Do you think it's wrong for a 15 yo to be engaged?

by Constantine Posted 2012/07/25 14:05:02

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I don't hav much of an opinion on the subject, but I would hav to say yes.

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Boo! 2012/07/27 10:35:32

Yes

+3
Im not ready to be engaged and im 15...
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Yes

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Michelle 2012/07/27 20:23:44

Yes

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A fifteen-year-old is still learning who they are. They haven't become the person they will be yet: you have no way to know if your partner will like who you are going to be. You can't be ready at fifteen.

If it's going to last, it will last whether they are engaged or not. Engagement just makes it harder when (if) they break it off. From the perspective of someone just a few years older, it reminds me of children mimicking adults.

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LunarRain 2012/07/27 20:04:04

No

My boyfriend almost proposed to me and he was 15. We have been with eachother for over a year but have had feelings for over 2.

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SlaveWaterNymph 2012/07/27 19:50:25

No

As it states when looking up to get a marriage license, you can get married at sixteen with parents permission of course. So i dont see anything wrong with it. If they are ready to get married, why not?

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Triniti 2012/07/27 19:35:40

Yes

They are just a child themselves for that kind of commitment, enjoy your young years and have fun..

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flyingseaturtle BN 2012/07/27 18:09:56 (edited)

Yes

15 year olds should be discovering who they are. 15 year olds can only work a part time job and that is not enough money to live. 15 year olds should be aloud to be kids ;-)

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Paint it Black 2012/07/27 17:28:13

Yes

Yes, the only thing a 15 year old should be engaged is with school and being a kid.

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PumpkinMuncher 2012/07/27 17:08:07

Yes

You always have an option, NO ONE controls your life but you and if they are trying to then you can get help. YOU live your life no one else, dont do something that you dont want that will effect you the rest of your life!!

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TheHushedScreamer 2012/07/27 13:30:00

No

I don't think so. If I speak for myself then yes, considering that I'm near the age of fifteen and nowhere near being ready to have a relationship, much less be engaged. BUT since I'm speaking in general, I believe that some fifteen year-old teenagers can be and are ready to be engaged.

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john 2012/07/27 13:00:22

Yes

Much too young,live a little first and enjoy your teenage years..it proberly will not last....

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Scream 2012/07/27 12:04:36

No

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Not necessarily. Wrong for me, definitely. I'm 15 and I don't even have a partner. But if you're with someone you're ready to be married to then sure, why not? It's not like you're getting married at 15.

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Constan... to Scream 2012/07/27 12:22:17

True. But why hold yourself down like that?

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Scream to Constan... 2012/07/27 12:23:27

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It's not like you can't easily get out of an engagement. I mean, emotionally it might be hard. But in reality it's not anything more than breaking up.

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Constan... to Scream 2012/07/27 12:40:05

Yeh I know I'm talking emotionally.

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Scream to Constan... 2012/07/27 14:09:44

Being engaged doesn't really change that though. You're still going to be in the same place emotionally, regardless of whether one of them's wearing a ring or if they call themselves engaged.
If you want to go deeper maybe the next question would be is it wrong for a 15 year old to be in a deeply serious relationship?

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Constan... to Scream 2012/07/28 01:57:56

Idk. I just don't think 15 is the right age to make a decision like that. I mean, engaged? That's a huge decision and I don't think someone at 15 is ready for a commitment like that. If they are (if they have the mind-set) then good for them, but I believe they'll regret it.

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Eddie 2012/07/27 11:15:08

Yes

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Even with the most intelligent and mature of young people. There are just too many changes both psychological and physiological that happen to a person between the ages of 15 and 20 or 21.

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Constan... to Eddie 2012/07/27 11:17:40

So true. See, that's really MY problem with it too.

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☣Master Gothika☣ ™ 2012/07/27 11:07:44

Yes

On sooooooo many levels!

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FlyAway 2012/07/27 10:58:30

No

I wouldn't say it's wrong, but I don't think it's a good idea. Have fun being young, there's plenty of time to settle down when you're older.

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MlssCue =Go Blue= 2012/07/27 10:45:33

Yes

+2
I have a 15 yr. old & let's just say

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Rose 2012/07/27 10:37:41
Constan... to Rose 2012/07/27 10:53:13

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Just because someone isn't married doesn't make her a whore. That's like saying 'Oh, their sexist? Well at least they're not racist!' Just because their is a worse alternative doesn't make it right.

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Rose to Constan... 2012/07/27 10:58:41
Constan... to Rose 2012/07/27 11:06:29 (edited)

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You have a valid opinion. But I still believe that being engaged at 15 and taking away all availability for your teenage life is wrong. I guess 'wrong' may not be the best word... And I know she could never be whorish at all. If she wasn't tieing herself down like that, I think she'd have a much nicer life. I'm not against marriage, just at that age.

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Rose to Constan... 2012/07/27 11:09:40

I see your side too. She should be a 15 year old, break a few rules, skip classes, etc. she doesn't need to be married now cause that will be making her grow up faster than se needs too. But it's her choice, and Someone has to show her both sides so she can make the right choice, and only she can do that no one else can do it for her.

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Constan... to Rose 2012/07/27 11:15:03

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Yeh I'm not going to change her mind as long as she's happy. But it is still 'wrong' whether she wants it that way or not.

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Rose to Constan... 2012/07/27 11:19:13

Yeah. Just support her as much as you can because she will need someone there for her if it all comes crashing down.

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Constan... to Rose 2012/07/27 11:27:59

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Yeh she will when it all comes crashing down. Ironically enough, I think by the time she realises her mistakes, I'll be taken. It's a topsy-turvy life isn't it?

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Rose to Constan... 2012/07/27 11:28:46

Yeah. Ohh I see. Yeah that kinda sucks on her end.

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Constan... to Rose 2012/07/27 11:30:40

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Yeh it does. She doesn't know it yet, but it does.

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Rose to Constan... 2012/07/27 12:07:02

Yeah just wait till the day comes an it happens. She will have no one to blame but herself cause it was her choice.

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Mark 2012/07/27 10:37:31

Yes

+2
Who wants to settle down at 15? I was a slag until I was about 30.

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Boo! 2012/07/27 10:35:32

Yes

+3
Im not ready to be engaged and im 15...

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(▪‿▪)DoctorWhoGuru(▪‿▪) 2012/07/27 10:34:26

Yes

+2
To young

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rockyjr5 2012/07/25 22:51:22

Yes

+1
15 as a young age for this decade.

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sonofason 2012/07/25 20:06:05
penguins in the night 2012/07/25 19:37:11

No

+2
Wrong, maybe not. Stupid, totally.

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Xitlalilolly 2012/07/25 18:21:59

Yes

+3
cuz they dnt knoee what love is

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wutever 2012/07/25 18:20:40

No

+1
My best friend got married at 15, it was the best thing that happend to her. Her life is a lot better than what it would have been

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