DO YOU HOLD GRUDGES

by Brownielover504 Posted 2012/06/10 12:03:27

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	YES	29 votes	48%
	NO	20 votes	33%
	Undecided	12 votes	20%

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Thane36425 2012/11/20 01:22:52

NO

Only rarely. Most people who have wronged me aren't worth the effort of holding a grudge and have done more harm to themselves than anything I could do to them. Still, for them and others, it's case of "forgive but never forget." That means no more association with them and they'd better not come looking to me for help in the future because they won't get it because it might be another trick.

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BlackwinterG36C 2012/08/13 10:27:09

NO

+1
I'm an Aries, I often forget what pissed me off in the first place. I just have a list of people I don't trust.

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NYCbrit 2012/06/20 09:53:09

Undecided

Only against the worst people

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Teresa 2012/06/12 19:11:36

YES

Forgive, yes. Forget, never

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Anna 2012/06/12 00:39:11

Undecided

I used to like nobodies business, but then I realized I'd rather sped the effort on other things. I don't really forgive and forget, so much as not worry about it more than necessary.

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aidet 2012/06/11 23:18:56

YES

i do and im not going to change because im the type of person that if you do me wrong then im not going to let you do it again and i will never let you forget it!!

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Charmaine 2012/06/11 05:54:13

NO

+1
Not anymore, I have grown beyond that stage of immaturity!!! However, I do follow the concept of forgive but never forget the BITCHASS who hurt me. I am wary of who I trust!!!

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Bob DiN 2012/06/11 05:35:47

Undecided

Sometimes.

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Raven♥ 2012/06/11 05:25:25

YES

+1
To be honest, yes I do. There are some people I really really hate because of what they've done to me or someone I care about in the past.

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Pele Emerging 2012/06/11 05:21:28

NO

+1
Not really. I try to treat people fairly and forgive them for being human. However, it doesn't mean that I forget and allow them to tromp on me again.

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Bob, the reasonable one 2012/06/11 05:20:06
Marcus Clark 2012/06/11 05:14:55

NO

Nope.

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~*PoliceGirl*~ (>^-^)> 2012/06/11 04:36:12

YES

+1
yeah....im working on that......

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Cameryn 2012/06/11 03:52:27

YES

Lots of them.

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Me 2012/06/11 03:18:38

YES

sometimes

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Dream_the _Timelord 2012/06/11 03:04:56

NO

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Crimson 2012/06/10 23:18:54

NO

I don't.....If you make me angry in a minute or so I'm over it. It's like I don't care anymore. I'll forgive you no matter how cruel it was. I won't forget but I'm not going to hold it against you :)

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kudabux 2012/06/10 22:54:33

YES

+1
Are you kidding? My ancestors came from Southern Italy and if their neighbor killed one of their chickens, they will hold a grudge and hunt them down like a dog. So, yes, it is in the DNA. LOL

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Skye 2012/06/10 22:51:23

YES

+1
Yeah.. :/

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beach bum 2012/06/10 21:06:57

NO

nah

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Mimosa 2012/06/10 21:02:20

NO

It fell out of the hole in my bucket

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Depp30UK 2012/06/10 20:48:35

Undecided

+2
I will sometimes, until I forget about it.

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gkirmani 2012/06/10 20:46:33

YES

+1
SOMEtime s Y E S

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Swan Eshdeh 2012/06/10 20:30:09

NO

+1
alhamdulilah
i forgive but don't forget

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Night 2012/06/10 20:21:39

YES

+1
Only if it's something that strikes a deep chord in me or it's a bunch of small things that built up over time and it just goes to far and I can no longer stand it. I will hold it against them my whole life if it's ever brought up.
I don't actively hold grudges but I do hold them subconsciously only for them to appear visibly when the person I have it against sets me off... Otherwise I let most things go. Really this has only happened to me a few times...

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mk, Smartass Oracle 2012/06/10 20:10:18

NO

+1
Life is too short

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Vijay Pawar 2012/06/10 20:01:06

YES

+3
I am no different than others, it's human nature, it varies from person to person, me the least.

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Kerymi 2012/06/10 17:53:10

Undecided

+1
I try not to, but it happens.

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Viktoria 2012/06/10 17:35:11

Undecided

+1
it depends and even if that i hide em but if the reason for the grudge repeats then it stays around in my head
but sadly i tend to forgive a easily blah

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⚜3rd Street Boss⚜ 2012/06/10 17:20:35

Undecided

+1
Sorta.. depends...

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Pixie·MzAwesome♠ƤĦĂĔŢ♠ 2012/06/10 16:57:56

YES

+5

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Sister Jean 2012/06/10 16:49:35

YES

+3
a few

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pdarkow 2012/06/10 16:47:41

YES

+4
I take a grudge to the grave

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kudabux to pdarkow 2012/06/10 22:55:32

LOL Me too

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Golden Panther 2012/06/10 15:47:54

YES

+4
Yes,.but I do not feel this is necessarily a bad thing. It all depends on the cause or source of the infringement and how much it has harmed me economically, physically, or emotionally. More often than not, I put the matter out of mind but if reminded of the the subject comes up I will never forget or forgive the perfidious actions.

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Vision of Verve 2012/06/10 15:33:39
Rob. 2012/06/10 14:27:00

YES

+2
Yes for about a year,then I let go of it.

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Lady Whitewolf 2012/06/10 13:51:51

Undecided

+2
Depends.

If it's just a couple of MINOR, pissy little things, I usually will let it go. But REPEATED, MAJOR offenses w ill get you blacklisted forever - like my father and a couple of school bullies I had to put up with.

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666_Maggots~PassionForGlory... 2012/06/10 13:50:33 (edited)

YES

+1
I don't forgive/forget easily. >.>

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Luke 2012/06/10 13:45:03

NO

+1
But I don't forget......lessons learned....

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