Do you think sleeping together on the first date is bad?

Not if you are the guy.

A lot of women enjoy sex, snuggling and adult companionship just as much
as we do. Especially if they're cooped up in a house with children all week
long.

Done it before and qite often it's been lots of fun.

Nah.. Its just means you know what you want, Even tho it does cheapen the situation, but the people involved may not be looking for high quality situation.



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Unless by some slim chance the couple got married before their first date.

Just my old-fashioned opinion.

But I wouldn't do it.

why not?

Gotta get to know them a little bit better.

Very antiquated attitude.
But I have my point of views too.
Naturally, there are exceptions and extenuating circumstances and there is lust to consider, but generally speaking, it's a good rule of thumb to wait as long as you can.
Personally, sleeping together on a first date would make me wonder how many other girls he had done that with. While it does (and can) happen, those who practice it often don't end up with the person they boinked on the first date. Is that because of the sex? Hard to say. But the more times you sleep with someone the first time, the more people you have slept with overall in your life.
Besides, isn't sex just better when you know the person? Sure, we all get lustful and lord knows I made some mistakes back in college along those lines, but it's also important that we don't put ourselves into positions we didn't want to be in. This is equal opportunity! It's not just that he won't respect us, but also that we might not respect him.
It's always possible you will sleep together the first night and get married, but it's also possible you will sleep together the first night and be horrified in the morning. So why not wait it out a bit? What's the hurry?
ENjoy, talk, got out to dance and eat with your partner. :)
Good Lucky!

Antiquated but also refreshing.

Having sex on the first date would also make we wonder how many others SHE has done this with. (Most men wouldn't care anyway, they only want to know if they were better)

Yes ! I was trying meaning that too.

it sure don't promise to make the relationship work, When you get into a relationship don't ever rush to have sex that will ruin it all.

Exactly. Peoples go through relationships like a box o' choc'lates.

yeah & I can't stand to see that

Probably, usually.

I always thought if a young lady was that "easy to bed".....how many others had she been to bed with?

that's a good thought

Thanks....its how I always looked at things....

you are looking at it right cause that's really how it is.

Again thanks!

no problem

kind'a SCARY, ain't it?

Yes it is. I can remember when "fooling around" was considered "dangerous" for obvious reasons....but nowadays it can be "deadly". Other than the obvious health and moral issues.... I would think it would be difficult to build a loving and trusting relationship with a woman who jumped in bed on the first date.... But then again I never made the move to make it go that way.

It's only bad if you are offended by being called a slut.

when you're too hungover and can't remember diddly squat.

Call me a prude but No way!

.......BUT.....shes an exception :D

Our society has changed soooo much over the years, most people probably don't care about morality and waiting a while to get to know one another before jumping in the bed so quickly.

Isn't it interesting that people do not see a need to allow a relationship to develop before making the leap to what should be a gift of intimacy?

if you're that sleepy, maybe you should consider postponing the date until you get some rest

it's been a couple decades since i actually dated...

unless you met a hooker... "RESPECT" is everything

If you don't sleep together on the first date it means the date was bad.

Say what? I wouldn't sleep with any one on the first,second, third, fourth date. Women have to be very careful. We don't want to develop cancer from your STD.

....or any OTHER of the MULTIPLE physical and emotional or psychological "side effects"

I would call it a good sign for the start of a new relation.

But people should always look the situation over and be smart about things. :-)

It all depends on what you were looking to get out of the date... if I were serious about the person i would wait but if they just seem like a good time that's exactly what I'd try to get ... as fast as possible and with as little effort as possible. :)

well "bad" wouldnt be the term I would use. Maybe highly unrecommended, or not very smart. On the first date, a person usually doesn't know the other person enough to sleep with them.

In today's risky environment, do you really think you can get to know enough about your potential bedmate to make a life-or-death decision on?

Admittedly as a person growing up during the Sexual Revolution, I did not always feel this way but as the game changes so must we.