Do you think you have the right to check your mates cell phone ? Yay or Nay ? LOL

do you have the right to check your mate private on you first date

no

Thanks Swan !

In all seriousness, I haven not been in that situation yet,but I know that if I smelled some thing rotten, more than likely Yep. Guess it my security training.

Thanks thejudge !

i thought was bad until i had to experience how much ur partner can hurt you when you know something is wrong... i was never jelous i gave all the freedom someone need to do their own things but when your partner start messing around with your head making scenes and telling you how paranoid you are. suddenly start to behaive diferently, making excuses, getting late because of work, exchange so many texts with somebody he keeps telling you is a man but actually is a woman, he said to you MIKI is a man from Japan and i couldnt realize that actually is a female name in japanese... untill of course you start to putting all pieces together you get the idea something is just not right and so i did it, i am not proud of that but was the only way to know he was cheating on me after 1 month of moving in together...

Thanks Claudia !

Everytime I've been nosy I've found something I wish I didn't know about.

So.. I'm not sure. Is it better to find out a lie and have to deal with it, or just not look and hope your partner is honest?

Thaks GeminiWolf !

No it's wrong. My cell phone was always checked behind my back, I had nothing to hide. My partner had a lot to hide when I decided check his cell one day. It was wrong of me, but I thought why is he always checking mine? So I decided to check his, I was so shocked after years been together, only checked it once. My cell is still audited to this day, I still have nothing to hide.

Thanks Gavin !

Just not cool

Thanks overseanancy !

You are welcome!

A relationship is built on trust without trust you have paranoia. That's awful for a relationship. I have nothing to hide nor does my wife of 32 years. I never check anything; she is a person & deserves a degree of privacy : )

Thanks Emo !

My Pleasure :)

He might have personal stuff between him and a friend that shouldn't be shared with other people.

Thanks Jackal !

only if you have their permission

Thanks darthoz !

yw

Doesn't mean you should. You should have enough trust in them to know they won't do something to ruin your relationship.

Thanks sally !

If you don't have trust, your relationship is going to fail one way or another. My boyfriends phone is his and his alone. If they are cheating, you will know in your gut. Why go through their private property and put yourself in more pain. The rule in my house is, we don't lock our phones because their should be nothing to hide. And if we have a question about our relationship, we talk about it.

Thanks Mechelle !

Your welcome Tudie any time.

It's not a right, it's a privilege. & personally, if you have to check, you have to leave. There's no trust? No relationship. It's hard for some because of trust issues in the past and anxiety, etc., but there should be a limit...

Thanks Kat !

i say yeah because im dating and i think its OK to make there not cheating, and ive caught him more than once checking mine

Thanks Jessi !

My husband can barely figure out how to use his cell phone. He went and complained to the guys at Verizon about how the thing locked up on him, and he couldn't answer it, or hear it. The found him a flip phone and now he can answer his phone without having to unlock it. I don't think I need to check it out, because he still doesn't know how to dial it.

Thanks Joan !

No, thank you. I was able to vent a little about my clueless husband without him hearing me.

LOL OK

Lmao xD it's ok, you're lucky. Hopefully my bf will get a phone he can't use. Everyone is online too much!

That's how my sister found out her husband was cheating on her.

Thanks Diana !

Do you really not trust the person you're with that much? If you don't maybe it's time to re-think who you're with