I did ten years in the Marine Corps and Navy combined, including many extended deployments of at least 6 months ... then, after grad school, I taught classes on Navy ships for six or eight months at a time, ususally while the ship was underway - did that for a couple of years ... I've been married for twenty-four years to the same woman, who I married immediately after USMC infantry training and remained true to through all of that ... it's a matter of quality vrs quantity, and my having made the wise decision to marry the daughter of a military man ... I have, however, seen deployment rip apart several marriages - but they were apparently weak to begin with
But you can't be in one if you're weak. Or if one of you is weak. You also have to have plans and stick to them.
I just got out of one that went straight to hell because my dude was not right. He did not keep his promises. He was bad to me.
I am a witness. I have been In love with a guy for more than a year. If 2 people love each other, it can work out. It has it's disadvantages: for instance, when you talk about love, you talk about being together physically, hugging and kissing. But hey, if you are going crazy for each-other without being close then it just proves the love.
I don't see the purpose to it. Unless it is to really NOT be committed to a relationship...
I would rather a hands on relationship....not a long distance one...
If there is an end in sight. People make them work all the time. I did long distance for 2 years and now we live together. Whether you live together then one of you has to temporarily move away, or whether you meet online and plan to live together in the future, if your bond is strong enough of course it can work.
Yes it does. He is not around. He is around down the street. Be reasonable. I am not trying to be mean but he might sweet talk the young lady and tell her what she wants to here. Whisper sweet nothings. It's easier from a distance to do that as familiarity does breed some contempt after a while - say 6 months or so. You can be nice forever from a distance
it depends on how you define "work" - a long distance relationship in my experience is never realtisitc, it always seems like when you're together it's like a holiday not real life
I just got out of one that went straight to hell because my dude was not right. He did not keep his promises. He was bad to me.
I would rather a hands on relationship....not a long distance one...