Does an attractive women who is a virgin seem less attractive?

It makes me wonder what is wrong with her...Everyone loves sex. Those who don't are either liars or a very rare case of exception.

Religion, true commitment preferred rather than f*ck buddies and one nighters, nervousness...these sound like sane reasons to me. Not everyone loves sex and it isn't that important to everyone.

I see. That is a reasonable answer. I guess I said that because where I live religion is almost non-existent so it is very surprising to see a virgin girl over 20. However, I can imagine that suffering from social anxiety would be a pretty good reason.

Nope, I tell everyone I'm a virgin(I am) and guys/girls are impressed.
More so the guys. They want to be the first and neither of them will be.

They must think you are hot too then.

I think so.

I'd give them props.

Attractiveness is intensified by respect and admiration.

Wise words.

absolutely NO,I prefer her to be virgin we will learn together.I am against sex out of family relationship "marriage" at least her virgin will be gift for me.

I wonder if she is not virgin how she will except my virginity?

Thank you! You are the only one to have said that. I respect people like you, but sadly they are rare. I feel the same as you. Thank you for adding me, by the way.

You are most welcome ..I am really happy to find someone we have common under ground understanding from western nation..

What if most I tell you that most of middle eastern and Muslim nations are virgin and don't except non-virgin woman ?

My American friend told me that most of girls in U.S lose their virginity at the age of 19 years old !! when I heard that it was like a shock for me Lol!

though I wanted to marry non-middle eastern girl so it seemed to me mission Impossible to find virgin girl in western nations :(

but I can understand it depends on cultural and than religion unlike us in Muslim nations ..

Thank you again for sharing with me your opinion :)

You are very welcome. I also thought it was much younger than 19. I read between ages 14-17. It is a shame and he was right about Western girls...in general. I choose to be because I do so for my faith, my bodily and emotional health and because I want a real commitment. I respect myself and I deserve to be respected. I admire your culture and know about the morals you guys possess.

Wise move..proud to be your friend on this blog..

Stay like that way..
*Hugs*

Thank you. *Hugs back*

no, but what about the reverse? Is a guy less attractive if he doesnt know what hes doin/?

Yep.

Nope. Thank you for commenting.

I only like virgin men. I don't like the idea of another woman's sweat and other stuff all over him, lol plus it'll be more special. Practice makes perfect, sex is more than just the physical but idiots in society only think it is about the orgasm and nothing else, LOL. People who say yes are obsessed with sex and have little meaning in their lives. Ignore rudeness.

you know there's something called a shower right ?

Sex is physical, want it or not

Making love is more, but it's not the only "sex"

Yep, I'm obsessed but I have alot of others stuff going around. I don't see how it is bad

lol It is just the idea that he was in another woman....doesn't make much sense but it is a feeling of mine that can;t be helped. I see the difference but the way my brain is wired, I cannot separate the two. It'd always be emotional to me. True story. Oh and if you though I was calling you bad I wasn't, I was only stating my preference, it is the same as my preference for male facial hair vs their bare face, haha. I was also adding the last part b/c someone was rude to the person I commented to. It doesn't make you obsessed.

you didn't direct it to me, or someone, but the comment was negative to the .... hmm lifestyle ?

But I can tell you, maybe the guy of your life would see sex and marriage like you... but he might have made a mistake and chose someone else before knowing you. this person wasn't who he expected

and if he dies at 30 yo, will you really expect to find a 30 yo virgin waiting for you?

There are some 30 yr old virgins, but I don't expect it would be easy. Oh and I was irritated at that guy and that is how I expressed it, b/c he mocked virgins. We were both wrong.

yeah but if you can have others people yourself, like in my example, if your first die, expect others to have too

they can have the same situation as you

Oh, I misunderstood what you said. Okay, yeah if I had my first then I wouldn't prefer for them to be virgins, I'd want us to be on the same level then. Otherwise that's hypocritical.

no interest in teaching. And I want someone with a libido

Well if you had to teach them that means they were one to sex which means they actually do have a libido. Just because people are virgins doesn't mean they don't have libidos. Religious virgins can get "anxious" too.

if you're 20 and not having sex, you don't have the libido I need. You wouldn't think it's enough to masturbate

Religion virgins are even worse, they are religious. Not that I judge what they do in their life, but I don't fit with that

More like seeing a reason for self control rather than no libido. It also isn't just for religion. Some people deem marriage as the ultimate commitment and want that commitment before sharing their most personal possession, their body, with someone. I am not preaching, just letting you know what some people want and yes, they do have libidos :)

nope, it's not libido. If you can wait that long. not one that I can live with. it's just the human minimum

Plus, obviously, as I don't even want to wait a second date, I won't wait marriage for someone

I know you don't You told me earlier that it is your culture to talk for 10 minutes and then have sex, I was speaking about the people who do wait. My dad waited 37 years and I know he has a libido b/c he told me if he could sleep with a cute stranger he would. The only reason he waited until marriage was b/c of religion. He said he wanted to experience sex but his dad was suuuuper religious and he is too. Not everyone does the same thing..

still not an enough big libido 37 years ! geez. Libido < religion is not having one. If you are a certain age and 37 is certainly not a guy who wanted to have sex. Agree or not, I won't change my opinion about that

Also shows she has brains

Just the opposite~!

No!

gud

Huh?

gud=good

I know, I was just messing with you!

Huh?