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Does a Bride Have to Wear a White Dress to Her Wedding?

Catch My Party 2012/08/24 18:00:00
Yes, “white” says bride like no other color. Why be mistaken for a bridesmaid at your own wedding?
No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, so make it everything you want it to be and screw tradition!
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I’m more of a traditionalist when it comes to wedding dresses. I like white for wedding dresses and the more “princess,” the better. For me, Kim Kardashian’s wedding dress was a huge success, even if her marriage wasn’t. I’m not such a fan of people stepping too far out of the box like Gwen Stefani’s dress from years back. To see some beautiful weddings and gorgeous wedding dresses (mostly traditional but a few non-traditional) check out these weddings on our site.
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  • ♒ßεllεchεvεllε®♒ 2012/08/24 21:09:09 (edited)
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    ♒ßεllεchεvεllε®♒
    +25
    Queen Victoria popularized the "white" wedding dress. Before that, royalty and aristocracy wore silver, and everyone else wore their nicest duds. "White" representing purity is something made up within the 20th century. The veil represented purity and innocence...not the color of the dress.



    Personally, I prefer an ivory or cream.



    Anyone who brings "christianity" into it is highly ignorant of their history.

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  • CサïCサï xχx 2012/08/27 01:39:51
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    CサïCサï xχx
  • Michelle 2012/08/27 01:17:22
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Michelle
    +1
    Mistaken for a bridesmaid at your own wedding? If there's anyone at your wedding who would actually do that, I'd be a bit worried about what the heck your relationship with these people is and how the heck they managed to not notice you were the bride for long enough for it to be significant.

    While I think white is the best colour for a traditional western wedding, it is the choice of the bride. It's her day, after all.

    But remember, white represents purity and beginnings. While nobody actually follows the rule of "white wedding dress = virgin" anymore, it's best to keep in mind what wearing other colours implies (especially if you actually are saving yourself for the night after you wear that dress), and remember that the "beginnings" meaning still applies. I think that a white dress with colour accents can be very beautiful to.

    And if your wedding is of whatever your culture is and it doesn't have the same traditions, of course it would be weird for people to judge you for it. :P
  • Little Miss Naughty<3 2012/08/27 00:28:18
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Little Miss Naughty<3
    Personally, I'm planning a purple dress for my wedding (if it happens). Wear what you feel like its ur day and no one should tell you how to do it.
  • BUNNIES 2012/08/26 23:50:13
    Yes, “white” says bride like no other color. Why be mistaken for a bridesmaid...
    BUNNIES
    yes.
  • LucyLucero 2012/08/26 22:29:35
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    LucyLucero
    Personally, I want to go the traditional route with a white dress, but not everyone is the same. It's your wedding day, and if you want to go out in a lime green dress, then so be it!
  • Karl 2012/08/26 22:02:06
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Karl
    It's up to the bride.
    red wedding dress
    yellow wedding dress
  • Invidia 2012/08/26 21:47:59
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Invidia
    Its not my wedding so you can do whatever you want, id probaly have a cream or white wedding dress though, it a pretty tradition.
  • Adrianna 2012/08/26 21:18:03
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Adrianna
    Besides, traditionally speaking, most girls that get married today have no business in a white dress.
  • nini 2012/08/26 20:44:57
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    nini
    +2
    its your wedding wear what you want
    colorful wedding dress
  • mallobarb 2012/08/26 20:27:41
    Yes, “white” says bride like no other color. Why be mistaken for a bridesmaid...
    mallobarb
    yes. it is a tradition.
  • BattleB... mallobarb 2012/08/26 21:41:13
    BattleBunnys
    +3
    What does the video have anything to do with the question?
  • mealziz... BattleB... 2012/08/26 22:24:54
    mealzizhere(:
    +1
    yeah, i was like....wtf
  • Sammi </3 2012/08/26 20:25:37
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Sammi </3
    hoping this will be mine wedding dress
  • GoreGirl 2012/08/26 19:34:59
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    GoreGirl
  • melissa.ferns.1 2012/08/26 19:15:26
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    melissa.ferns.1
    I didn't
  • DP 2012/08/26 19:11:44
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    DP
    Conservatives better not pick this one. It's against tradition...
  • Essie 2012/08/26 18:38:16
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Essie
    Somehow,it is the choise of the bride...But I like more the white colour because it is traditional and also it fits perfectly to a bride.
  • TiffanyBelle 2012/08/26 18:25:48
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    TiffanyBelle
    tradition shouldn't be mandatory if it doesn't hold any meaning to the people involved, i say do what makes YOU happy on your day.
    white dress, pink dress, black dress, no dress... it's all about the couple getting married right???
  • GLaDOS 2012/08/26 16:35:33
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    GLaDOS
    +2
    Actually, the older "tradition" is to wear just your best dress. In fact, there is an old rhyme that has to do with the color of your dress.

    "Married in green, ashamed to be seen
    Married in grey, will go far away
    Married in red, wish yourself dead
    Married in blue, always be true
    Married in yellow, ashamed of your fellow
    Married in black, wish yourself back
    Married in pink, of you he'll think
    Married in white, sure to go right."

    Of in China, red is rather popular, I believe as well. So, really, it's not that it's non-traditional, it's just non-new traditional.
  • taggie12 GLaDOS 2012/08/27 03:21:37
    taggie12
    +1
    what about purple?
  • jazzy taggie12 2012/08/27 07:11:22
    jazzy
    NOTHING RHYMES WITH PURPLE!!!!! how dare you
  • GLaDOS taggie12 2012/08/27 18:47:37
    GLaDOS
    Violet is a "royal/spiritual" color. Violet was a difficult color to come by, and it usually meant expensive. So, "royal," I'd imagine would be the meaning.
  • Valerie© 2012/08/26 16:13:04
    Yes, “white” says bride like no other color. Why be mistaken for a bridesmaid...
    Valerie©
    +1
    She DOESN'T have to, but I **definitely** prefer the bride wearing white.
  • whateverbabynevermind 2012/08/26 14:50:27
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    whateverbabynevermind
    +1
    I'd prefer a white dress, but it's every bride's choice.
  • KD35Serbia 2012/08/26 14:15:17
    Yes, “white” says bride like no other color. Why be mistaken for a bridesmaid...
    KD35Serbia
    Every woman can wear a dress she likes, but for me, it's not the wedding dress if it;s not white
  • Tayloe 2012/08/26 12:39:05
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Tayloe
    I already have my wedding dress it's white with a pink side and pink glitter
  • Dane 2012/08/26 12:27:44
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Dane
    +1
    feel free to wear what u want its ur life ur living
  • Little Fawn 2012/08/26 11:52:01
  • clasact 2012/08/26 11:23:47
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    clasact
    I always thought that it ment you were a virgin,and how mant are no a days so wear what color you want
  • Jan 2012/08/26 10:19:23
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Jan
    Most brides I've seen in recent years seem to wear ivory, cream or white in equal numbers. A lot depends on their compelxion and hair colour But every bride looks radiant on her big day so why shouldn't she be the one to wear whatever colour she chooses without being criticised?
  • StrawberryNonsense 2012/08/26 09:14:01
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    StrawberryNonsense
    I think that white dresses are fine but with the 'Why be mistaken for a bridesmaid at your own wedding?' thing, I was in a wedding over the summer and the bridesmaid dresses were a shade of white also.:P But personally I think that the super pale pink dresses are amazing and would compliment my skin tone and hair better than a white dress would.
  • rawrimamoocow 2012/08/26 09:08:22
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    rawrimamoocow
    Its the brides day. If she want to get married in a very loud pink dress than so be it.
  • Zach 2012/08/26 07:32:50
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Zach
    It's the celebration or your hopeful eternal love, so celebrate the way you want.
  • ChiTownGirl 2012/08/26 07:11:43
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    ChiTownGirl
    I personally like white, but it's totally the brides choice and anything goes for your BIG day!!!
  • J.MaisOui 2012/08/26 07:10:44
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    J.MaisOui
    +1
    Its pointless these days,whrn almost no one id virginal.....hypocrits...
  • Cat 2012/08/26 06:44:24
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    Cat
    +2
    It's traditional but not mandatory. Lots of folks say white should only be worn at the bride's first wedding but if she divorces or is widowed she should wear beige or some other color for her second or more wedding. In India white mis worn to funerals and not for weddings, it would be considered bad luck.
    Personally I like white wedding dresses. Wedding_Ed_Cat
  • ChiTown... Cat 2012/08/26 07:12:13
    ChiTownGirl
    Is this you?? You look beautiful!!!
  • Cat ChiTown... 2012/08/26 07:35:59
    Cat
    +1
    Yes thanks, about 35 years ago.
    My profile Pic is me now, with a ponytail, I'm getting it cut next week.
  • The Doctor's Rose♥ 2012/08/26 05:59:13
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    The Doctor's Rose♥
    No, a bride should wear whatever dress she feels most comfortable and happy in. It doesn't matter what color it is.
  • dead girl 2012/08/26 05:57:58
    No, if you want to wear a different colored dress, go for it! It’s your day, ...
    dead girl
    the bride should be able to decide what dress she wants its her day

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