I get mad and get over it the next day or so. When somebody really makes me mad, I don't waste my time going back for more. Usually if they were a PIA today, they'll be fairly consistent at being a pain!
It takes a lot to get me mad, but I get over it pretty quick. However
once you have made my "bad list", I am not likely to speak to you any
more. Doesn't mean I haven't forgiven you, it just means that I refuse
to get that mad again, and if you got me there once, you will
eventually do it again, so avoidance is my way of coping.
I'm a slow burn...very slow burn. And try as I may if I'm realy offended I can hold a grudge like no other. Must be my Scottish heritage...my own clan holds grudges that go back at least 100 years.
It is true though my clan doesn't give in...I still have family fighting over the burial of a dead relative...who died at least 40 years ago. To somewhat settle the matter he was burried in two places! Only then Scottish could manage something like that.
once you have made my "bad list", I am not likely to speak to you any
more. Doesn't mean I haven't forgiven you, it just means that I refuse
to get that mad again, and if you got me there once, you will
eventually do it again, so avoidance is my way of coping.