Do you know people who never take responsibility for their actions?

Deborah 2011/05/06 16:17:57
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One of my Daughters has been this was since she was a child. And as an adult she still has this same issue. If she gets into trouble, she deflects blame by bringing up another persons faults. Her typical response is "Well you didn't say that when Blah Blah did it last week" or I'm not the only one who does it Blah did it too". At what point should a person admit to wrong and not worry about what others are doing?typical response blah blah week blah person admit wrong worry
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  • ♥Wild@Heart♥ 2011/05/07 05:48:55 (edited)
    Yes, I do...they tend to play the victim and suck everyone else into their miserable drama-filled lives. They don't see the part they play in anything and seem to think that everyone else owes them something. I have no use for people like that in my life...I prefer to pretend they don't even exist.

    miserable drama-filled lives play owes people life pretend exist poor me

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  • Angel 2011/10/05 18:15:32
    Ummm yeah my little brother and my uncle
  • JoJo 2011/10/02 17:09:37
    Yes I do know people like that
  • Tina Louise 2011/10/02 16:56:19
    Tina Louise
    yes I do. I think it is "easier" to shift blame them admit that they are in the wrong.
  • Tudie BN 2011/10/02 15:47:27
    Tudie BN
    I Sure Do !
  • Laura Lovegood 2011/10/02 12:02:35
  • pixelfaerie 2011/10/02 09:46:52
    Yes a ton of people & that's why I don't gang out with them. I focus on school not on getting in trouble.
  • S. Gompers 2011/10/02 05:28:27
    S. Gompers
    I know to many, that is part of what is wrong with this country.
  • Deborah S. Gompers 2011/10/05 17:56:07
  • Alphamale 2011/10/02 00:52:02
    yes..I know a lot of people like this, I am not. I am not afraid to admit when I am wrong, or accept responsibility for my actions. it is quite distasteful sometimes but that's life.
  • Deborah Alphamale 2011/10/05 17:57:47
    It is indeed
  • kitkat42 2011/10/02 00:50:36
    Yes, and they make me crazy.
  • Deborah kitkat42 2011/10/05 17:58:00
    Join the club (LOL)
  • Shawna 2011/10/02 00:48:35 (edited)
    My ex was a bit like that. Or else, he was so upset about a screw up that he wallowed in his misery. His brother is worse. His brother is never happy in any job and is always complaining how other people are screwing things up and he knows exactly what the solution to all the problems are but nobody will listen to him. Eventually he loses the job and it is never HIS fault.
  • Deborah Shawna 2011/10/05 17:58:41
    I know people just like that.
  • Jack's Pearl 2011/10/02 00:23:26
    Jack's Pearl
    Not really. No one that I can think of.
  • Deborah Jack's ... 2011/10/05 17:58:58
    You're lucky
  • Jack's ... Deborah 2011/10/05 17:59:54
    Jack's Pearl
    I guess. Or I just don't get close with irresponsible people.
  • Deborah Jack's ... 2011/10/05 18:00:51
    Good idea (LOL)
  • Brosia - KarmaRaven 2011/10/01 23:19:13
    Brosia - KarmaRaven
    I had a friend that used to do this, but it was because his mother never wanted him to get responsible. He moved in with his biological father about 2 hours away and he grew up real quick. He now has a full-time job, a girlfriend, living on his own, and has a growing YouTube following.
  • Deborah Brosia ... 2011/10/05 17:59:45
    Sometimes that's all it takes.
  • Brosia ... Deborah 2011/10/06 00:30:43
    Brosia - KarmaRaven
    I once let him live on my couch to help him save money and all he did with it was order pizza every night and pay for WOW. It was such a great turn around that I would love to hang out with him again.
  • Deborah Brosia ... 2011/10/06 00:46:12
    Yeah he sounds like a barrel of laughs (LOL)
  • Charles 2011/05/17 08:51:51
    Yes I know many people who will always place blame o anyone but themselves. Catch them red handed and they will still deny it. I can't understand why either. It's always someone else who is worse or did it first or told me to do that. They never change.
  • story101 2011/05/15 21:56:57
    Yes, I know people like that. But it isn't my fault.
  • crewzer1 2011/05/14 19:06:37
    Isn't this Most of Society.. Hell it is the American way isn't it?
  • xy 2011/05/14 11:32:02
    Oh yeah ...and they r so annyoing!!!
  • yaoifan23 2011/05/13 20:07:01 (edited)
    yes i do my friend jeremy he never takes responsibility for his actions we actually got into a fight just because of something that he did and when he came running for my advise i said THATS JUST TO DAMN BAD friend jeremy responsibility actions fight running advise damn crying person
  • nononsenseguy 2011/05/10 05:38:35
    Yes that would be our president.
  • Ally_Murder. 2011/05/10 01:46:19
    Yes I do and too many at that.
  • concerned dude 2011/05/09 17:46:58
  • mchappell2 2011/05/09 14:50:21
    Some peole are just blameless....I know quite a few like that
  • Queen B 2011/05/08 19:02:20
    Queen B
    I deal with people who exhibit this character flaw on a daily basis.
  • LalaBliss Queen B 2011/06/01 12:19:44
    Me too. I'm married to one!!!
  • Queen B LalaBliss 2011/06/02 02:10:42
    Queen B
    OH MY! = (
  • sharellie 2011/05/08 14:20:01
    Yes, I also know people who take responsibility for things that werent their fault because of some weird guilt thing.
  • Lulu's Mom 2011/05/08 04:18:34
    Lulu's Mom
    Sorry Deborah, I felt it necessary to take down some of my posts on here because some are using it as a forum to attack me therefore are taking attention off the subject that is a serious matter to you. So the subject can get back on track, I will leave so you can get the advise you need for you and your daughter. Best of luck for you and yours.
  • Deborah Lulu's Mom 2011/05/08 17:04:52
    Thanks for your consideration. Sorry about the attacks, some people don't know when and what is appropriate.
  • Blondie... Lulu's Mom 2011/05/09 17:43:03
  • al 2011/05/08 04:02:23
    oldest stepson is self-centered jaskass who does not see beyond the end of his nose. has never taken responsibility once. mommy dos his laundry; he won't put them away just leaves them piled.won't bring used laundry downstairs and complains he has no clean clothes.refuses to learn how to run the dish-washer. very selfish.
  • wtxwoman 2011/05/08 03:36:14
    I have a daughter like that, too. You have to tell her you are not talking about anyone but her and stay on point. Everytime she moves away are trys to deflect blame, bring her back on point. Sometimes they can get violent, so be careful!

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