Do you personally need to love someone to have sex with them?

by ☆ElenaDiamond☆ Posted 2013/02/27 15:51:29

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	Yes	117 votes	45%
	No	144 votes	55%

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raquel 2013/03/29 01:21:50
paul 2013/03/02 00:38:59

No

I don't always have sex......... but when I do.......... I LOVE who I'm with!

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Relay 2013/03/01 21:15:40

No

+1
but the love part does make things better

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Fire Starter 2013/03/01 20:58:20

No

I say no because people have sex all the time and don't love each other. I lost my virginity at 23 to my girl friend that i am still with. I have had chances in the past but didn't take them because i was not in love. So I think it is a choice sex is natural and perfectly human so it really doesn't need love to come with it but love with sex is the most pleasurable amazing thing in the world.

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Reaverdon! 2013/03/01 20:11:15

Yes

+1
Much better if you really love someone :)

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artso 2013/03/01 19:56:03

No

As a child of the 60s I would have to say no.

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Savious 2013/03/01 18:51:39

No

Love is not sex; and sex is not love; the two are seperate.

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paul to Savious 2013/03/02 00:40:53

+1
That makes sense but only to me

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lm1b2 2013/03/01 18:50:44

No

+1
If that were true the oldest profession in the world would not exist LOL!

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Jessica 2013/03/01 16:16:45

Yes

yes or i feel like a cheap 1 cent whore -_-

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Taylor 2013/03/01 15:24:49

Yes

Romance makes all the difference.

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john 2013/03/01 14:12:16

No

+1
I can have sex with anyone that I'm attracted to and them to me, but being in love with a person you are going to make love to, is the most blissful experience you can have....I love to love...

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Serenity to john 2013/03/01 14:32:28

+1
your romantic , that's nice xxx "S"

I agree

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Smokey 2013/03/01 14:03:31

Yes

I've done both, but when you're with someone you love, and they give you good oral sex... remember this... "spitters are quitters!" :)

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foxy 2013/03/01 13:40:27

Yes

I have never had a one night stand or a casual relationship, I don't feel I missed out.

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Serenity 2013/03/01 13:30:36 (edited)

Yes

+1
yes but only because after 3 one night stands I realised that the sex really is not that fantastic without the intimacy you get when you are lovers , Making love or even a quickie is 110% better when your partner knows your body , mind , heart and soul but this is just my opinion and many will disagree , mainly guys because you are wired differently not all of you are the same

LOL I HAVE A FOURSOME

And if he can find your G spot "BONUS"

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john to Serenity 2013/03/01 14:06:23

I love to give bonuses, if they are deserved.....there are naughty girls and naughtier girls. Lol..

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Serenity to john 2013/03/01 14:23:32 (edited)

lol babe My mum is above me lmao are you misbehaving in front of my mum again
I would love to know what category I come under lmfao but not in front of My mum lol
your Scarlet
Hey

xxx "S"

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Luv♥Luv 2013/03/01 13:07:00 (edited)

Yes

It's lovemaking...not sex

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mrdog 2013/03/01 10:12:50

Yes

+1
But my Redneck bubba told me he was like Will Rogers regarding women....

He never met one he didn't love....aha...bark

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Live Free Or Die 2013/03/01 08:03:53

Yes

It would be mechanical, meaningless and empty to me without it.

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Brandon Michaels 2013/03/01 07:42:16

No

To have sex with them? No, not really.

To actually ENJOY it on a deeper level rather than just the physical, yes.

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Moodybloo70 2013/03/01 07:17:50

No

Of course not........

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Lorelei 2013/03/01 06:59:21

No

Not necessarily...what I'd need first is a half a dozen Margaritas.

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Sophie 2013/03/01 06:35:29

Yes

+1
I will say yes because I have only been in love a couple of times in my life and it was the best. Have I dated? Sure, but just not the same. Dating is few and far apart for me.

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Mic-E to Sophie 2013/03/01 07:34:24

+1
I agree with you.

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Silverlocust 2013/03/01 06:27:22

No

Definitely not - my God, I'd be waiting years between copulations if that were the case.

Check the voting stats Men v Women lol

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Jenna ☮♡ッ 2013/03/01 06:12:32

No

+1
No. But I will admit, when comparing sex with someone I love to sex with someone I don't love, there is a HUGE difference, at least to me.

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GeminiWolf 2013/03/01 05:57:31

No

No.... but it can take it to a whole new level when love is involved.

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gbruneaulanglois 2013/03/01 05:34:11

No

+1
Lol no...But I will admit though that sex with love is better. But I enjoyed having casual sex pretty much too. Sometimes it was not very good but considering that it's sex...it was still pretty good anyway lol.

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Al B Thayer 2013/03/01 05:33:16

Yes

You mean to feel good about something besides the orgasm?

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You know you wanna Hate me. 2013/03/01 05:27:06
Serenity to You kno... 2013/03/01 13:34:53

explain please

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You kno... to Serenity 2013/03/02 04:46:25

A person can be attractive but completely impossible to bear except for maybe a one night stand.

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Serenity to You kno... 2013/03/02 09:19:10

How is that even possible , surely you have to like something more than a persons body to click xxx

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You kno... to Serenity 2013/03/03 04:59:52

Indeed,but the body is the only thing bearable,the soul is not,that kind of thing.

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You kno... to You kno... 2013/03/03 05:01:58

For some people it goes to show that their body is how they go about living,I personally think that those people are good for a short term thing.There are those who's emotions and soul etc. click with me,that is a different story.

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Sam 2013/03/01 05:22:40 (edited)

No

Now i am saying...this because i am a man...No - Love is suggestible...for it..making love and having sex are two different things. However love is not required..to have sex with someone..but its quite suggestible.

Love is a good thing. Having sex is good to. Me-personally i want to be in love with the person i am hope to marry. However i want to treat the others as they would treat me within the bedroom and yes i would wear a condom.

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Dan 2013/03/01 03:50:18

No

If the feelings are right, you’re both grown adults and you know what you’re about to do than, go for it and enjoy each other’s company for as long as it last.

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Daisy's Brother 2013/03/01 03:37:19

No

Loving someone can take a process of time, when im horny I dont have that long ;)

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