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Do You Get Turned On Seeing Your Significant Other Getting Hit On?

imagine2020 2010/03/11 17:32:53
I get turned on whenever my boyfriend/girlfriend is getting hit on...
I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
I think the enjoyment people get out of seeing their loved one getting hit on...
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MSNBC's Sexploration blog discussed a reader's concern over her to-be husband's fetish with hearing about whenever another man flirted with her. She said that he encouraged her to dress sexily so as to attract other men, and that she was becoming increasingly concerned that the move meant that he wanted to see other people.

British psychologist and sex researcher Petra Boynton however, says that this is not the case. She says that it is a common sexual turn-on for men to imagine the woman they love to be having sex with other men. That doesn't mean, she said, that they want that fantasy to come true, only that men enjoy the idea of their girlfriends being wild.

What about you, does it turn you on or off seeing your significant other getting hit on?
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  • Lollipop_Girl 2010/03/11 19:30:38
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    Lollipop_Girl
    +4
    My man is mine I can't stand it when there is some girl hitting on him even more anoying if she knows we are together turned flirting significant girl hitting anoying Don't be messing with my man bitch lol

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  • RED DAWN 2010/03/29 23:35:08
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    RED DAWN
    I don't mind some guy hitting on my lady friend if he don't mind getting hit on.
  • Squint 2010/03/29 05:35:11
    I think the enjoyment people get out of seeing their loved one getting hit on...
    Squint
    It happens all the time. She is very attractive in every way: her looks, her personality, he intelligence and her sense of humor are all irresistible. She deals with it well, she deflects it with good charm and, ironically, we often use that experience later that night - I can't resist her either!
  • Maddie 2010/03/29 02:04:40
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    Maddie
    +1
    I don't get turned on by it but it does not bother me.. And it does not bother me for him to flirt to a point.
  • Squint Maddie 2010/03/29 05:36:50
    Squint
    +1
    How can ge possibly go too far knowing that he gets to go home with you, Maddie! He's a lucky guy.
  • Maddie Squint 2010/03/29 23:26:35
    Maddie
    +1
    Well thanks honey... Maybe I need to let him know how lucky he is.. lol
  • Squint Maddie 2010/03/30 00:04:33
    Squint
    +1
    If he doesn't already know than you need to introduce the frying pan to his head.
  • Maddie Squint 2010/03/30 00:11:34
    Maddie
    +1
    lol hmm maybe I need to then..
  • Squint Maddie 2010/03/30 00:17:31
    Squint
    +1
    Swing it hard, babe.
  • Maddie Squint 2010/03/30 02:04:54
    Maddie
    +1
    hehehehe.. I have found more favorite toys now.. lol
  • Squint Maddie 2010/03/30 02:31:00
    Squint
    +1
    Yeah, but you don't hit him with those. They are reserved for hitting you (in the sweetest sense of the word)
  • Maddie Squint 2010/03/31 00:52:10
    Maddie
    Oh and yes they have hit the sweet spots many times.. I love it
  • Jon Peter 2010/03/18 01:19:19
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    Jon Peter
    I'm monogamous. That's how I roll.
  • knowitallForgotitall 2010/03/17 02:39:49
    I get turned on whenever my boyfriend/girlfriend is getting hit on...
    knowitallForgotitall
    ITT: jealous psychos
  • Dave 2010/03/16 19:41:56
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    Dave
    If she handles the situation properly I don't get mad and I might even like it a little bit.
    but if she flirts with them then the trouble starts.
    They really don't even have to hit on her though,
    because I already know they all want her.
  • cmdrbnd007 2010/03/16 13:31:15
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    cmdrbnd007
    No, I don't enjoy it. It pisses me off to tell the truth.
  • Odie 2010/03/16 00:24:03
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    Odie
    I do not get turned on, however I do take it as a compliment. It means my other Is hot! And oh yeah buddy, she walks with me. Hahahaha :-) Keep drooling.
  • loverandafighter 2010/03/15 20:23:21
    I think the enjoyment people get out of seeing their loved one getting hit on...
    loverandafighter
    is their own business. i personaly dont feel that way
  • sean 2010/03/15 15:06:21 (edited)
    I think the enjoyment people get out of seeing their loved one getting hit on...
    sean
    is sickening! Obviously if you enjoy seeing someone "hit on" as you say, the person you married, then you never really loved them and certainly not respect them.

    Significant other, LOL! I hate that phrase, it's stupid.
  • Amberr :) 2010/03/15 12:35:59
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    Amberr :)
    i would hate to see my boyfriend gett hit on epsecially if its not me whose doin it.
    hes mine for a reason
    and that means that he wants me and not you
    so if he doesnt flirt back thats bcuz hes not interested in you :)
    so please step off!!
    kk thankss :)
    byee
  • professor71 2010/03/15 07:13:16
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    professor71
    ...but it does make her feel good and it makes me feel like I have a sexy and special lady. All that goes out the window if I'm physically with her and a guy comes on to her or makes a crude comment. That will get your ass kicked in a heartbeat.
  • rwayne72160 2010/03/15 02:58:15
    I think the enjoyment people get out of seeing their loved one getting hit on...
    rwayne72160
    I don't get turned on or off when I see Rachel getting hit on. I trust her, but I've always told her, if she decides to cheat on me or falls out of love with me to let me know. I won't start a riot or hit her or the guy she's cheating with. Sure I'd be disappointed, but there are too many other fish in the ocean and you can't force a woman to love you. It's either there or it's not.
  • sean rwayne7... 2010/03/15 15:15:47
    sean
    That's why I would only decide to fall for a woman who only likes me. I can tell when it comes to those kinds of things, which is one of the reasons why I haven't yet got a girlfriend. I have liked some girls like that, but they were either too shy, too busy and zoom!, or already taken. If she's liberal and likes people like Obama, then it's a high probability that a girlfriend or boyfriend would do that. It's against my Christian/republican conservative beliefs to ever do that.
  • Starr 2010/03/14 22:30:16
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    Starr
    It would piss me off! I don't want no other woman flirting w/ my man! & I don't want another man flirting w/ me. I'm happy. That's just the begginning of problems in your relationship if you allow flirting to go on.
  • Zolfie™ 2010/03/14 18:46:36
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    Zolfie™
    I think it depends on a couple of things but I think usually that would be more of a turn off.....
  • itoldyouso 2010/03/14 17:26:41
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    itoldyouso
    If he or she gets turned on than apparently the love thing is dwindling. Even animals don't condone it. They usually kick butt. So are'nt we better than animals. Why even think about crap like this.
  • Aktaar 2010/03/14 12:49:07
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    Aktaar
    Not only do I think it is inappropriate but it would infuriate me to know they have the audacity to do it in-front of me!
  • Catnip 2010/03/14 12:26:06
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    Catnip
    Hell no! I have a nasty jealous streak! I see some guy hitting my woman, I HIT HIM...HARD!!!!! turned flirting significant nasty jealous streak guy hitting woman hit
  • Princess 2010/03/14 08:46:24
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    Princess
    ill go bonkers if some one was hitting on my boyfriend cause hes my man- duh!
  • ɹǝsɐɥɔpuıʍ 2010/03/14 08:29:30
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    ɹǝsɐɥɔpuıʍ
  • 1239631 2010/03/14 08:06:51 (edited)
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    1239631
    +2
    no i do NOT enjoy it.- its infuriating!!.....especially with men becauses if they are getting hit on by the skanky ho's then he is probably doing something to encourage it.........
  • Zero Harte~King of Nothing~ 2010/03/12 22:54:34
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    Zero Harte~King of Nothing~
    I'm a bit over protective when it comes to that....
  • PurpleAshes 2010/03/12 21:47:36
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    PurpleAshes
    Not even a bit..
  • Crazy Bill 2010/03/12 19:43:37
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    Crazy Bill
    +1
    I get pissed off and want to kill the guy, not turned on.
  • itoldyouso Crazy Bill 2010/03/14 17:29:51
    itoldyouso
    It's not worth it. If she does'nt give a crap she'll edge the guy on. If she cares about you then she ignores the idiot. One way or the other you win. She moves on with her way of life and you find a better one. Don't get mad get even.
  • Barbara 2010/03/12 18:36:00
    I think the enjoyment people get out of seeing their loved one getting hit on...
    Barbara
    +1
    is weird id rather it be me, itd make me jelous or angry lol
  • ofbraindoiLack 2010/03/12 12:14:30
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    ofbraindoiLack
    +2
    Nah. I just get more arrogant. :D
  • Maine Guy 2010/03/12 10:45:27 (edited)
    I don't get turned when I see someone flirting with my significant other...
    Maine Guy
    +1
    I saw a guy hit on my wife once (many years ago before we were married) and I didn't like it much.
  • LeifEriksson 2010/03/12 07:16:32
    I get turned on whenever my boyfriend/girlfriend is getting hit on...
    LeifEriksson
    +2
    I'm a jealous husband. If I see my girlfriend react to another guy's approach in a less-than-desired way, it's much easier to quit that rerlationship than it would be to divorce.
  • Spent 2010/03/12 05:37:34
    I get turned on whenever my boyfriend/girlfriend is getting hit on...
    Spent
    It turns me on.
    turned boyfriendgirlfriend hit turns
  • Barbara Spent 2010/03/12 18:36:52
    Barbara
    +2
    lol ew whats tht sposed to be?

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