:59
    Yes
    Fitfly
    +1
    My last boyfriend was found by a childhood friend who proceeded to start skyping with him and then he cheated on me with her they are now in a relationship kind of she lives ibm Europe he lives in the u.s.
  • Zervur 2012/01/04 01:28:43
    No
    Zervur
    +1
    People with bad character lead to break ups.
  • Bob DiN Zervur 2012/01/04 03:53:50
    Bob DiN
    +1
    And Facebook of loaded with them.
  • Zervur Bob DiN 2012/01/04 03:56:01
    Zervur
    +1
    Facebook doesn't break up marriages people break up marriages. :-D
  • in vino veritas 2012/01/04 01:26:31
    Yes
    in vino veritas
    +1
    Adultery under the guise of innocent flirting isnt specific to Facebook,SH is rampant with monkey business too.
  • Hula girl - Friends not Fol... 2012/01/04 01:20:22
    No
    Hula girl - Friends not Followers
    +1
    The problem is already there if they are looking in the first place and not honest with each other.
  • alex 2012/01/04 01:18:39
    No
    alex
    The idiot who screwed up the relationship did
  • Bob DiN alex 2012/01/04 03:54:24
    Bob DiN
    So you put it on Facebook?
  • alex Bob DiN 2012/01/04 04:15:42 (edited)
    alex
    Uh no. I wasn't speaking for myself, it was hypothetical.
  • sglmom 2012/01/04 01:16:40
    No
    sglmom
    +1
    CHEATERS .. are going to be CHEATERS .. whether Off-Line or On-Line .. and Facebook is just the latest excuse (used to be one would stalk physically or have that other investigated .. now just tap some keys and see their exploits plastered all over on-line).
    Don't care one bit about what the ex is doing .. I've moved FORWARDS .. have my own life .. I will NOT EVER look backwards .. and I'm find being ME!
  • carlton999 2012/01/04 01:10:37
    Yes
    carlton999
    +1
    facebook almost broke up two of my friends but luckily they worked things out and got married.
  • Mechelle 2012/01/04 00:56:18
    No
    Mechelle
    +1
    There is already problems somewhere in the relationship that has NOTHING to do with Facebook. Think about it folks if you are spending.g hours on Facebook and not with your mate then there chances are there is a fox in the hen house. Don't blame Facebook take a look at your relationship prior to Facebook.
  • N00bKefka 2012/01/04 00:54:00
    Yes
    N00bKefka
    +1
    People got fired on Facebook. Divorce is possible.
  • MARY 2012/01/04 00:41:37
    Yes
    MARY
    +1
    I'm not so sure about a divorce that's a bit extreme. but yeah if a guy screws up and makes the wrong status or likes the wrong girl's picture im sure a jealous girlfriend will be sure to bitch him out for it lol
  • MLor MARY 2012/01/04 08:00:10
    MLor
    ....and that is what is soooo stupid about Facebook.
  • MARY MLor 2012/01/04 12:31:08
    MARY
    Indeed, but I like to creep so facebook entertains me lol
  • kyle 2012/01/04 00:37:21
    Yes
    kyle
    +1
    some do some dont i have never been though
  • PonToki 2012/01/04 00:27:51
    Yes
    PonToki
    +2
    I know one of my closest friends is always checking her love interest's page. She worries over posts from other girls and its just unnecessary. If she were actually dating the guy I imagine he would get a little irritated if he knew.
  • An Nguyen 2012/01/04 00:24:58
    Yes
    An Nguyen
    +1
    It has , twice LOL ..
  • DebraJMSmith 2012/01/04 00:15:08 (edited)
    Yes
    DebraJMSmith
    +1
    Have you seen some of the pictures of women, that MARRIED men have as "friends" on FB? --Hello? Porn pics? Ya, that would tick me off.

    My husband doesn't have a FB page. And I don't list any friends on mine. I just have a links that lead people to my Christian website and my Christian twitter account.
  • Only wishin for the truth 2012/01/04 00:14:52
    Yes
    Only wishin for the truth
    +1
    If u listen to people and dont
  • Sprout 2012/01/04 00:01:29
    Yes
    Sprout
    +1
    It was bound to happen
  • Jeff Nice 2012/01/03 23:59:15
    No
    Jeff Nice
    +1
    Say no but what is real answer. Who cares, I guess.
  • Blossoms 2012/01/03 23:52:55
    Yes
    Blossoms
    +1
    over the internet things can be interpreted differently because you can't always tell what context it is in, also it someone's profile doesn't always reflect someones personality for who they really are
  • Josh Robinson R.P.2012' PWCM. 2012/01/03 23:39:54
    No
    Josh Robinson  R.P.2012' PWCM.
    +1
    Immature jealousy and mistrust leads to those sorts of break-ups... sometimes the crazy one is the person snooping... sometimes the profile is full of signs of actual infidelity and the person had reasons to suspect. Bottom line is websites don't cause break-ups.
  • Bob DiN Josh Ro... 2012/01/04 03:56:09
    Bob DiN
    You are describing Facebook.
  • Josh Ro... Bob DiN 2012/01/04 04:26:59
    Josh Robinson  R.P.2012' PWCM.
    Not my Facebook...
  • moorrbrt1 "In God we Trust" 2012/01/03 23:37:06
    Yes
    moorrbrt1 "In God we Trust"
    +1
    I saw this the other day and meant to pose it as a question. Yes, sites like Facebook cause trouble. I have a friend, who got up with an old flame, and nearly messed up his marriage this way.
  • WhereIsAmerica? ~PWCM~JLA 2012/01/03 23:23:29
    No
    WhereIsAmerica? ~PWCM~JLA
    +4
    Not unless you were headed for one anyway.
  • Rave 2012/01/03 23:11:42
    No
    Rave
    +4
    People's stupidity or unfaithfulness or paranoia leads to break ups. If a Facebook profile can break two people up, then I wouldn't say their relationship was ever that strong.
  • tatilee(: 2012/01/03 22:51:56
    Yes
    tatilee(:
    +3
    "Why is she writing on your wall?" "Why does she kepping liking your status?" "Why did she reply to that with winky face?" IT NEVER ENDS!
  • MLor tatilee(: 2012/01/04 08:04:45 (edited)
    MLor
    Immature website for immature adults! If you need Facebook to live your life (or make it exciting), you're wasting your days & nights. There's a life to live out there ....and it's not on Facebook!
  • doctorwhofan~Tatae~BN-4 2012/01/03 22:51:12
    Yes
    doctorwhofan~Tatae~BN-4
    +1
    I'll just agree with the people who know what they're talking about

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