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Does Denial EVER Fix Any Problems?

Melizmatic 2012/07/19 21:29:07
Just Ignore It, And It Will Go Away. (That Always Works, Right?)
Denial Isn't Just a River in Egypt.
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So once again, 'I haz a ponder.'

Throughout the course of various discussions on this website, I've been observing certain commonalities that seem to be consistent; no matter what the topic of conversation may be, no matter what type of personalities are involved.

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One such commonality is 'willful denial.'

Perhaps it's just the nature of some folks to be arbitrarily contrary, or perhaps some just think that if they disbelieve in something hard enough, they can totally negate its existence.

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For instance, there are those who claim that 'there's no such thing as racism anywhere in this country anymore'; "just a bunch of whiny 'malcontents' playing the 'race card', in order to get some kind of handout."

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Which is a highly interesting POV; to them, I'd suggest asking James Craig Anderson what he thinks about that... if he were actually still alive to give his opinion, that is.

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Then there are those believe that climate change is 'just a myth' or a "pontzi scheme", despite the fact that each summer has been progressively hotter over the last few years, each winter has been colder, storms are becoming increasingly more destructive and typical weather patterns have become very erratic.

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(Snow in Egypt, anyone? Earthquakes in Washington DC, maybe?)

To them, I'd say:


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Then there are those who deny that the apparel of the victims of sexual assault has little bearing upon their predators' decision to target them; as most rapes are committed by people the victims already know; and even 2 year old babies and 89 year old grandmothers have been sexually violated.

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This is my advice to people like that:

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All that being said, this is what I want to know:

People can totally believe (or disbelieve) whatever they choose, but does 'living in denial' actually bring about any kind of resolution?

Or is it just futile "wishful thinking?"

What say ye?

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  • Xerxes,Phantom of PHAET 2012/07/19 23:30:15
    Denial Isn't Just a River in Egypt.
    Xerxes,Phantom of PHAET
    +6
    As a breed(lovely term isn't it) half Apache half white, I can tell you racism is very much alive, need further proof look at my avatar, half of my face was destroyed by racism.

    I believe global warming is very real.

    I believe women are not to blame for their sexual assaults, it is a society that still believes "boys will be boys"; a society that forgives people because they play a sport or act.

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  • mk, Smartass Oracle 2012/07/20 15:07:20
    I Like Mustard on Mah Taters, Uh-Hmm!
    mk, Smartass Oracle
    +1
    Yeah many members are just "out to lunch" and others have it turned on spin cycle.



    political spin cycle
  • Marcool 2012/07/20 14:20:36
    I Like Mustard on Mah Taters, Uh-Hmm!
    Marcool
    +2
    Mustard on taters? I have never tried it.
    IMO, the problem with various discussions that I have witnessed during my short participation periods is that most want to type, but refuse to read.
  • Melizmatic Marcool 2012/07/20 16:58:04
    Melizmatic
    +2
    You may be onto something, there.
  • Philo-OOO For 3 weeks! 2012/07/20 13:38:02
    Just Ignore It, And It Will Go Away. (That Always Works, Right?)
    Philo-OOO For 3 weeks!
    In the case of climate change, anyway. It's simply NOT anthropomorphic. Since we didn't cause the natural cycle of sunspots which are the ACTUAL source of the very limited measurable climate change, and we cannot affect this cause, denial of the LIE of anthropomorphic climate change actually is the best policy.
  • Melizmatic Philo-O... 2012/07/20 16:57:10
    Melizmatic
    Lather, rinse, repeat; color me shocked.

    O_o

    That was an example, not the actual question.

    The question is: does denial ever bring about resolution?
  • Philo-O... Melizmatic 2012/07/20 17:07:06
    Philo-OOO For 3 weeks!
    Sorry, I thought I was clear - yes, denying the lib-prog propaganda of fear that climate change is anthropomorphic does resolve the problem of lib-prog intrusion into the marketplace.

    Because...

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  • Melizmatic Philo-O... 2012/07/20 17:16:07 (edited)
    Melizmatic
    +4
    And you're gone; because I have an ironclad rule about no politics.

    Back to News and Politics you go, dont let the door hit you on the way out zealot.

    And please don't forget to make the requisite post bitching & whining about how 'I'm such a "coward" for blocking you, and how I 'can't handle the immensity of your intellect', and all that other self-serving bias which myopic, obsessive haters like you constantly regurgitate.

    Those are always so entertaining.

    Ta-ta.


    intellect serving bias myopic obsessive haters constantly regurgitate entertaining ta-ta
  • C-ZAR™,... Melizmatic 2012/07/20 17:21:10
  • Melizmatic C-ZAR™,... 2012/07/20 17:23:09
    Melizmatic
    +2
    Some people just cant follow directions.

    shaking my head gif
  • C-ZAR™,... Melizmatic 2012/07/20 17:25:42
    C-ZAR™, Emperor of the PHÆT
    +2
    Tell me about it, lol
    I once saw a girl scout cookie post get political, truly pathetic
  • Melizmatic C-ZAR™,... 2012/07/20 17:27:15
    Melizmatic
    +1
    Some people are only here to bicker and act like total dickwads.
  • C-ZAR™,... Melizmatic 2012/07/20 17:47:22
    C-ZAR™, Emperor of the PHÆT
    +1
    Couldn't agree more, lol
  • Melizmatic C-ZAR™,... 2012/07/20 18:35:29
    Melizmatic
    +1
    And the owners just smile and eat it up; "all traffic is good traffic," because it generates revenue.
  • C-ZAR™,... Melizmatic 2012/07/20 21:29:17
  • Caedus0... Philo-O... 2012/07/20 17:29:22
  • Melizmatic Caedus0... 2012/07/20 17:30:14
  • D D 2012/07/20 12:57:33
    Denial Isn't Just a River in Egypt.
    D D
    I have seen tons of denial on SH. In fact, one of your posters is a denier I have had a good amount of experience with.
  • Melizmatic D D 2012/07/20 16:57:30
    Melizmatic
    Take it up with that person; its not my concern.
  • Stormy 2012/07/20 10:28:03
    Denial Isn't Just a River in Egypt.
    Stormy
    +1
    Denial of the truth is lying to yourself. This means you are refusing to deal with a problem by pretending there is no problem. It's rife ! It doesn't work.
  • rand 2012/07/20 08:48:01
    Denial Isn't Just a River in Egypt.
    rand
    It can postpone them, in the case of anthropogenic climate change, to the next generation.
  • Michael McFascist 2012/07/20 07:11:43
    Denial Isn't Just a River in Egypt.
    Michael McFascist
    +1
    I feel that people mainly do this to preserve their sense of self, who they are, what they believe...sometimes they struggle against the truth because it's too painful to look at, or it may be something that they feel is out of their control (and sometimes it may actually be). That people have their fantasies I can accept (it's a legitimate defense mechanism) so long as they can tell the difference between the real world and what goes on in their heads and so long as they don't try to drag me into their contrivances...I think we all may have some problems with this...I think we all might occasionally tell ourselves little white lies for one reason or another...I know there are probably some that I tell myself to keep me from going insane...maybe some of those lies keep me alive...maybe they keep other people alive too...maybe they help damaged people to live with themselves...

    But, I will agree the underlying problem will never be resolved by refusing to confront it...It just gets put on the shelf until one day maybe, hopefully it gets dealt with.
  • artistheweapon 2012/07/20 06:49:48
    Denial Isn't Just a River in Egypt.
    artistheweapon
    +2
    it never solves problems, just saves them for later
  • Melizmatic artisth... 2012/07/20 16:58:50
    Melizmatic
    +1
    Agreed.

    Until there is no "later."
  • elptrek P.H.A.E.T.'s wizard 2012/07/20 05:45:32
    Denial Isn't Just a River in Egypt.
    elptrek P.H.A.E.T.'s wizard
    +1
    Denial isn't a river in Egypt, but I think you already know that. :-)
    Does the republicans think denying jobs to Americans is a good thing, they must blocking American jobs act 2011, will they block it again, just to bring down the president.
  • Melizmatic elptrek... 2012/07/20 06:09:24
    Melizmatic
    +2
    *lolz

    Let keep the political to a min, if you dont mind, hon.

    You know that some people will leap on it like a football and try to run with it...

    run the ball gif
  • elptrek... Melizmatic 2012/07/20 06:13:44
    elptrek P.H.A.E.T.'s wizard
    +1
    That's fine. Even though politics is part of it, I think it has to do with the country as a whole.
  • Melizmatic elptrek... 2012/07/20 06:21:23
    Melizmatic
    +2
    Agreed.

    Thanks.

    hugz
  • elptrek... Melizmatic 2012/07/20 06:33:49
  • Piper 2012/07/20 03:59:32
    I Like Mustard on Mah Taters, Uh-Hmm!
    Piper
    +2
    No. It must comforting though, for those who refuse to think beyond a certain point.
  • seattleman 2012/07/20 03:52:02
    I Like Mustard on Mah Taters, Uh-Hmm!
    seattleman
    +2
    No. I reckon it just makes things worse.
  • Keeping It Real 2012/07/20 03:29:35
    Denial Isn't Just a River in Egypt.
    Keeping It Real
    +1
    If denial was the fix to any problems I would be a billionaire!
  • Melizmatic Keeping... 2012/07/20 03:49:54
  • C-ZAR™, Emperor of the PHÆT 2012/07/20 02:54:37
    Denial Isn't Just a River in Egypt.
    C-ZAR™, Emperor of the PHÆT
    +1
    Its always best to face your fears head on, not to deny it until they consume you
  • Melizmatic C-ZAR™,... 2012/07/20 02:55:35
    Melizmatic
    +2
    Agreed.
  • Tunnel Vision 2012/07/20 02:38:00
    I Like Mustard on Mah Taters, Uh-Hmm!
    Tunnel Vision
    +3
    When it comes to large scale issues such as the ones you mention here denial is not only useless, but potentially harmful.
    However, small amounts of denial is who the human mind manages to stay even as sane as it is.
  • Melizmatic Tunnel ... 2012/07/20 02:53:39
    Melizmatic
    +2
    Excellent point there.
  • caius madison 2012/07/20 02:13:17
    Denial Isn't Just a River in Egypt.
    caius madison
    Some blatently do it and many let them. Take Obama and the private sector "doing just fine."
  • Melizmatic caius m... 2012/07/20 02:15:39
    Melizmatic
    +2
    No politics, please.

    This question is in the 'Living' section; not 'News and Politics.'

    Thanks.
  • caius m... Melizmatic 2012/07/26 18:36:58 (edited)
    caius madison
    With an answer comes a portion of the pesons personality, so a quick review of my profile will show you that was about as stripped of politics that I get. This is the woes of asking a question on an opinion site I suppose..... sorry to have offended.
  • Melizmatic caius m... 2012/07/26 18:41:07
    Melizmatic
    Dude it's a week later; let's move on.

    Thanks.

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