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Do you say hurtful things you dont mean sometimes when arguing with loved ones?

T Champ 2009/11/02 16:40:27
Unfortunately I do this sometimes.....
Yeah, I do it all the time! Its because......
I never do this. I stop myself by:
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Weve probably all done it at some point. Were in the middle of a heated argument with someone and we say something really hurtful that we didnt mean. I want to know how many people do this often and if not, what do they do to prevent it.
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  • Deathblooms /m\ 2009/11/03 15:35:36
    Unfortunately I do this sometimes.....
    Deathblooms /m\
    +2
    I am not usually a person that likes to argue unless I have a good argument, hurtful words can't be taken back even when they say they are sorry. :o(

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  • jesz. 2009/11/07 20:46:13
    Unfortunately I do this sometimes.....
    jesz.
    +1
    , but in dah end iend up apologizing.!
  • ~Goddess of Passion*Pain*Pl... 2009/11/04 02:19:58
    Unfortunately I do this sometimes.....
    ~Goddess of Passion*Pain*Pleasure~
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    well if you call laying the truth on them hurtful then yes. People tend to get angry from the truth.
  • Deathblooms /m\ 2009/11/03 15:35:36
    Unfortunately I do this sometimes.....
    Deathblooms /m\
    +2
    I am not usually a person that likes to argue unless I have a good argument, hurtful words can't be taken back even when they say they are sorry. :o(
  • T Champ Deathbl... 2009/11/03 16:13:39
    T Champ
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    I agree Deathblooms. Thats the danger of saying hurtful things in the middle of an argument. I dont think the person ever forgets.
  • S 2009/11/03 01:52:34
    Unfortunately I do this sometimes.....
    S
    +1
    I have done this once or twice but now I have learned to walk away and calm myself down before coming back and saying we need to talk
  • Attila 2009/11/02 19:18:06
    Unfortunately I do this sometimes.....
    Attila
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    ya, I have done that before. Sad but true.
  • T Champ Attila 2009/11/03 03:12:20
    T Champ
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    I agree Attila, I have too and Im not proud of ever losing my cool.
  • Attila T Champ 2009/11/04 04:21:03
    Attila
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    I am not proud of it either.
  • MickeyRenee~ 2009/11/02 17:41:58
    Unfortunately I do this sometimes.....
    MickeyRenee~
    +1
    Yes I have unfortunately done that. Not something I am proud of though :/
  • Ms.NY 2009/11/02 17:08:21
    Unfortunately I do this sometimes.....
    Ms.NY
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    I believe people do it when that particular person hurt them, so they attack back, trying to accomplish hurting that person in the same degree, in which they were hurt. What most people don't want to admit, is that they do mean what they say, when they do this. Although their argument is brought out in a heated exaggerated way, the issues are still concerns, that they don't know how to disgust normally. To prevent doing this, i would suggest just being honest and open, whether your concerns are good or bad...
  • wombat 2009/11/02 16:54:02
    I never do this. I stop myself by:
    wombat
    +1
    ...not saying anything stupid and not listening if someone else does.
  • T Champ wombat 2009/11/03 03:14:24
    T Champ
    You sound very patient, controlled and mature my friend.
  • Chrissy592 2009/11/02 16:46:41
    Unfortunately I do this sometimes.....
    Chrissy592
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    When I have been pushed to the brink and I can't fight anymore but they won't back away and let me retreat until I am rational again I will say the most hurtful thing possible to get them out of my space and away from me for awhile. I don't want to do it but if they don't respect the "I need to think for a while or leave me alone" they are leaving me no other alternative. I will make them go away!
  • T Champ Chrissy592 2009/11/02 16:53:12 (edited)
    T Champ
    I hear ya. Its like a defensive thing then. I have done the same thing once in a while if I feel someone tries to verbally disrespects me or hurts me. But I dont like to let myself get to that point though. I generally hate arguing. Thanks for the answer Chrissy592!
  • Chrissy592 T Champ 2009/11/02 17:13:53
    Chrissy592
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    You are so welcome T champ :) Love ya hun!!
  • T Champ Chrissy592 2009/11/03 03:13:25
    T Champ
    Hey anytime dear, love you too! :)

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