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Does a Bride Have to Wear a White Dress to Her Wedding?

Catch My Party 2012/08/24 18:00:00
Yes, “white” says bride like no other color. Why be mistaken for a bridesmaid at your own wedding?
No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, so make it everything you want it to be and screw tradition!
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I’m more of a traditionalist when it comes to wedding dresses. I like white for wedding dresses and the more “princess,” the better. For me, Kim Kardashian’s wedding dress was a huge success, even if her marriage wasn’t. I’m not such a fan of people stepping too far out of the box like Gwen Stefani’s dress from years back. To see some beautiful weddings and gorgeous wedding dresses (mostly traditional but a few non-traditional) check out these weddings on our site.
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  • ♒ßεllεchεvεllε®♒ 2012/08/24 21:09:09 (edited)
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    ♒ßεllεchεvεllε®♒
    +25
    Queen Victoria popularized the "white" wedding dress. Before that, royalty and aristocracy wore silver, and everyone else wore their nicest duds. "White" representing purity is something made up within the 20th century. The veil represented purity and innocence...not the color of the dress.



    Personally, I prefer an ivory or cream.



    Anyone who brings "christianity" into it is highly ignorant of their history.

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  • handeman 2012/08/26 05:41:58
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    handeman
    +3
    My wife wore a gorgeous red dress us wed
  • Mtnsmith handeman 2012/08/26 16:27:41
    Mtnsmith
    ...and she's gorgeous in it! Great pic.
  • handeman Mtnsmith 2012/08/26 20:12:26
    handeman
    Thank you
  • ~head~f... handeman 2012/08/26 19:30:49
    ~head~first~fearless~
    Wow, I love that color! Your wife is beautiful :)
  • handeman ~head~f... 2012/08/26 20:12:39
    handeman
    +1
    Thank you
  • Nameless 2012/08/26 05:08:46
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Nameless
    +1
    Nope. Wear what you want. The white dress did not become a tradition until Queen Elizabeth I. It's a dumb tradition. Our elder daughter looks awful in any shade of white and wore a beautiful pulled silk black strapless gown. It was stunning.
  • Angecael 2012/08/26 04:53:52
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Angecael
    +3
    Isn't white supposed to represent purity?
    That ship has usually sailed.
  • firebird 2012/08/26 04:09:53 (edited)
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    firebird
    +1
    That old Tradition is quickly going out. IF you actually follow tradition then ONLY the woman that had NEVER been married before and a virgin should only wear white !!! but, that is old hat now. MANY several time brides are wearing white with veils.. Certainly not virgins.

    Wear off-white, beige, greys or anything now... Its supposed to be a memorable and wonderful fun day... Enjoy it to the fullest as its the Bride and Grooms day to shine !

    Recently , I attended the wedding of a friend in her late fifties ( a widow and her second marriage ) . She wear a mid-calf length antique-white ( beige/white) very dainty lace dress with slightly beaded long sleeves with creme colored dainty lace at the top of the bodice and at the cuffs on the sleeves... It was one of the most gorgeous dresses I have ever seen. It was definitely a reusable dress for special and dressy occasions. If I ever get the chance to be remarried I want to marry in something similar to that. It was so elegant and appropriate for her age and second marriage..
  • Cinna 2012/08/26 04:01:30
  • katy.isodo Cinna 2012/08/26 04:31:02
    katy.isodo
    Awesome dress!
  • ChiTown... Cinna 2012/08/26 07:13:47
    ChiTownGirl
    OMG...this dress is beautiful!!!
  • Kaycee ... Cinna 2012/08/26 10:40:29
  • CryingI... Cinna 2012/08/26 19:32:53
    CryingInACorner
    I want that dress!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Kashee 2012/08/26 03:48:30
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Kashee
    +1
    She needs to wear whatever makes her happy, it's her day. If she wants to wear jeans to her wedding, that is her business. If someone doesn't like it they can stay home.
  • beckylee 2012/08/26 03:48:22
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    beckylee
    I'm too pale to wear white, so no, a bride can wear whatever she wants
  • barby karring 2012/08/26 03:33:53
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    barby karring
    Wear what makes her happy.
  • wildcat 2012/08/26 03:25:28
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    wildcat
    +4
    my niece wore a pink dress and she was absolutely stunning.
    Brides should wear what makes them happy. pink wedding gowns
  • Mtnsmith wildcat 2012/08/26 16:29:51
    Mtnsmith
    +1
    Beautiful!
  • Merlin 2012/08/26 03:20:37
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Merlin
    +2
    As long as a woman feels beautiful in the dress, choose whatever.
  • tori 2012/08/26 03:17:27
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    tori
    +2
    Its your wedding. You wear what you feel most beautiful in. No one will mistake you for a bridesmaid! You can still standout if your not wearing white
  • Glitter Baby 2012/08/26 03:17:05
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Glitter Baby
  • Merlin Glitter... 2012/08/26 03:21:07
    Merlin
    +2
    That red one is just gorgeous lol
  • Glitter... Merlin 2012/08/26 03:23:26
    Glitter Baby
    Yeah, out of the two I like that one better.
  • Ruby Dear - The Fangirl of ... 2012/08/26 02:27:39
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Ruby Dear - The Fangirl of PHAET
    +1
    I've wanted this exact wedding dress since I was a teenager. It's not white but it's not bridesmaid either.

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  • Muver 2012/08/26 02:27:34
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Muver
    +1
    While white is traditional, I prefer Cream, or pale pink, or silver/gray or pale blue...
  • jackolantyrn356 2012/08/26 02:07:47
    Yes, “white” says bride like no other color. Why be mistaken for a bridesmaid...
    jackolantyrn356
    Ot is the new tradition 2nd half of the 20th Century and extending into the 21st. Better keep it this way. Th kids are to too stupid to get a 'fix' on decorum
  • SaraBoo 2012/08/26 01:50:31
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    SaraBoo
    +1
    The description says it all; it's your special day, no one should tell you what to wear, as long as you're happy!
  • BReeZY!!!:D 2012/08/26 01:46:41
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    BReeZY!!!:D
    +4
    white is a very traditional color but if a bride chooses to have a different color wedding dress then its her choice. A womans wedding day is one of the most importand days of her life and she deserves to have it the way she wants, within limits, without being judged or limited. My wedding dress is not white. im leaning more toward the black one<3 rainbow wedding dresses neon pink wedding dress  black  wedding dress
  • Dark De... BReeZY!... 2012/09/05 22:17:01
    Dark Demons
    I LOVE that last one
  • BReeZY!... Dark De... 2012/09/06 22:04:11
    BReeZY!!!:D
    me to! i hope to get it custom made
  • jc 2012/08/26 01:28:58
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    jc
    +3
    White is traditional.But,I've seen brides wear other colors.It's their choice.
  • sundance 2012/08/26 01:09:17
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    sundance
    +2
    White is not necessary. As a matter of fact, clothing is not necessary. I have been to wedding celebrations where the bride and groom word wet suits, jump suits and birthday suits. Oh, by the way. The three that I mentioned are still together, and still going strong. So, tradition or longevity? You decide...Just a thought...
  • Christopher Kirchen 2012/08/26 00:23:08
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Christopher Kirchen
    +2
    It's actually a middle ground. White was originally supposed to be for those brides who had not had sex before marriage, white suggested virginity.
  • Dan 2012/08/26 00:22:11
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Dan
    It is just a tradition. But to a lot of people it means something.
  • ehrhornp 2012/08/26 00:20:24
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    ehrhornp
    +1
    And if it is not your first wedding more reasons not to wear white.
  • gracious43 2012/08/26 00:16:11
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    gracious43
    +2
    A bride should wear whatever she feels is most beautiful.
  • Different 2012/08/25 23:36:07
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Different
    +3
    Why should other people be able to pick the color of YOUR wedding dress?! Be you! It's your day. Not theirs. Tell them to suck it up and deal with it. If they won't then tell them to leave. Screw them. They should be happy for you.
  • zbacku 2012/08/25 23:22:55
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    zbacku
    +1
    White is for woman that are pure. There are not many left at marrying age in this time of history.
  • Smokey 2012/08/25 23:14:55
    Yes, “white” says bride like no other color. Why be mistaken for a bridesmaid...
    Smokey
    It doesn't matter....

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  • Depsycho 2012/08/25 23:06:09
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Depsycho
    Wear white if you want and only if you want to. No one can make you wear white if you choose not to.

    I myself aren't a fan of marriage, but if that ever changes, I've already made my choice: RED and BLACK. <333

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