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Do you prefer to get a massage from someone of the same gender or a different one?

Angie 2009/06/17 21:49:03
I prefer getting a massage from a female.
I prefer getting a massage from a male.
A massage is a massage. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman giving it to me as long as it's good.
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When you go to a spa and get a massage, they ask you whether you would like a male or female massage therapist. It turns out that both men and women prefer female massage therapists. I think the main reason is that we have sexual connotations of massage and having a male massage therapist makes some women nervous and heterosexual men feel awkward. For deep tissue massage however, sometimes it's better have a masseur (male) because they have more strength in general.

When getting a massage (doesn't have to be professional), do you care if it comes from a male or female?
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  • Tex 2009/06/17 22:35:50
    A massage is a massage. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman giving it ...
    Tex
    +4
    I don't care.....As long as I get one! lol

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  • realwomentell 2012/06/28 13:21:48
    A massage is a massage. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman giving it ...
    realwomentell
    I completely agree with the statement below! As a female, I do not have a preference on who is giving me a massage, but my boyfriend does not feel comfortable with a male. I thought a man would be better since he has back problems, but no! I wrote a post about this on my site - couples massage fail!
  • Bird 2009/07/12 23:00:36
    A massage is a massage. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman giving it ...
    Bird
    as long as they do a good job i really don't care.
  • mad hatter 2009/07/01 04:05:51
    I prefer getting a massage from a female.
    mad hatter
    I would rather have the smooth hands of a female caressing my body then the hands of a man
  • roflstephy 2009/06/24 21:36:12
    A massage is a massage. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman giving it ...
    roflstephy
    As long as they know what they're doing. lmao
  • Lindsey 2009/06/23 23:30:27
    I prefer getting a massage from a male.
    Lindsey
    I like man hands... ;)
  • Joker2874 2009/06/22 22:44:05
    I prefer getting a massage from a female.
    Joker2874
    Reason 1. I'm not a pro athlete were the athletic trainer (most likely a guy) would give you a rub down.. 2. I'm a straight guy 3.When I get a massage,if applied right,gets me very horny..It just be so uncool, if my 'pocket rocket' suddenly was 'a go for launch' & it was a guy doing the massage..& I'd hate for that guy to get the wrong im-pression.. I'd much rather a nice, cute, young lady with good, strong, firm hands do the massage..thank you very much...Incidentally..I am a great masseur..And if there are any young single ladies in the BFLO, Niagara Falls, Roch-ester, NY & Ft. Erie / Niagara Falls Canada area who are in need of some stress relief..please give me a hollar..Give
    ya a free demo of my hand talents...
  • Milk Maid 2009/06/22 00:56:55
    I prefer getting a massage from a male.
    Milk Maid
    I love the strength of a males hand...I love my massage to be deep and maybe a little intense...I feel so good.
  • theshleepybear 2009/06/21 03:30:34
    A massage is a massage. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman giving it ...
    theshleepybear
    Either way, I can appreciate their professional skills.
  • HarajukuGirl 2009/06/20 23:14:58 (edited)
    A massage is a massage. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman giving it ...
    HarajukuGirl
    i dont really care
  • chaoskitty123 2009/06/20 19:30:00
    I prefer getting a massage from a female.
    chaoskitty123
    Have only had a few massages and the only time I got a massage from a guy it was from a friend I put a little too much trust in that gay men don't think about things like straight men do... he made a pass at me and almost ruined our friendship. So I prefer massages from the opposite gender if and when I get one where if someone makes a pass at me I'm more game to receive the pass ;P
  • TattooedSailor 2009/06/20 07:03:28
    I prefer getting a massage from a female.
    TattooedSailor
    Id rather get one from a female.. but i did get a mansage once & i felt pretty damn good after it! It just eliminated my interest in a happy ending!
  • Warfinge 2009/06/20 01:55:57
    I prefer getting a massage from a female.
    Warfinge
    The magical touch of a woman for me please. I have a really good friend who rubs my neck every time she visits *sigh* nothing like it.
  • EastIndianFemme 2009/06/20 01:54:17
    I prefer getting a massage from a female.
    EastIndianFemme
    Womyn have softer hands and not so rough..I'm getting a massage not "a sandpaper massage"!!
  • Laneia 2009/06/19 22:43:19
    I prefer getting a massage from a female.
    Laneia
    +1
    Well, after getting some creepy vibes off a male massage therapist once, I've decided to go with females. End of problem!
  • Dirty(oYo) 2009/06/19 21:44:59
    I prefer getting a massage from a female.
    Dirty(oYo)
    He he he he he

    massage female
  • chaoski... Dirty(oYo) 2009/06/20 19:31:07
    chaoskitty123
    Bet she's thrilled with this massage ;P
  • Thanos "In Darwin I trust" 2009/06/19 20:35:28
    A massage is a massage. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman giving it ...
    Thanos "In Darwin I trust"
    +1
    Yes, I like to be groped by a woman but i also like deep tissue massages and most womens hands arent strong enough.
  • TigraIn... Thanos ... 2009/06/20 18:14:23
  • Krista 2009/06/19 19:47:48
    I prefer getting a massage from a female.
    Krista
    If I wasnt Married I don't think I would care as much, But having a massage from a male other then my husband would be to weird.
  • Pele Emerging 2009/06/19 19:08:50
    A massage is a massage. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman giving it ...
    Pele Emerging
    Depends on why I'm getting the massage. If I'm just getting a massage to relieve stress or sore muscles, I guess it wouldn't matter, but if I'm getting a sensual massage, I would prefer a massage by a guy, a sexy guy, a guy with whom I'm involved.
  • Wardian 2009/06/19 18:45:41
    I prefer getting a massage from a female.
    Wardian
    +1
    I get the heebie geebies just thinking about a guy giving me a massage! I would have to break his arms.
  • danceprincess 2009/06/19 18:36:41 (edited)
    I prefer getting a massage from a male.
    danceprincess
    being a female yes. i would want a man massage. a man that looks like this. female massage

    yessssss.....so good lookin!:)
  • chaoski... dancepr... 2009/06/20 19:35:51
    chaoskitty123
    +1
    So I take it this guy would not be acceptable hunh... bet he could get those real deep muscles though like kidneys.

    guy acceptable hunh bet real deep muscles kidneys

    J/K... hope your saturdays going well and your dream guy gives you a massage and champagne in your bubble bath.
  • dancepr... chaoski... 2009/06/21 05:26:38
    danceprincess
    haha. funny. thank you. and that pic is REALLY hurting my eyes.
  • Half-Gi... dancepr... 2009/06/21 15:57:16
    Half-Ginger
    Not my type.
  • Extremist Soldier of Christ 2009/06/19 17:55:56
    I prefer getting a massage from a female.
    Extremist Soldier of Christ
    Women (if straight) don't get an erection- men do- I rather have a woman do my back- I can gossip with her and I don't have to see that large bulk in the guy's pants while he is massaging me.
  • The Dinker Extremi... 2009/06/19 18:52:01 (edited)
  • ♫♥Babymirly♥ 2009/06/19 17:51:39
    A massage is a massage. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman giving it ...
    ♫♥Babymirly♥
    What does it matter? i Massage is a massage!! i just want one. that is all it matters.
  • Jo 2009/06/19 17:44:53
    A massage is a massage. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman giving it ...
    Jo
    I've had only one massage, and that was done by a female. I don't really know if there's a difference as far as which one is better.
  • The Dinker Jo 2009/06/19 19:07:18
  • Jo The Dinker 2009/06/19 20:19:32
    Jo
    That's what it would seem to me -- it would depend on the individual masseuse (sp?). I guess it would get better if people keep coming to you since you learn what they like, what they need, etc?
  • The Dinker Jo 2009/06/20 01:48:33
  • Valentina 2009/06/19 16:44:57
    I prefer getting a massage from a male.
    Valentina
    +1
    They do it better, WAY better.
  • keeper Valentina 2009/06/19 17:13:28
    keeper
    +1
    Yes we do...and I have been told that I possess 'magic fingers'...hehehe ;-)
  • Valentina keeper 2009/06/19 17:21:34
    Valentina
    +1
    I believe you
  • keeper Valentina 2009/06/19 17:36:26
  • keeper Valentina 2009/06/19 17:45:17
    keeper
    +1
    I posted a comment on your profile...I hope you get a chance to check it out ;^)
  • The Dinker keeper 2009/06/20 01:51:27
  • We live to die 2009/06/19 16:24:38
    I prefer getting a massage from a female.
    We live to die
    not to sound immature or insecure with my sexuality but i dont want another guy rubbing all over my body
  • The Dinker We live... 2009/06/19 19:10:18

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